Date a soulmate from California, United States. I read somewhere that Capricorns age backwards. And I'm finding that to be true.
I started my own company at a young age and had a lot of responsibility. I still have the business (which is based in Beverly Hills, but I live in Long Beach and telecommute most days). But, as a backward aging Capricorn, I have realized that early responsibility robbed me of a bit of my youthful fun and have decided to try to make up for that now. I've relaxed a lot more about appearances and looking foolish. I'm really trying to make the time for the ridiculous and sublime. As such, I have a side passion for photography and could even be considered "semi-pro" at this point. I just had my first group exhibit. I also have an organic community garden plot and love to dig in the dirt! Life gets really clear in the growing cycles of a garden. I'm a regular Laura Ingalls with the planting, harvesting, and canning. There are 50 pounds of tomatoes turned into homemade sauce in my freezer and pints of jam in the pantry as I type.
I love to explore the far and wide (Bhutan/Tibet/Egypt etc) as well as the near and small (water taxi to The Queen Mary). I love weekend explorations, but have also been blessed enough to have had some pretty wild and exotic trips. I'd love a partner who had that spirit of adventure, too. I'm really hoping to meet a man who likes to do active things outside, particularly hike or ride bikes. I am very committed to my yoga classes and have just begun a meditation practice, so would like a partner who will give me space and time to continue to foster those things.
I volunteer as a CART advocate which means that once a month or so I am on call overnight/weekend and if a child has been abused, I act as the advocate at the hospital through the police and forensic exams. I can choose my on call times and amounts, so it's pretty flexible and doesn't really get in the way of a social life, but I would love a partner who had a sense of commitment to the community and at least once in awhile would be willing to go do some volunteer work with me, be it guerrilla gardening one morning or food bank at Christmas etc...
Honestly, I'm looking for someone who makes me laugh, has a sense that there is something bigger in the Universe than us, takes a deep breath when things are tough and then chooses to work towards solutions rather than react or retreat. I want to share my life with a man who wants to live an expansive life in spirit and mind. I desire a man who can be romantic and playful, but not a man-boy. I'm an independent woman, but love old fashioned touches and will swoon if you open my car door (seriously, I love that), walk on the traffic side of the sidewalk, or think to run the bath for me after a hard day. I'm attracted to men who are in touch with their artist in whatever manner that appears (good cook, builds furniture, plays a mean Stairway to Heaven on the acoustic guitar...) I absolutely need the man I spend my time with to be honorable AND honest.
Finally, I just want my heart to beat fast whenever I see him walk through the door.
****Please don't wink or poke or whatever those passive approaches are on match. If you are interested, please just send me an email and begin a conversation. I'll look forward to it.
Meet someone special from California, United States. Looking for someone to explore with and bascially hang with. PLease no head cases or game players. Must be engaged in world activities, basic knowledge of current event and social studies, have a profound appreciation for food and have a delicious sense of humor.
Date a woman from California, United States. I am happy and honest (sometimes brutally?) and checking this out on the recommendation of a friend. . . there is no way for me to describe my ideal match as we have not yet met. I have always had three requirements in a date:
1) smart
2) funny/cracks me up (optional: I crack you up)
3) gainfully employed
That's it :)
HEROES: Good deed-doers. Good deed-attempters. Hard workers. People who help people. People who crack me up.
ANTI-HEROES: Grumpy sh$t-talkers
Interests: Artsy stuff. Home improvement projects (especially tiling and painting) Peace, Fairness, Kindness - not necessarily in that order
NOT interested in: Greed. Arrogance. I can't stand lying. Or games. I think jealousy is stupid.
I am divorced and have 2 kids who "live" with me and go to LBCC, I love them and they are my best thing. I got divorced in December and love my new little place. Sometimes I like my own space.
I don't like coming home to a mess (emotional or otherwise!)
I like a guy that I can admire. I am attracted to guys that adore me. I am a hard worker.
I don't believe that I've ever taken a long walk on the beach on purpose (maybe if I forgot where I parked? Now THAT is something that I've done . . . )
I didn't really get the full chick package: I don't cook (but I make a mean guacamole?) I do clean. I don't shop, get my nails done, or buy 'product' for my hair that costs more than 5 bucks. But I couldn't find true North if my life depended on it. I don't like getting flowers, because they just die and that depresses me. Power tools scare me - I think men should operate them.
I do the LA Times Sunday crossword in pen, so I'm not tempted to make rash choices . . .
ADDENDUM: so wow, I finally 'joined' and now I am overwhelmed! The "No thanks" thing feels harsh, but you have to be able to sort through what Match call 'matches' somehow . . . I am NOT slender, toned, or religious - so anyone who listed those as important is going to be disappointed with me. And as a personal preference, if all of your answers are "I'll tell you later" then sorry - later! No time for mysteries. Finally, to all of my 'soulmates' in FL, NY, Canada: I also don't want to do the long distance thing - I hate a commute. That all said, thanks anyone who stopped by, and good luck with your search!
Meet a soulmate from Long Beach, United States. I am easygoing and carefree. I love my family and friends and I have a good career. I love to travel for vacations or just a simple weekend getaway. I enjoy fine dining, live music, going to the movies and sports events. The person I'm looking for in a relationship hopefully have the same interests and also have their own interest I can adapt.
Date someone special from Long Beach, United States. I'm pretty down to earth and a mother of one who is fun-loving, out-going, and who loves spending quantity and quality time with my teenage son. He's in college now so, it's time for me to re-connect, re-engage and reinvigorate myself and take on a new endeavor. I have a love for dancing so, to meet someone who is willing to be my dance partner for life would be awesome! I enjoy leisure time with friends when it permits. Holidays are time well spent with family and friends. My friends and family describe me as loyal, generous with my time and easy to talk to....which I'm told often. I enjoy the wonders and gifts God has blessed me with and look forward to sharing these blessings with a wonderful man. I love to laugh and be playful so, a kindhearted man with a cheerful personality rank high in my heart. My ideal match must have a love and compassionate heart and patience for all man kind....a man who is confident, friendly, consistent, and secure in himself and honorable in his everyday decisions. I want to share my like/dislikes with someone who enjoys dancing, social/church events, walks at the beach or parks, someone who is not afraid to laugh out louder or cry and show his sensitive side. Who's not afraid to share and be real when it comes to the matters of the heart. My ideal match is looking for a best friend, a lover and partner of a ultimate level of comfort and intimacy. My ideal match is also playful, fun- loving, generous, considerate, honest and faithful to Jesus Christ, himself, his family and friends.
Meet a woman from Long Beach, United States. Family oriented with lot's of love to share! I work hard and enjoy what I have. No time for games, hang-ups or drama. I have been told that I am smart, but please know that I am not a mind reader! Love traveling with family, and alone or with friends. Known for speaking my mind, and keeping it real without being ignorant. Know how to disagree without being disagreeable and do not deal well with being belittled, or talked down too! Very independent but love to be spoiled. Don't like dealing with difficult people, and love a man that can make a decision, but respects me enough to care about my opinions and allow me to take part in any decision that affects me. I treat myself well and expect the same from any man that I date. I love love love my mom and spoil her to the best of my ability. I will never put a man before my childeren even the adult one's or grandchild, and would not EVER expect for me to come before someones child, or grandchild. I belive in God and carry him in my heart always, but do not feel that I must go to church every Sunday to prove that I am a believer. I am looking to date a man that have then same or similar views, who will not try and control or change me, and understands that trust goes a long ways!