Date women from United States / California / Pleasant Hill, 47 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. Thanks for taking the time to read my profile.
I feel that there has to be an initial mutual attraction in order to capture someone's attention.
Then that's when one starts to explore the many layers of ones' personality. I could come up with a list....but that's all it will be a list of who I think I am; and a list of what I am looking for.
That in itself does not constitute a match. I feel that compatibility is not measured by a checklist. Getting to know one another as a friendship evolves is more natural and it is part of the excitement of meeting someone new.
I will say that I am considered caring, and compassionate. I care about people and am very respectful. I am goal oriented and successful in life. I have a positive outlook...which is probably the most important element in someone's personality. I would like to meet someone who believes in romance, is a gentleman at heart and is emotionally open to the idea of a true connection. Someone who is open to explore the possibilities and all that life has to offer. Someone who is witty and has a good sense of humor.....I love to laugh!
Anyway, if you would like to get to know me feel free to contact me....let's talk!
P.S. the little boy in the pictures is my grandson who is now 6. I do love spending time with him!