Date women from United States / California / Ladera Ranch, 47 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. Stop! Read... Click? I know what I want.... do you?
I am a smart, funny (ok well at least I think so), friendly, and energetic person who is looking to find Mr. Right, NOT Mr. Right Now! I am looking for a committed, monogamous relationship based on passion, mutual respect, honesty, love and a positive outlook. I want a life long partner, but this does not necessarily mean a husband. Oh, and if it's not too much to ask, I'd really like to meet someone who knows the difference between "your" and "you're."
I am a passionate business woman that knows how to balance my career and my personal life. I am well educated, fit, enjoy the great outdoors as well as the great indoors. I am a loving mother of 2 great kids (ages 9 and 12) who live with me 50% of time. I keep my kids private and do not introduce them to anyone I date out of respect to them, until we both feel comfortable that this could lead to something more long term. I am looking for someone who understands and respects the dating life of a single parent, but that doesn't necessarily mean you have to be one yourself.
If you are still reading and made it to this point, then here's a little more about what makes me tick:
I love the beach, hiking, golfing, hot yoga, skiing, swimming, lounging poolside, dancing, working out at the gym, and traveling. I have been to many different countries and enjoy experiencing the customs and cultures of others around the world. I have decided I want to take up tennis again so.... tennis anyone? I can go from jeans to a LBD. I enjoy the finer things in life, but also get great pleasure from In-N-Out, cause that's what a hamburger's all about!
I have the ability to get along with almost anyone. I stay active and am seeking a man who does the same. I like to eat healthy, cook and entertain with friends and family, drink good wine and vodkas, eat at non-chain restaurants with great food and atmosphere, travel without looking like a tourist, sing out loud when nobody's listening, enjoy live music, read interesting books, people-watch, camp, walk along the beach, romantic sunsets, holding hands and exploring new things. I enjoy the movies, museums, art galleries, and sporting events, and read the Sunday paper in bed with a cup of coffee. I have a passion for design, love architecture, interior design, funky hotels, and anything to do with good design in any shape or form. I have spent most of my career in the homebuilding/real estate development industry as a Marketing Director.
Realizing that there is no such thing as a perfect relationship, I am looking for a partner who also understands this, but is willing to continually learn and grow from their experiences. I prefer positive people and am not into playing games. Life is short, so if you think we'd be a good MATCH, then please send me a note, rather than a wink.