Date women from United States / California / Aptos, 47 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I am looking for a committed relationship that leads to a happy, lasting marriage with a sensitive, nurturing and optimistic man. I believe that the ability to communicate on a spiritual, mental, intimate, heartfelt and intellectual level is paramount in a relationship for me. It is important for me to have a commitment were it flows naturally, where we fit together, heart, soul, mind, lifestyle, goals, chemistry and values. I would love to meet a man who wants to share in my family and love my children as he would love me. My children are ages 10 and 12 and I have twin boys who are 2 1/2 years old. I understand it will take a unique and special man to appreciate my large family.
My personality is very outgoing and personable. Learning and experiencing new things is something I love to do and hope to find that in my partner too. Someone I can ultimately look up to and respect. I also am looking for a man to share in my quest for spiritual love and growth. If you enjoy cooking I would love that too. I hope that I could meet someone who is spontaneous and enjoys trying new adventures. My children keep me busy, but there is more to life then just taking care of children. Somehow life just doesn't seem complete without the love of a good man. So here I am trying to find one!
One of my favorite things is being home and taking care of my family. Gardening is an activity that I enjoy and also most anything creative. I often find myself most attracted to intelligent men – a person who has an opinion and likes to engage in thoughtful and interesting conversations about a variety of topics including current events, music and the arts. I enjoy reading books and enjoy sharing and talking about life in general.
Life is to be lived to the fullest and I am truly an optimist and things don't get me down for too long. It is an exciting journey to find ones true love. Could it be you....let's find out!