Date single man from California, United States. im 510 and one half 202lbs blue eyes brown curly hair. i like to make popele laugh. just looking to meet some one tonight for some fun hopefully you kinda know what i mean so if any one is interested pleaes contact me im safe and clean
Meet a man from California, United States. Well, I think I have about had it with match.com. I came on here sincerely hoping to find a nice attractive lady. Instead, my experience as been 90% ignored, 8% insulted to criticized, and 2% ambivalence. Clearly my outward appearance or at least the impression I present is somewhat less appealing than my apparently deluded self image. Nonetheless, I am locked into Match for the next two months so if you read this and you wish to send a message, as long as it is not snide, rude, critical, insulting, or a phony come-on, feel free. Either there is something wrong with me personally, or this experience is a lesson about the kind of women who sign up for online dating.
If you read through that, and you are still reading, maybe there is a chance. I am not compulsive, or obsessive, but I am relativiely organized and systematic about how I approach new situations...like dating. I think most women do not like this, but to me spontaneity is only possible after you have met the person you can be spontaneous with. There are so many beautiful and wonderful women in the world, like a field of lovely flowers. You would think a person could find just one that they could keep forever needing never to traverse the field again. But not me... Each time I have trodden the field, I have returned with Iron Weed, Deadly Nightshade, or Bull Thistle. None of these stay fresh in water. Either I have been blindly and unluckily picking flowers or the field is far more laced with stickers than I thought. Not that I mind thorns, just not ALL thorns. I think a Rose would be nice. If your touch is delicate, you can avoid most of the thorns and the rewards are worth the effort. Actually, I think I would prefer a Lily, a Tiger Lily would be nice.
Okay, if you've made it this far you are probably in the top 10% for tolerance or you are plagued with morbid curiousity. Unless your number one and two character traits include kindness and courtesy, no matter how morbidly curious you are, stop now and save us both pain.
I am a kind person. I almost always put other people before myself. You will never see me crowd through a door ahead of someone else to dive into a parking space that someone else has been waiting for. You will see me hold a door open for the person behind me at the bank or let the person with three items go ahead of me in the grocery store when my basket is full, or give the little kid ahead of me the dollar he is short for the hotdog and soda he just odered at the park or ballgame. I am by no means perfect and I come with plenty of my own thorns. I do lots of dumb things but I also do lots of good things. I truly appreciate intelligence but not when it is used as a tool to damage others. Believe me, I weild the sword of words as well as anyone and better than the vast majority. But I won't do that even to people who do it to me. Or, at least, I will attempt restraint. The danger for people who think they are intelligent is the inclination to use that intelligence to denigrate others to demonstrate that superior intellect. But, a superior intellect loses its luster and mars the outward beauty of the being if it comes from an unkind soul. I've had enough of that.
I want to have fun; to drink and eat, and smoke cigars. I want to enjoy what is left of my life with one woman who doesn't need to be right or superior any more often than she is wrong or inferior. I don't want or need a boss or a servant. I want to spend my time with a kind, thoughtful person. I want a person who expects to be supported completely by me but also expects and values the truth as I see it as honesty not criticism and is not compelled to respond with payback. I want a woman who is tolerant of te pecadillos of me and my family as I am of those of hers. I want a woman who is beautiful to me. But only if the beauty is a reflection of her heart. Beauty is irrelevent if it masks a cruel heart. If you made it this far
Date someone special from California, United States. Hmmm, what to say??? How about I'm a nice guy looking for a nice girl. That's simple enough, i have a hard time talking about myself so this will be kind of brief. One of my favorite things to do is play golf, i took it up about a year ago and try to get out to play a couple of times a month. I try to stay fit and eat well, it doesn't always happen but I try. Any exercise is better than no exercise right. I like to take long walks, sometimes those walks are on a golf course, great combo by the way. If you would like to chat hit me up ok.
Meet a soulmate from California, United States. Hello I am a white male age 51, 6 ft. 1 inch tall weight proportionate looking for an honest real woman with no drama. I love playing golf, movies, playing pool, taking walks and am for the most part outdoorsy. I love cooking and spending time watching movies at home and cuddling with that special someone. I am at a point in my life where I am discovering how to improve myself both spiritually, mentally and physically.
I am looking for a woman who have similar interests but am flexible to their interests as well.
Also, I will be relocating to Sacramento area in a few months.