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Date a man from California, United States. I am very intelligent and funny, time will fly when I am having good time with good company.
I am looking for someone who is happy to enjoy life with without drama.
I love to make people happy and I get great satisfaction when I make someone's day
you will have great since of security since I am loyal and kind at heart.

Meet a soulmate from California, United States. I put forth a lot of effort into my profile I believe you get out of it what you put into it Thus, get comfy, we might be here a while (lol) Thank you for reading my profile!
It's been an interesting past few years, probably for all of us, right? In my last go-round with online dating, I was dealing with tons of family emergencies, illnesses, and deaths - just not fair to anyone, including me
During that time my last relationship and I tried again - just didn't work out in the end Beautiful lady, warm heart, we just couldn't pull it together in the BIG picture Kenny Rogers said "gotta know when to hold'em, know when to fold 'em, know when to walk away, and know when to RUN! I learned a lot from that experience, most of it good (I hope anyway) I am ready to find my next forever girl ASAP
I've never been one to date a lot - always been in relationships However in this online world I understand we must meet (aka date) to see if any spark connection or chemistry exists ALL I ASK IS THIS: Please look like your posted pictures Not 50lbs heavier, 10 years older, etc. If you MUST "reduce your age in your profile for the sake of attracting those to whom you are attracted" PLEASE clean it up in your first correspondence to me I promise you I am who I say I am
About me: I don't smoke/do drugs I do enjoy a drink socially I AM A NICE GUY (I do not believe nice guys finish last!) My Mom raised me to respect women I pride myself on opening doors, giving LOTS of flowers, walking on the correct side of the sidewalk, treating my lady with "old-school" manners and respect
As for athletic, average, etc (body type): To be clear I am definitely athletic as I have played baseball/football and now golf at very high levels I am at the gym 4-6 days/week. However I do not have 6-pack abs or a 32" waist Im a BIG BOY (big chest, big legs, big hands/feet (size 12) you get the idea) Just putting it out there I don't eat junk/fast food I tan every other week (being a golfer, if I didn't you wouldn't like to see me w/o clothes (lol) No really L-O-L! I take "farmer's tan" to a whole 'nother level Trust me it's not pretty I am not ready to give into my gray hair yet so I leave a little in and get rid of the rest I get mani/pedis once per month I have NICE feet (I've seen other guys' feet in the gym (nasty!)
Is this the MOST HONEST profile you've ever read?
OMG I'm out of room! I'll Cliffs Notes the rest:
I will happily provide details about my kids/income after we get to know each other
I'm not a player and am not looking for one Yes, it goes both ways (you know who you are :)
I am NOT possesive, but extremely protective You will always feel safe with me
I'm not the hit-it-and-quit-it guy Intimacy is much more than a physical act to me
Don't be shy! I may be the ONLY man online who answers EVERY email that comes his way
Who I'm looking for: I want someone feminine, soft, has lots of love to give who knows how to ACCEPT being loved (sounds simple, but apparently - not so much) spontaneous, funny (no cliche' here I'll make you laugh and hope you can make me laugh) inspirational (see funny), athletic, energetic, motivated, passionate, happy, family-oriented Is that asking so much?
I am a "cup is half-full" guy NEGATIVE BREEDS NEGATIVE I've had ENOUGH of that! If you believe that a couple MUST fight in order to grow together or REQUIRE drama in your life to feel better about yourself ... see above
Communication is key If you are willing to communicate your needs, wants, desires,feelings, I will make every effort to reciprocate
I believe in PDA (Public Displays of Affection)
I MAKE time daily to do something to enhance my life. Hope you want the same. We could/should inspire each other, right?
Thank you for reading my mini-novel! Probably need a bathroom break by now (lol)
VERY IMPORTANT - If you don't feel I'm the one I sincerely wish you the

Date someone special from California, United States. It's hard to describe yourself and what you are looking for in a few words so I've decided on simple. I really think you need to talk live, face to face and have many experiences with a person to really know who they are.
I am a person who enjoys laughter. I think it makes tough times bearable and happy times even better. I adore my children, and value family. I am affectionate, caring and enjoy conversation, sometimes with wine, cheese and good bread or a yummy cup of coffee, one of my comfort foods. I will go just about anywhere without make-up and my hair up in a clip, I can also get all dressed up for a nice evening out, but really enjoy just being comfy, so if you're looking for the girl that has the face on and hair done perfectly all the time, I am not your girl.
I enjoy many activities and exercise as many days a week as I can. It keeps me feeling great mentally and physically, it also allows me to eat the things I like. A run on the beach is good for a few of my favorite cookies! I also enjoy playing tennis, although I am not very good, but am trying to get better. I ride my bike for exercise, I don't like it very much, but some things are a must. Yoga, tap dancing, i've done it since I was 4 years old, and hiking are some other favorites.
Entertainment, I really like to do pretty much anything. I am always up for new experiences. I can have fun going out or staying in. It's really all about the company you are keeping. If I enjoy being with you, I enjoy being with you no matter what we are doing, it's pretty simple. I want to find someone that is interested in building a deep friendship rooted in trust, and move on from there. I am simply looking for someone to share life with and have fun with. I am looking forward to some new adventures, good times and love that I'm sure is ahead of me.
I have only a little experience in dating, but have learned that it is important to state what I want and expectations upfront. I'm fun, am very affectionate, enjoy adventurous, open sex, I'm funny, spontaneous, have a great sense of humor and also enjoy just laying around on a Sunday afternoon. I truly enjoy the attention and affection of a man in my life. I'm interested in finding someone to share my life with, not just have sex with. I know this may seem a bit bold, but hey...you know where I stand. So, if you are still reading, I guess that's a good sign. I look forward to hearing from you.
Kym

Meet people from California, United States. A little about me...
I am looking for honesty and good moral fiber. People in our age group should be done with "playing games". Our age group has an advantage over any other age group because we are still physically young and healthy, as well as mentally and emotionally mature. I'm not into seeing someone who has multiple girlfriends or is a serial dater. And if you're legally separated, you're still married, so please pass me by.
You must be self sufficient, kind, loving, and emotionally available. I'm a bit old-fashioned. I appreciate when you open and close the door, walk on the correct side of me on a sidewalk, or give me your jacket if I'm cold, etc.
I'm very happy with who I am, and where I am in my life. I'm easy going. No drama, so please disperse from any drama. It's unhealthy.
Please don't expect a response if you live too far away. I'm flexible, but we need to be realistic.
I work hard three days a week, and love my job.
I enjoy a great life and would like to share it with someone. If you don't have a photo, I won't respond. We need to see the cover before we open the book.
If you e-mail me and you have a picture, I will e-mail you back. It just seems like common courtesy. I would appreciate the same courtesy of hearing back - one way or the other - if I e-mail you.
Thank you for reading this, and good luck in your search. There's someone out there for everyone.

Date men and women from California, United States. I'm a fun loving girl with a huge heart, very compationate, but strong when I need to be. Family is everything to me! I surround myself with good people, I'm looking for someone to share new experiences with, who is trustworthy, someone who makes me laugh and someone with the same values and morals as me. I'm passionate about life and living it to its fullest!

Meet a soulmate from Ventura, United States. I enjoy simple pleasures such as dining out, happy hour, wine tasting, conversation with friends and making new friends, weekend getaways to Cambria, Lake Tahoe, Vegas, museums, window shopping, just walking hand-in-hand along the Ventura Promenade without talking. You know what I mean? Love road trips! Just driving down a road to see where it leads. I am very adverturous. I have skydived over 250 times. That was back in the 80s when skydiving was still evolving from being a military activity into a sport. Last jump was 1997 when 2 friends help me lie my way onto a plane! I am a positive person and enjoy interacting with people in public places. I try to learn something new every day.
I am looking for a man who is confident and knows who he is at this stage in life. Someone who enjoys open, honest communication. If you are an introvert, we probably would not be a good match!! I am looking for someone who is interested in a long-term relationship. I think laughter is so important in a relationship! We don't have to share all our interests for I believe it is good to have separate activities to keep our time together interesting and fun.
So we all know there is a lot more to each one of us than we can note in our profile. My approach to this is to meet a person before emailing back and forth several times. A simple coffee date is enough to learn whether or not we want to get to know each other more.

Date a woman from Ventura, United States. I would like to say that my friends describe me as the out-going, kind, and a fun-loving person, who is always a joy to be around. I have many great qualties to share with the right person. I'm proud to say that I have no drama in my life and I plan to keep it that way. Life is too short to sweat the small stuff!! I'm looking for someone who is outgoing, passionate about life, drama-free, no games or player types that just want to have fun. I'm serious about meeting someone who is true and wants to begin with a foundation of friendship and see where it may go from there. I'm new to this internet dating thing...so wish me good luck! By the way, I'm a few years older than 47...my friends say I don't look or act a day over 40...lol... I have a very young spirit....and by the way, my pics ARE recent!!

Meet someone special from Ventura, United States. IРІР‚в„ўm pretty easy going and down to earth. I like to enjoy what life has to offer. I have not traveled much but I recently got a passport (no destination as of yet) and IРІР‚в„ўm ready to go! IРІР‚в„ўm independent and I am not looking for some one to take care of me. Rather, IРІР‚в„ўm looking for some one to share my day with, enjoy a nice dinner and a good bottle of wine, snuggle with watching a movie, or where ever the mood takes us. I enjoy being outdoors (especially since IРІР‚в„ўm inside M-F at work). Love hanging at the beach, by the lake, or just taking walks. Wine tasting is a lot of fun, throw in some good food, window shopping, and taking in the local sights and I call that a good day.
I enjoy cooking and trying new foods but IРІР‚в„ўm really a steak and salad kind of gal, donРІР‚в„ўt really like seafood too much. Please donРІР‚в„ўt hold it against me.
I have 2 boys (22 and 17). My oldest is leaving for college in August and my youngest will be a HS senior. I am a bit of a tom boy thanks to my jet mechanic Dad. I have been in and around machine shops and the manufacturing industry for most of my life. I also work in the manufacturing industry and have worked very hard to achieve my current position as Director of Quality Assurance.
I'm looking for someone that enjoys the outdoors, likes wine tasting (and more). Occasional weekend trips to Solvang, San Luis, Palm Springs, or just away! Hate big cities (unless there is a specific destination). Really like to camp (in an RV) and window shop. I am always ready to try new things. I can be a homebody so I'm looking for someone to "get me out of the house"! I can be pretty shy at first but once you get to know me I am very easy to be with. I'm ready for the next step in my life. Who's ready to join me? DonРІР‚в„ўt want to tell you everything about me in this forum, so letРІР‚в„ўs meet for coffee or a drink. Shoot me an email and we can see where the winds take us.

Date people from Ventura, United States. I would like to meet someone to spend fun times with. I love life and want to live it to it's fullest, don't want to miss a thing. I can be spontaneous, sometimes a little too much. I love the beach and outdoor activities, but also like quiet times at home. Want to see the world.

Meet men and women from Ventura, United States. In a man I value honesty, reliability, passion. A man who is the highlight of my day. Someone to laugh with...(I'm laughing right now at my profile....what was I thinking).
I'm not the kind of girl who needs a man to do things for her, but I am the type who appreciates it when he does....absolutely.
Do you have a good sense of humor, a sense of spirituality, are you educated, I'm I asking too much?
People tell me I'm very sweet, kind and loving...affectionate. If you're nice to me I'll fall in love no problem. I like humor, wit, irony, (but not ironing). Truly a big kid at heart, very spontaneous and full of energy, an optimistic kind of person that is driven and has a positive attitude, tenacious, zest for adventure.
Yes my adventurous side will spontaneously get in the car and go out of town, it may just be the town 10 miles away, but just the idea going somewhere unique and 'away' especially from masses of people. Ring any chimes? Love going to places I've never been and explore!
I have a passion for life and all living things. I don't live in the past, have learned to 'let go'....the past is history, future is a mystery, and yes all we have is now (I wrote that)...
I am just like everyone else (in one sense). I like the mountains, oceans, eating, traveling, cute babies, nice cars, flowers, sunsets, puppies, sleeping...,walking, wandering, hot tubs, massages...the moon the stars. Bit of a tomboy, grew up with brothers know a lot about cars. Love all kinds of animals and my favorite is just being in nature. Music a big part of my life and playing the guitar (I'm not great but still have fun).
I cook, I create images, and I entertain. I am sensitive and psychological, surrealist, comedian, romantic, mechanic. I am a bit of a nerd too...you might see me reading "the history of dogs" or something wonkish like that. Real Estate investments have given me financial freedom to travel. I've eaten in 35 countries and still working on nibbling my way around the world. Eat Pray Love rules.
I admit I am definitely different and unique than the average person....not 'the norm'..... Looking to connect with someone who understands and can relate to my free spirited lively energy.
Let's face it. You know if you are attracted to someone in the first few seconds. LA is very difficult to meet someone. It is like a disneyland on steriods...with 25 million people, no wonder it's so hard to connect. Ventura and Santa Barbara area is awesome, less crowded. Patience and persistence is the key.

Date a soulmate from United States. IРІР‚в„ўm witty and funny (ok, at least I think I am!) and I love being around people who are truly genuine. I can be a real goof-ball sometimes and love laughing out loud. I sing in the car, smile at strangers, and help those who need an extra hand. That's normal for me and I hope it is for you too.
I take advantage of the beautiful weather in Ventura and bike (whenever I can), hike (often), and kayak (I have two kayaks of my own... so you could join me!). I also hit the gym regularly and consider fitness a way of life..., but it's not my life... i.e. I'm not obsessed, but I definitely make it a priority... I just like doing things. I love being outdoors and enjoying the sunshine.
I am attracted to a man who is kind, quick-witted (can hold their own with my smart-ass friends!), and well... happy. I'd like to meet someone who has friends and family they love and trust and someone who is honest and playful in their daily life. I want a relationship where we share stories, laugh at inside jokes and smile at each other knowingly. I am a true friend, intelligent, generous and simply looking for that special someone.
Ok, some basic background info on me... I changed careers 10 years ago and became a high school math teacher. I find teenagers extremely entertaining, enjoyable to be around, and I still truly love my profession and all that it offers me. My background is in the software/technology industry and I did the corporate life to an extreme. Even though I loved my old job, teaching for me is truly rewarding and I still drive fast to work daily.
I do not have children of my own, but if you have children, I know it's a blessing. I'm flexible (schedule-wise and in other ways you may discover later...:-) and believe a good relationship is about balancing family, work and play.
I'm originally from Ohio (been in CA over 20 years now) and I've been described as "Mid-Westie" ... full of life and energy, playful, engaging, real, entertaining, grounded, generous and loyal. I have friends and family over for dinner, wine, intelligent conversations and lots of laughs regularly and I've been told I'm a great cook... I can usually whip something up pretty fast that's healthy and delicious. A good game of poker is a great night as is any type of card game or board game. I'm quick to laugh and believe we have to deal with life with a great sense of humor. I like to dress well and look sexy for that special someone, but don't mind getting dirty either... I mean I actually sweat when I workout! :-)
I love to travel and am willing, ready and able to travel anywhere right now, maybe this weekend! I strive to go somewhere new every year, but I also visit friends and family often. I have guests at my house several times a year too because I live in a wonderful and beautiful area! There is more... so much more!

Meet a woman from United States. Fun and professional...balanced with East Coast energy and West Coast friendliness fun and active lifestyle. Very easy going and often can laugh at myself. Laughter is the best medicine. I like to make people happy and I like to be happy. Life is a journey and I am enjoying every moment of it.
A bit feisty but always a lady. Spiritually grounded. Love to Laugh!! I would like someone to cherish me and compliment my life and wish to do the same for my partner.
I like to dress up for a night on the town as well as cook and snuggle while watching a movie or sports.
Love to watch sports especially football and baseball. I like outdoor activities such as golf, fishing and camping, beaches and mountains.
I seek a man who takes his profession seriously yet also has the time to socialize and have some fun. Comfortable in a sports bar, dive bar as well as upscale venues.
Looking for kindness, a gentlemen with a good sense of humor, honesty and integrity.

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