Date women from United States / California / Paso Robles, 57 year old

Date someone special from Paso Robles, United States. I am sociable, outgoing,affectionate/passionate(with the right person), a good friend. I don't play games, it's a waste of time. I enjoy wine tasting, picnics on the beach, long walks,laughing, a dip in the pool,concerts in park, live theater,movies, flying in small planes with experienced pilots.........all great fun! Just started Tai Chi classes, like yoga, light weights , walking/light hiking for fittness.
Love to cook ( I'm pretty good, it's in the italian blood!), like to grow my own veggies, enjoy entertaining friends. I am just as happy snuggled on the couch watching football or a movie as I am with a night out on the town....it's the company that makes it great!
Love to dance, like many different kinds of music (no rap). I've just located to the central coast enjoy the slower pace.Interested in dating/friends first and see where it goes(if it goes well a long term relationship). Widowed about 3 1/2 years and ready to enjoy the rest of my life (no bitter divorce to cloud my thinking). Will put my partner first & expect the same in return.
I can have fun doing just about anything with the right person! The right person will open my door, hold my hand, give me a hug/kiss when I least expect it, like animals( I currently have 1 cat),laugh, be honest, hopefully like wine(so we can enjoy together but not necessary)..............I guess that's a good start! Like positive people who look for solutions: how to accomplish something rather than reasons why they can't!
I am a realist as well as a romantic.....not quite sure how I can be both, but I am! Everything is better shared........
P.S. I'm not looking for a pen pal !