Date men from United States / California / Kelsey, 63 year old

Date someone special from United States. I am just a guy looking for the girl, that makes the sparks fly. I do not expect to have everyone fighting over me. But there will be that one that the chemistry is just right. I am not sure it is the first sight sort of thing, so it is important to get to know the other person. To listen to every word and to absorb the moment to make sure nothing is missed.
I feel it is my duty to make sure my partner has the best time we can have at the moment. I take it personal if she is not having a good time. But I also feel it is important for both of us to work as a team, and each of us try to help the other to have a good time.
I am more prone to quiet intimate time than being with crowds. It may be a problem if there has to be a lot of family and friends around. So we must make sure we are compatible with each other and not need a crowd to buffer.
It is so very important for her to be able to talk and to be able to tell what she is thinking about. If there is any anger of frustration I feel it is so very important to discuss it at that time and not let it fester. If you can n ot talk to me then there maybe should not be a we.
I have this over whelming desire to cover my partner with all of the love I have. I want to be able to show as well as tell. I also would like to know it from her as well. So if there is a problem showing or telling about how much care and affection there is and being demonstrative is so very important too, then it should be found out early. I will show and tell just how much I care.