Date women from United States / California / Gualala, 47 year old

Date someone special from Gualala, United States. I am realizing as I am going through this dating process that I tend to live a younger lifestyle and it would only seem appropriate for me to date a younger man. I love to go out dancing and listening to live music, I play badminton on Thursdays, cricket every other weekend, like to hike and bike and go wine tasting.
I want to share the intimacies of a committed relationship, but I really don't see myself getting married again. Not even sure I would want to live with someone. I really need my own space and flexibility is super important, as my work as a Realtor requires odd hours sometimes, and I often don't know where I am going to be from week to week.
Last summer as part of my process of becoming single I lost 30lbs and changed my hair style. This physical change has had a huge effect on how I feel about myself. I've always been fairly self confident in my intelligence and congeniality - but it has been fun to become a new ME!
The most important features in a man are his intelligence and compassion - an understanding that we live on a finite planet with diminishing resources - a love for nature and the outdoors are key. Physically fit is important - you don't have to be a body builder but hopefully pay attention to what you eat and I'm sorry but a big belly is a big turn-off. Well groomed and nice smelling are always good.
I am very social - so be ready for that please! In the past I've found myself drawn to the cerebral but non-communicative types who like to stay home - NO MORE!
I want to travel more in the next few years - just discovered snorkeling in CABO last November - looking for more of those types of outings! If you feel the same let's get to know each other and have some fun!
Let's go play!