Date men and women from United States / California / Aptos, 51 year old

Date single man from California, United States. Let's create together our life long relationship filled with love, purpose, and joy.
Do you like to play and laugh and have more Joy?
I value an open heart and a playful spirit. What would you like to share with me that you haven't shared with anyone else?
Have you ever thought of how much freedom you can have within your relationship? I am currently Polyamorus and will be Mono when I find the right long term primary relationship. I want someone that I can go deeper with and grow forever with. Continually deeper and deeper and better and better. More and more love and in love.
Do you want to feel so comfortable and close that we are best friends? Let's share family and community and continually grow with each other spiritually?
Please be financially healthy, emotionally vulnerable, spiritually growing, and responsible in your communications.
I am available for honest communication, heart connection, deep listening, warm touch, laughter and playfulness, kindness and generosity, spiritual adventure.
I am happy and satisfied in my life and I hope you are too. Would you like more Joy? Love? Play? Common goals?
I like making and eating food together? Let's have adventures in nature together. Let's build a garden together. Let's create a project together that is a healing service for our world. Did I mention Play? I am ready to savor our unique relationship. Let's be increasingly interested in recognizing each others' gifts and be present to our individual and combined growth. And did I mention that I have the ability and interest to love you more than anyone else?
Oh.. and I hope you are willing to show your astrological sign as I find that a good way to get to know each other.

Meet men and women from California, United States. I am a person who appreciates life and am thankful for all the gifts that have shown up in mine. I love to fully participate in living, loving, conversing, thinking, cuddling, dancing, traveling, hiking and just being in the moment like enjoying the incredible beauty of a sunset. Several have described my energy as positive, enthusiastic, open heart, romantic, giving and receiving. I care deeply and love deeply. Whenever I feel ungrateful or upset or realize that I am not really hearing the sound of the ocean, I know it is time to reconnect with the here and now. I am always trying to grow and expand as a person. It will take a lifetime and that is part of the joy of being.
My container is full, not half full. I experience life, revel in the wonders of it and have fun in it. So many wonderful experiences have been had and so many more, unknown ones, ahead. It has been a good journey and there has been much more happiness than sadness going on although I understand that can change tomorrow. I seek a balanced life – my 2 sons, health, fitness, fun, work, calmness and relationship. A loving, nurturing relationship is something I am ready to add and have room for it.
I am looking for a passionate partnership, a relationship where two people work together as a team, uplift one another and journey together toward fulfillment. We will learn how to communicate with each other and see how our differences can fulfill the relationship instead of deplete it. I am looking for a heartfelt experience, an authentic experience, a lifetime experience. I believe the greatest gift two people can give each other is presence – the ability to be fully aware and attentive to each other without judgment or agenda and willing to understand what the other is experiencing and wanting to share. Relationships have their tough times and it is important for us to take them on in respectful, constructive ways. It is all a destination with no arrival point.
One caveat – I listed myself as divorced. I have been separated for 3 1/2 years. Those who know me know I am fully ready and able to create something new. My former and I are nearly complete with the mediation. I do look forward to closure.
If any of this resonates for you, please share. Let’s see if there is chemistry between us. Thanks for taking the time to read.

Date people from California, United States. I am trying this out for the first time and am not sure this online dating thing is for me.
There's been a big part of life missing from my life for many years and I am cautiously putting myself out "there".
I work hard and play hard. Enjoy the gym and mountain biking, tennis, squash.
I always seem to see the best in each person I meet. I prefer to see the world through positive eyes. I believe love is the key to lifes happiness.
I am ultimatly looking for someone to fall in love with and grow old with...Laughing at life, helping others and having quality family time.

Meet a woman from California, United States.
Seeking to raise my vibration on a spiritual level, I am currently on a path toward enlightened consciousness. Gratitude, Acceptance, Awareness, Peace and Love...It feels like I'm living in the Age of Aquarius. I'm letting the sunshine in...
(It recently occurred to me that some of my favorite things actually have a high vibration. Music, cats and color. Hmmmm.....)
By the way, I think Match needs to expand the options for body type. For mine, I would have to select: Beautiful - with a Nice Balance of Muscle Tone and Curves in All the Right Places. (I just couldn't bring myself to check average...but I don't really look like Madonna, either!)
I recently moved from Baton Rouge, Louisiana to pursue a travel nursing career while exploring coastal California. Drove across the country with my beautiful kitties. Dolce and Marbles, two of the coolest cats I have ever known. I'm definitely a cat person, but dogs are really special, too. I love to watch them play on the beach. I'm also amazed by dolphins. I recently swam with dolphins in the wild while snorkeling in Hawaii. My encounter with those intelligent creatures as they swam playfully all around me was one of the most exhilarating experiences of my life. I want to go back to Hawaii and do it again. I would also like to explore Europe, Morocco, Costa Rica and more. I love to travel.
I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE music. From Pink Floyd to Vivaldi. Beethoven and Tom Petty. Rod Stewart. Chopin. Nirvana and Mozart. Elvis Costello. Foo Fighters. DMB, REM, CSNY and U2. Dire Straits, Elton John, Eric Clapton, Fleetwood Mac. The Beatles, The Stones, The Eagles, The Who. Heart and Sting. Tom Jones, Rush, Peter Frampton, Peter Gabriel. Built to Spill, The Flaming Lips, Counting Crows, Lenny Kravitz, The Black Keys, The White Stripes. Lucinda Williams, Barbara Streisand. Dionne Warwick. New Orleans Funk and so much more.The list keeps growing. I was in Radio/TV Broadcasting before pursuing a career in Nursing. Worked at an NBC affiliate TV station. Dreamed of being an MTV V.J. back in the '80s. That job never manifested, but my passion for music just would not go away. Pandora has become my new best friend.
Color. Gotta have it. Fashion, art, design, architecture. Style. Creativity. Fuchsia and Chartreuse. Blue...Baby, Navy, Periwinkle, French, Mediterranean, and Rosemary Beach on the Florida Panhandle BLUE. Sometimes gray is my favorite color...Taupe, Oyster and Mushroom. Black and White. (What is it about black velvet and white cotton?) I am always intrigued by the creative names of colors on those swatches at the paint store. Someday I plan to take up painting. My inner artist wants to come out and play.
I have a beautiful son, a 26 year old artist who lives in Arcata (Humboldt). He is an amazing young man and truly the brightest light in my life. I have learned so much from being a single mother and I'm filled with gratitude every time I think of him and what a special person he has grown to be.
I grew up sailing in Lake Pontchartrain and the Gulf of Mexico. My Dad and my brother are both avid sailors, and they have taught me well. Looking forward to the America's Cup in SF. And taking a cruise on the Chardonnay (70 ft. yacht out of Santa Cruz Harbor). It would be great to meet a sailor.
I'm actually okay with being alone at this time in my life, but I cannot deny my craving for a warm connection. Real love. I hope to find a fun friend, a passionate lover, a special soul. Dreamy eyes and a happy smile. Someone who can feel the magic of dusk and the sweetness of the moon...

Date people from California, United States. Just woke up and realized it's time to start sharing my life and endeavors with a soulmate. Enjoy what life has brought me, but would like enjoy great memories with one who is emotionally available and true to his word.
Love expoloring, getaways, home projects and this lovely area we live in. Have dedicated time to engage in a healthy commited relationship.
Do not have a large family and am looking for low maintenance lifestyles in which focus can be on each other.
Catching a movie, bite to eat, viewing a special event/concert, meeting with friends and enjoying the simple pleasures life has to offer as well as exploring the exotic corners of the world.
Looking for a little reality as well as some fantasy. Sharing the ups and downs that come our way...I enjoy someone who has experiened life and has taken the steps to kindle a fostering friendship toward the development of 'fireworks forever'...
Take care and have fun out there in cyberspace! Love to hear from you when you're ready!

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