Date men and women from United States / California / Menlo Park, 51 year old

Date men and women from Menlo Park, United States. I muse with friends often that love is more likely to be found in the aisles of Safeway than in the safe environs of Match, where most folks post false pretensions and illusions - who they want to be rather than who they are.
Very charismatic, upbeat, like to have fun but am fairly industrious if left to my own devices. Believe in fighting for the right things, and do, but am wisely choosing battles right now. I am very creative, lifelong learner, constantly thinking, very active, becoming a better relaxer and taking up hobbies and new sports. I have very high values and I do my best to stick to them.
I'm a dad and that's a huge part of my life, so my match will have or have had kids so that they understand the priorities of being a parent. I have three independent teens who prefer not to be seen with a parent attached, but I need to be there in a snap when that ride is needed or some bucks are required. I have to wait for those all too rare moments when hearts are open and ears unplugged - that's being a parent.
I have passion and compassion aplenty, so my life is about focus and purpose, choosing agendas. I'm certain I'm going to make a large difference in this world, and the time will come with patience, which isn't one of my strongest suits.
I love music, all kinds, am a Pandora addict! This is a major work in progress, and frankly, I've found that these profiles mean nothing relative to the unique and illusive chemistry between people. But, this whole dating thing is a numbers thing!
Bottom line: I don't take Match too seriously. It's a tool, just like shopping at Safeway, or going to church, or running the dish...just another way to meet people. The pressures with 'meeting' on match.com defeat the purpose...so no pressures. If I can meet some new friends along the trails of life, schedule alot of communal dinners and events, it's all good. Love finds us, I don't think we can find it.

Meet people from Menlo Park, United States. First and foremost, I am looking for a woman with whom to start a family. So with all due respect, I'm really only interested in ladies who are quite sure they want to have children.
About me? I think I am cultured, intelligent, romantic, robust, witty, humorous, humanistic, liberal and imperfect. More interested in mind and body connection and not hung up on earnings and superficial concepts of success. Widely traveled and always open to new experiences. Grew up in England and have lived and worked in Toulouse, Zurich and Munich. Likes, in random order: NPR, Radiohead, Neil Young, Dawkins, Sushi, physical affection, Egyptology, foreign travel, Russell Brand, Malibu, Baker Beach, Grove Cafe, Kepler's author events, Sudoku, the business pages.
I am looking for a woman who is naturally beautiful, fun-loving, at peace with herself and open to experiencing and enjoying life. A woman who knows how to live in the moment, to really feel it, and appreciates how sharing can enhance an experience. Someone with a liberal attitude and open mind and heart. Rich or poor, educated or not it really doesn't matter so long as the chemistry is there. (Must be keen to have one or two kids!)

Date a woman from Menlo Park, United States. I enjoy someone who is easy going and loves the out doors, especially the beach.
On the whole I do not like to sit around or listen to drama, over that.
Having good friends is also a big part of my life and family too.
I spent six yrs.on nine different cruise ships sailing to various ports around the world.

Meet men and women from Menlo Park, United States. I am a high energy lady who looks forward to spending my life with someone who wants to live life to the fullest.
I love sports, the arts, dining and entertaining at home. Speaking of which I love my home, my dogs and the great outdoors. I hope that you do too;)

Date people from Menlo Park, United States. Hi there! I believe the connection between two people starts with the chemistry. If there, then you can go almost anywhere if both are willing to give and take. I am a giver by nature so I will give before I take. I am passionate, compassionate, and with both comes very loving and overall a generous and kind-hearted soul. I am old fashioned, but can enjoy that meal cooked for me once in a while; I am independent, but enjoy having the one I care about me wrap their arms around me; I am well-rounded, but always want to learn from you; I am very social (am told often that I bring a spark into the room) yet can be comfortable with a quiet evening at home. I read voraciously, and listen even better. I have twin eighteen year old daughters that are my joy, and want a man who understands that having raised them these past eighteen years is a commendable way to have spent my time. I love to travel, whether a simple weekend away or somewhere exotic. Overall, I am easy to be with; you will find me kind, happy, funny....and ready for any journey. Let's go!

Meet someone special from California, United States. I am a positive, loving, affectionate person. I believe good communication and a sense of humor are vital to maintaining a lasting relationship. I am entering an entirely new phase of my life and I'm ready to be patient and open to that process. I'm looking to share time with someone who approaches life with a sense of curiosity and openness, who has a great sense of humor and looks at life with a "glass half full" approach.
I love being active and enjoying outdoor activities (especially on the weekends... hiking, swimming, biking and walking our beautiful nearby beaches). I also love a nice meal out with great wine (and great company) or a romantic evening staying home and just snuggling to watch a movie or read by the fire.
I put a big priority on staying healthy and keeping fit and love exploring new activities and challenges.

Date a soulmate from California, United States. Life has been good to me and I enjoy each day. Like most, I treasure my family and friends. I enjoy taking in a Giants game, or the
occasional round of golf, with my nephews as well as hiking with my nieces.
I keep myself fit with yoga, swimming, walking and interval classes. My diet is on the healthy side with weekly visits to the farmers market, but I also enjoy a good burger or a slice of pizza and a beer.
Travel has been my passion ever since I studied abroad in college. I worked in the travel industry for almost 20 years and love to discover new places. I am always planning my next adventure; Portugal is right around the corner!
I am interested in meeting someone who is kind, honest and confident. Ideally, I am seeking a person who also leads a fulfilling life, and with whom I can forge a connection. Hopefully, we make each other laugh and as things progress, a friendship and relationship should come together naturally. I understand no relationship is without work, but chemistry is important and I believe that when its right,
things should click.

Meet a woman from California, United States. If you want me, then you have to believe in me.
I'm a divorcee with an adorable 10 year old daughter. Business has me travelling alot and home is my favorite place to be. I enjoy volunteering and currently run the hot lunch program at my daughter's school on Fridays and help out with various annual activities.
I'm looking for someone with whom I can enjoy the finer things in life. Let's go exploring! I love to laugh and make you laugh too. LIfe is too short not to see the humor in things.
I'm looking for that special someone to share my life with - to feel love and walk hand in hand, side by side through life's adventures including the ups and downs. If we have each other, then we can get through anything!
I like to stay active and enjoy walking, downhill skiing, biking, and working in my garden.
I'm looking for a man who is honest and secure in who he is and who is happy with where he is at in life. I want to feel loved and I want my man to feel loved. Life is too short to have to deal with others' insecurities (no jealous types please!) - been there, done that and I really don't want to experience that again. It would be nice if you were financially secure.
If you are kind, honest, fair, understanding, like cats and wine, then please inquire within. I look forward to getting to know you and possibly build something special.

Date men and women from California, United States. Imperfect, sometimes temperamental, occasionally high-maintenance (but well worth it!), introspective, generally independent, kind, smart, sexy, loving, passionate, empathetic, well-educated, Rubenesque beauty who loves to laugh, explore life's mysteries and enjoy both the simple and complex aspects of life and other people.
Seeking long-term romantic partnership (great friends, confidants, lovers and mutual cheerleaders/champions who can grow - and grow old with - together) with kind, fun, intelligent, man with some similar interests: movies, travel, cooking, music (esp. alternative, and Motown), deep discussions, lots of laughter, lots of kissing, random PDA, Scrabble...and some interests of his own. I believe relationships are stronger when we each have some of our own interests as well as those we share, as it allows us to recharge and keep bringing new energy to the relationship. I also believe that there are three entities in a romantic relationship - you, me, and us - and each needs to be nurtured. I try to keep baggage to a minimum; however, we are each an amalgam of all our experiences and to deny them is to live less than honestly. I don't have kids, but love them (and they tend to love me) and would be honored to get to know yours.
YOU are kind, really smart, funny, sweet, strong, non-judgemental and truly like women, idiosyncracies and all. After all, we are amazing creatures. You love life and see it as a journey, not a destination. I tend to be drawn to big, tall, strong men who are confident (not arrogant) and funny, yet not afraid to let down their guard to show some vulnerability. You don't need to be Alan Alda sensitive, but a strong degree of empathy and compassion is a must. You are mentally, physically and financially stable.
I'm a sucker for someone who can make me laugh, give a great shoulder/neck/head massages, beautiful smiles, soulful eyes and a great laugh. Bonus points if you have cats/dogs or have a sexy accent (or can put one on for fun)! Note: when disagreements occur, I prefer to talk things out, not yell; and I don't tolerate abuse of any kind. If you think it's OK to hit a woman, child or animal, or belittle your mate, then keep on going: we aren't a match.
If you're interested, please send me an actual note - not a wink. WINKS ARE FOR AMATEURS!! :-D

Meet people from California, United States. Active, energetic, happy, healthy, and well balanced; have a lovely family and many friends.
My kids are both in college, one finishing up college and the other gettnig an MBA in Cambridge, MA. And my other little son is my lovely dog.
Suppoting my children as they get into their careers/life is important to me. I also focus on my own health and happiness, always ensuring I work out at least once a day. Running every morning and if I am lucky I also get to swim or hike Windy Hill in Portola Valley. Being in nature helps me forget about the many demands in our busy lives and focus on other things that perhaps are more significant. My goal now is to ensure that I aling myself consciously with the universe.
Have lived in various places and I love and enjoy Silicon Valley; also New England.
Nantucket is a special place and I try to go there often. Travel to Columbus Oh, Boston and NYC for work about every month and love it there too. Walking Walden Pond is always a favorite. I also enjoy traveling to St. John, VI, as well as the big island in Hawaii.
In the Bay Area, I go often to wine country since my relatives/family live there. Also like Santa Cruz, Monterrey, Big Sur and Carmel.
Enjoy many things and have a positive outlook; my life is pretty awesome. It would be nice to find a great guy to share it with.
Looking to meet a wonderful man who shares my interests and has a positive/healthy spirit.
All the best to all of you and I hope that you all find what you are looking
Peace and Love to you...

Date someone special from United States. I am educated, smart, friendly, pleasant, and would like a partner with these attributes, who also should be trustful and serious. I would like a partner who enjoys traveling, sports, arts, entertainment, and who knows to care about a woman. He should be able to give and receive love.