Date a soulmate from Atascadero, United States. I have come to see internet dating as a great way to meet people and though there have beena few close calls, I haven't met The One yet...but i think she is out there somewhere. Where I live there is alot of natural beauty but not much in the way of singles who interest me, so this is a great way to expand my horizons.
I'm pretty easygoing and strive for a life that balances work and play, healthy food, plenty of exercise, an appreciation for nature, humor and the quality of life we enjoy here on the central coast. My friends would describe me as intelligent, funny (in a dry sort of way), generous, low keyed, playful, responsible and a dependable and loyal friend. My enemies would describe me as...well, we won't get into that!
I have strong interests in sailing, traveling and horses. I breed champion Holsteiner horses for equestrian sport, mostly show jumping. I have a 35 ft sailboat in Channel Islands Harbor in Oxnard and I see that as a a second home. i also have a large circle of very good friends in the Thousand Oaks / Hidden Valley...my horsey friends. We have the best dinner parties.
I work out of the country, presently for the State Department in Afghanistan and will do that for another year before i hang up my spurs for good and get on with retired life. My recent tours in Iraq and Afghanistan have taught me a few things about how precious life is and have led me to a conscious decision to have more fun, hence the boat. I come home every three months or so for a 3 week break, so that is a built in "brake" to keep things from moving too quickly, which is a painful lesson I learned along the way to here. I plan to get out more, do, see , be more..and have alot of fun doing it. of course doing it all with someone I'm crazy about makes it all the better!I've always been attracted to slender women with above average intelligence, a good sense of humor and a positive outook on life. Natural good looks vs movie star glamour, being brave enough to meet life on its own terms and a fondness for animals are all winners with me. (Note: the pets in this house sleep on the bed. Where do yours sleep?). She should also like the outdoors and enjoy being out in it. Being a good traveling companion is a must! if you get seasick, I have Dramamine but of you don't like the ocean then we probably aren't a match.
I like strong women who have a good sense of self and have discovered I don't do well with people who make life harder than it needs to be. I would choose a tomboy over a girly girl and a golden retriever over a shi-tzu. i am also fond of cats. My idea of a good dog is one weighing at least 30 lbs, likes to play, has good manners and doesn't bark in the middle of the night for no apparent reason.
My ideal match would be someone who is affectionate and playful, likes to get away for trips up (or down) the coast and would rather take the next turn in the road and see where it goes rather than plan a trip. Of course planning a killer adventure is great fun, too. Ladies, I am looking for someone who could be described as (in no particular order, but all are important) sweet, smart, sexy, slender, 50's to early sixties, like s animals and the outdoors and has a great sense of humor. I'm a strong believer in monogamy, so trying to have a relationship with someone who is married to a career doesn't work well for me at this point in life. If that description fits you and I haven't found you yet, please contact me. If not, then I wish you well and good luck!
Meet someone special from Atascadero, United States. I am caring, loving, devoted, passionate, real, honest, in this forever. I need to be held, kissed, touched, desired, respected, needed, and loved.
Flowers make me smile, my dog makes me smile, nature is very important to me. My work is a big part of my life, i spend one third of my life there, a third or more loving and caring for my mate. Life long devotion is what i am looking for 100% giving is the only option.
Date single man from Atascadero, United States. Hesitant to express myself until I know some one, assertive not aggressive - avoid a fight, i do enjoy a good discussion = will play devils advocate, diplomacy is the best policy, polite; appearance is important - casual the norm, recognizing and acknowledging the feelings not only of one self but of others; working on being positive each day, as life is a gift we all share; enjoys exercise or a walk - on the beach, on a trail, sitting down with a glass of wine watching the world grow or even just pass bye, watch a action-mystery, sci-FY-fantasy, love-drama and definitely comedy-family movie; not afraid to travel and most of all some one who is will to share life's wonders with me and Laugh, Live, Love and dance with the stars and your inner child-soul,
Meet a man from Atascadero, United States. I would like someone who is honest, sincere, not judgmental, down to earth, easy going, open and flexible. Someone who likes to travel and enjoys life and what life has to offer. It is important that she is caring, loving, not jealous, communicates and is willing to be up front and willing to try new things.
Date a soulmate from United States. I doubt there is the "ideal" match. But differences and dissonances can add a lot of interest. I'm a very technical type and not a social butterfly (you know an engineer is an extrovert when during a conversation he stares at your shoes instead of his own). Still, my best evidence I have something to offer is that a lovely women enjoyed my company for the last 30 years, but passed away about a year ago. In her words, "I should go out there an do some woman a favor". Of course, I'm sure there was some bias in that. I live alone with no kids, no pets, no plants. I am accustomed to that sort of independence and am probably seeking an independent professional woman who would like to go to movies, concerts, a little travel, perhaps more. I'm pretty sure at my age that I'm not likely to change many of my ways, but you are certainly free to try. I'm not much of a people person but over the years have become more aware that they seem to have feelings just like I do. But my humor is often dark and sometimes misunderstood. I'm politically a mix of conservative and libertarian and am registered independent believing both major parties are sinking this country but at different rates. I used to feel it best that anyone I was involved with had no living relatives withing 3,000 miles. But my last experience has shown I can survive nearby relatives. Whether they can survive me is another matter. On the man/woman thing in general, I'm strongly advocate equality in opportunity and such, but also believe that, generally, men and women aren't quite the same sort of animal. Only a woman could have the courage to have a baby or get up on a gymnastics hard wooden balance beam. For those two reasons, women have my undying respect. Well, there's a hint of that dark humor, but there is some truth in all humor. Hobbywise I like model railroading and railfanning mostly.
Meet someone special from United States. Different, intellectually curious, wide range of interests, like good one-to-one relationships, try to be honest although this sometimes proves to be difficult, try to stay upbeat despite the state of the world.
Date single man from United States. I enjoy going out to dinner, playing pool, golf, scrabble, jazz, recently went camping at Big Sur, what a beautiful place, have you been there? Recently retired oooooooo La La. Ask me questions ! Will reply !Lets talk