Date men and women from United States / California / Mill Valley, 54 year old

Date single man from California, United States. I seek to “manifest” what I want in a relationship. So here it goes for what can work for me, leaving room for the magical “chemistry” factor which the Universe will naturally weigh in on.
She will see all the wonder and beauty of life__just as it is.
She will be present, live in the moment, and look me in my eyes when we talk.
She will want to share her opinions about art, books, news, movies, and she will want to hear my opinions. She will enjoy a fine meal with a wonderful wine. She will think I am funny, and I will think she is funny. She may think things are funny that I don't. Laughter is a drug for our relationship. She will be thrilled to see red roses whether it’s Valentines Day, or for that matter, any day. She will want and enjoy cooking with me in the kitchen. She will know how to slice strawberries.
She will need to tolerate my useless skill of naming musicians on FM radio. And be ok with the fact I don’t own an iPod (not yet) and I don’t follow sports. No ice in my water works for me.
She will challenge me, and question me about how I feel, and why I do what I do. She will be more intelligent than me in many domains. She will help me expand my mind, and she will be open and feel safe talking about everything. She will feel comfortable pushing my buttons.
She will forgive me when I have no clue of what American film, less foreign film she is speaking about. She will not think it’s strange that I watch little if any tv/cable. She won't find me sitting and sipping coffee at Peets, or at the MV redwood Island on a weekend, but rather tennis or biking up the railroad grade.
Curiosity, discovery, and awareness drive my direction, but my high energy and appetite for life fuels it. Like me she will "first seek to understand, and then seek to be understood." I believe “You get what you give,” and we give what we want.
She will turn up the thermostat when she is cold without asking me. She does not need to play tennis, but if she does, that really works. She won't protect me from how she really feels about me.
She will have a healthy radiance, presence and enjoy life with warmth and humor. She might enjoy the outdoors and indoors. For me, I won't rough it beyond cabins with great sleeping quarters. I desire to spend the balance of time adoring the beautiful of our country.
She will have the wonder and curiosity that of a child when looking up at the Milky Way___ as if it was the very first time. When she’s not wearing lipstick she may have Carmex on.
She will have a life of her own and communities, and interests that excite her. She may be highly accomplished in her domain and will feel comfortable including me with friends, and me passing on a few. She will assert to leave a fair tip even when dinner service was not so good. She will want to dance late into the night and be carefree. On many evenings she will like to stay in, and do little, or steal a few minutes to work, or relax to evening music.
She will want a easy and naturally flowing relationship where trust, mutually adoration, love, and chemistry fuel intensity.
So if you’re somewhat intrigued by what I seek to manifest and feel we may share similar interests I look forward to you reaching out to me.

Meet people from California, United States. I'm a recently divorced, 54 yr old financial services professional with two grown children, of whom I'm very proud. Since I'm just dipping my toe back into the social whirl, I'd like to find someone who shares my interest in good food, great wine, engaging conversation on film, sports, politics, and current events. I'm not in a hurry and I'm not a "player". I'm old enough to know that good relationships are rare, and they take time and careful nurturing to bloom.

Date a man from California, United States. Looking for a true relationship in the Tulsa, Broken Arrow area, calm and collective, easy going. Hoping to find friendship which can develop in to a relationship and more. Responsible and passionate for life, live and let live. Love the nature and respect it, be a part of solution. No drugs, no alcohol abuse here, just live a clean fun life. I respect my body alot, don't abuse it. I am not a gambler, drinker or use drugs and financially resposible, I expect the same from my partner.

Meet a soulmate from California, United States. I am an entrepreneur and run my own marketing technology business. But my business side doesn't define who I am, other than indicate I am a kind, open-minded, independent, unconventional, and resilient man with the confidence to make my own path in the world. I'm interested in everything life has to offer. I'm a very supportive listener, and a good conversationalist and writer. I'm not only emotionally available, but I prefer a tight bond with the people in my life. I'd like to get to know a woman who is as interested in a deeper emotional and mental connection as I am. However, I am also very open to different people and interests as quite often a wonderful gift can come from someplace (or someone) unexpected. I'll become an interesting and exciting partner to the right person. I'm looking for a great connection with someone eclectic, fun, and deep.
I've been told often that I look and act at least 10 years younger than my age - but still retain a bit of the wisdom I've gained over the years. This makes me fun and interesting to be around - a mature father figure at times, and a fun and imaginative child other times. And there is nothing I enjoy more than being supportive and giving to those I care about. I typically give a lot more than I ask for in return. If there is a special woman out there who also gives freely of herself, I make a great partner in such a relationship.
FYI, I have been separated emotionally and physically for quite some time. I have no problem with commitment and I'm looking for a long-term, committed relationship with someone who is unconventional and unique, but with solid core values such as integrity and honesty.
My preference is to make a real and deeply personal connection with my partner. That makes getting to know one another and all that entails all the more interesting, dynamic, and emotionally fulfilling. Whatever one's preferences might be, it is important to me to make a strong mind/body connection with my partner.
If I had to boil it down to one thought (even though it is rather broad ;-), I'd say my biggest desire is to find a unique and diverse woman with good communication skills, a tender heart, honesty, and emotional stability.

Date men and women from California, United States. I dream of living in a paradise with a kind, good friend and love of my life. With some more dreaming, building, gardening, painting, writing, hiking -- while mangoes, papayas and avocados ripen in the yard. Perhaps a few sips of cafe from beans growing nearby. Loving life while minimizing our footprints on the planet, giving to a community, sharing family, friends and laughter. Enjoying the fruits of reciprocal, unconditional love...
I've recognized that finding the right partner can be a challenge -- it helps to have flexibility, open-heartedness and open-mindedness -- though magic seems to be an important ingredient. Oh, and lots of forgiveness, for oneself and others. Idealism is not expecting everything to be perfect all the time, it just means knowing and aiming for what is best.
Perhaps we can be in each other's dream -- though happy to take some small steps to see if we are kindred spirits...
For those who wonder, I add: I am over 50, healthy, tall, strong, happy, handsome, etc. - I imagine you are over 40, healthy, strong, happy, attractive, etc.

Meet a woman from United States. Hello! Life is good. I have a job a like enough of the time, am healthy have varied interests am spiritually unfolding/urious. I've been single for 3 years am interested in creating a LTR. IРІР‚в„ўm attracted to kindness, dry humor, honesty, lots of affection, adventuresome and curious spirits. I'm looking for someone who likes to explore, feels comfortable dressed up or down, enjoys food but is still reasonably fit, and is emotionally aware and somewhat conversant. I think any successful LTR is based on bringing new interests into the relationship, being flexible, having both shared and alone time, and having mutual respect to want to bring out the best in the other partner. Life is also generally easier with consistent affection and communication -- helps keep little issues...little.
I can be shy, outspoken, witty, gently nurturing and occasionally, fiery. Aesthetics are important to me but my creative interests have remained hobbies, not alternative careers. I keep coming back to Nursing—for me, more soul. Even so, when I volunteer, I usually chose manual labor over more people-related activities.
I enjoy being outdoors, mostly hiking, biking and some gym workouts. I exercise 3x/week. Over the years, I've found that I like to sea kayak, SCUBA, river raft, ski (both kinds), snow shoe, crew for sailboat races. Once upon a time, when I was a wee tyke, I flew 172's. I used to play a lot of tennis but have been sidelined by uninteresting injuries. Golf is low on my list but itРІР‚в„ўs OK if itРІР‚в„ўs high on yours. Sharing the company of friends with homemade food or at a restaurant is still a favorite pastime.
I like to read (mostly fiction, especially if thereРІР‚в„ўs a historical context and some good character development) and treasure my on-line subscription to the NYT and snail-mail Architectural Digest. Current events, in their larger sociological contexts, are much more interesting to me than hearing about the daily theatrical machinations and foibles of our politicians as they make (a muck of) history. I enjoy occasionally attending ballet, opera (more for the set design and costumes than music), lectures on museum exhibits/world events. I prefer to listen/watch the public radio/TV stations rather than the primary networks, although Weeds, Project Runway, The Tudors have been favorites.
Favorite quotes: "To begin is easy, to persist is art." German proverb; "Education is learning what you didn't even know you didn't know". Daniel J. Boorstin. Every Life needs a little space. It leaves room for good things to enter.
In the last 2 years, I traveled solo to Spain, D.C., Seattle, N Minnesota for dog sledding, NYC and Portland. My most successful trips have involved a GPS, a rental car, and my laptop IРІР‚в„ўm scheduled for tandem hang gliding off Mt. Tam "soon" (fickle weather), and thinking of a multisport trip to the Baltic area or Turkey/Italy/Croatia in 2013. My bucket list is constantly evolving but IРІР‚в„ўd rather share it with my honey.

Date a soulmate from United States. I am interested in meeting a man, who can match me on most levels. A loving man, who is kind, cute, intelligent, fun, exciting and sexy.
A real person, that finds things interesting and exciting. He gets the concept of how important "being in the moment" is. I love to travel or just hang out and watch a movie at home with a fire going. I like having my friends over for dinners, and after a game of dominos or cards.
I love how my kid's turned out and I am proud of my family and friends. Most importantly, I am looking for my best friend. Someone who can work in the garden with me, swim and hike, and cook with me, or just watch me cook!!
He must be able to flow easily between being in jeans and a t-shirt to black tie. Kissing and cuddling, and holding hands, are important too.
Its also great for me to have my time away from the action, to rest and just sit in the sun and sleep. My life is really active so its nice to have someone who can just lay back and chill.
I also cherish my alone time, I know we all need to be alright with being with ourselves not always having to be doing something or being with other people. Its critical to who we are to love ourselves too!
We all know how hard it is to keep things exciting and happening, so I am looking for a man that appreciates that and is inventive and creative, with lots of surprises in store for each other.
A trip to Bora-Bora is one of my favorites. A one tank dive, and then back to the digs for lunch in the sun. Napping, after a fantastic meal with lots of fresh organic fare is a must. Walks during sunsets, or at dawn on the beach, when the full moon is gleaming over the water listening to the frogs and the rustling of the palms and just the silence is so sweet.
Doing things out in nature, is very inportant to me. I love the warm ocean, and I am an accomplished diver and skier. Breathing the air from my tank while I take pictures of sharks and whales is the best.
Heading straight down the steepest groomed slope with my music is a blast. Being up on the mountain is where I have such clarity about life, and those " A Hah, " moments.
My friends would say that I am inventive, creative, well mannered with a spice for life, honorable, kind, great cook, loving, and when it comes to a emergency they call me. I have confidence and my social skills are a quality that is lost these days. I take care of myself and care about how I look, in a healthy way.
There are still so many things to do and experience. Having a positive attitude goes a long way with things so crazy in this world. So
bring your A game to the table, and I promise I will too!

Meet men and women from United States. I am an energetic, attractive and fit woman who loves to laugh. I am a single mom to two sweet and happy boys. Sometimes I feel like a combination of Mary Poppins, Myrna Loy, and Catherine Zeta-Jones. (It's a good thing...) My life is full of loving goofy friends, family and lots of activity. I love my job as a wine wholesaler and loved my first career in New York performing in musical theater(seems like a zillion years ago...) I feel blessed to live where I do- the beaches, mountains and GREAT community. I am happiest when having an evening with dear friends and having my guy shoot me a sexy glance from across the room. I love being active outdoors but there is definitely something to be said for cuddling on the couch watching movies. I enjoy my independence but am ready to be once again half of a loving couple. I am excited to meet: a sweet, smart and funny guy who loves kids and knows that the real adventure in life comes from not mountain climbing or traveling to Bali, but building a life of love and laughter with beautiful friends and family...(although don't get me wrong, Bali is great...) Please be fit and energetic with a passion for life.