Date men and women from United States / California / Carlsbad, 51 year old

Date single man from Carlsbad, United States. Six months ago I wrote the majority of the following below. Nine months ago life became living chaos. Only Calif. court says I'm not divorced. I have moved on, she has found a new love. Yes I do care for my past family. Life does not allow you to wipe out the past and what kind of person do you think I would be if I could. To confirm, the words I wrote came from the heart, at the time just maybe a sad heart. I now smile more even when I'm unfairly judged. Have heard that I have not paid my dues and I might still have baggage. Really ladies? Stating in your profile family is critically important with the only difference is you maybe divorced. You may have kids, they may live at home, family is not baggage. Placed minimal boundaries in my profile, not critical of others who started a family later in life and have young children living at home. I have enough self-esteem to not be worried of a ex-husband-father. I could be their alternate dad, not the replacement. Don't judge me if I have been honest, my age is 51, and I will be legally divorced by Jan 2013. I have changed my status to divorced.
Sadly I have read so many profiles of what is desired and wished for. I'm no different.
Some simple clarity, I do not own a Harley, if I was to play golf I would cancel any tee time to be close to my partner/lover through the weekend. My marriage didn't end because of misplaced priorities. Just as the first, my new love will be admired, desired, will be my partner and will have my heart. Her family will be blended with my past.
I can state this because this is who I am. Don't send me a wink, send a message of why your interested in me. Guessing is for the inexperienced who has assumed they already know.
1/8/2012, Cared for family first and now I will start again. Life creates change and I moved, adjusted and held strong to my beliefs and pride to finish and remain friends. Sacrificed my personal life to make a comfortable home for the ones I love. I like to think out of the box, fix things with my hands, and touch soft places, explore and enjoy the pleasure of love with open freedom and kindness. I work hard, treat others fairly, give people the benefit of the doubt and can make decisions to direct or can follow. Wish for romance, kissing and just being together oblivious to the surroundings and being influenced by others.
Looking for a new love or lover who is self assured and knows what working hard brings to a balanced and equal loving relationship. She can be independent, be her own success and when work is done she wants to be cared for and appreciated with kindness and passion. She can be sexy, cheerful and drop the small stuff so she can enjoy living life even when stress is high. She understands life has joy words will not describe, understands pain needs time for healing, pleasure is what you make or learn by releasing your inhibitions to the one you trust. Wants freedom to be who they are, can compromise to maintain harmony, equally shares the responsibilities of life and living. Knows sex is a free gift to be shared with the pleasure with only the one you love or loved. Needs to open there is no agenda when treated with kindness, open to trust along with exposing her heart and soul to the danger even if it may be painful sometimes. Desires compassionate love with a free mind to experiment, explores a flower as the gift from nature because each is different just like her. Loves to be with her mate, share time with close friends, willing to stand-up to being wronged. Happy wherever life takes her, sees risks having rewards and maybe with some pain with the gain. Knows the mind far exceeds the potential for pleasure than the image of posh and polished. Looks to enjoy each day in the sun, home inside safe from a storm or just going to work. Traveling, camping, being healthy, cooking and much more all accentuates the lust of love being with the one who will know her best and loves her.

Meet a man from Carlsbad, United States. I grew up on a ranch in central California, my family still lives there. At age 12 I drove a farm tractor, plowed cotton and rode wild horses and steers, I think you get arrested if you let your kid do that now. I spent many years in 4-H and values learned there and at home are still with me today. That said I'm no angel but loyalty and honesty is what you'll get with me. Things I like to do are play golf, go to movies, go out to dinner and have a couple drinks, and then maybe have a nice cigar and relax in the spa. I'm also a home theater geek and have a have a screening room in my house, so we can watch a movie in there too.
The woman I seek is attractive, easy going, smart, and doesn't have a rigid set of rules. If you play golf that's great, we could maybe do that together or any other sports you like, I'm very athletic and game to try anything. I do like to travel and have been to Europe but it's been a while.

Date someone special from Carlsbad, United States. Cerebral professional man. Looking for fun-loving, spontaneous, caring, generous, thoughtful, cerebral, passionate, spontaneous, vibrant, sexual, loyal woman who wants to be with me only ! Want to find a friend, a lover and someone I can be comfortable with while also occasionally enjoying my own time. I'm a very adventurous soul with varied and many interests. I am a lover of life and am never bored. I want to find a woman who is her own person and doesn't rely upon me for her station in life, but rather is complimented by me and wants me to be with her. I need a woman who is pleasant, easy-going, spontaneous, loving, passionate, cerebral, loyal, generous, thoughtful, sexual, caring, spirited, funny, positive-minded, gregarious and resiliant. I myself am very gregarious, thoughtful, cerebral, loving, and of course, much, much more. I want to find a woman without major personality defects such as jealousy, anger, or a vengeful nature, which I have encountered, much to my dismay. I remain positive and hopeful always, and know that she's out there and that I will find her very soon !

Meet men and women from Carlsbad, United States. Are you looking for something more and just haven't found it yet? Is the rest of your life pretty much together with great friends, family, and work you like? I'd like to get to know a woman based upon her charming personality, intelligence, beauty, and, of course, big points if you laugh at my jokes. I'm confident, adventurous, genuine, and smart. If you'd like to get to know me better, I'm betting we can find some common ground to discover more about each other. If it leads to something, we'll both recognize it. Aloha, Doug.

Date people from Carlsbad, United States. great man wants great woman to fulfill an exciting and fulfilling lifetime together. no drama, only love and happiness required.
lets enjoy each other cannot wait to spend my life with you babe. i want to hold you, kiss you and adore you. you onl

Meet a soulmate from Carlsbad, United States. I'm a thoughtful friend, a considerate employer, a dedicated Dad, and an adventurous traveler. I like to go to concerts and the theatre as well as the park across the street. I enjoy playing sports with my friends and get a kick out of making them laugh. Ready to go to new places, try new things, and I'll keep my napkin in my lap! I'm interested in meeting a woman who enjoys going out with her friends and entertaining them at home. A traveler who likes to go near or far at any time, one with a variety of interests. Happy, considerate, funloving, and loyal.

Date single man from California, United States. I am a person who enjoys undersstanding and knowing others who is intelligent, fairly good looking for a women who would enjoy my appeal, funny and interesting to spend time with if you are looking for that someone extra to add to your life. As looks are relatively important to me, I am looking for someone relatively fit, attractive, affectionate, warm and much younger then myself.

Meet a man from California, United States. Emotionally secure. Financially stable. Professionally successful. Zero baggage. See? I just separated myself from 90% of the guys on this site. I'd like to be in an honest committed relationship. As for you, I don't care if you are the Princess of Monaco or a Waffle House waitress. If you have a fun sense of humor, a positive outlook on life and strong core values I'd like to meet you.
I work hard to take care of myself and stay fit, simply because I feel better when I do. It would be nice to be with someone who feels the same way. Life is so much more rewarding when you can experience it with someone you really care about. Don't you agree?

Date someone special from California, United States. Easy going person looking for someone to share time with. I enjoy walking at the beach, movies, dinner out and casinos. Travel once a year too. I am at such a nice time in my life, kids are grown and I have time to myself.

Meet someone special from California, United States. Are you a man that is kind, honest, intelligent and loyal? I am looking for someone who is outgoing, energetic, playful, and compassionate. Also someone who is adventurous, passionate, giving, Christian, Catholic or spiritual, tall 5' 10" , athletic, bald or hair...an initial attraction is somewhat important to me and someone that likes some of the things that I like (I have listed below)....who knows maybe someday I will find that person....oh yes...very important is also a communicator......
I'm sweet, down to earth, friendly, easy going, open, giving, intelligent, playful and am loyal to one man, secure emotionally and financially. Would love to meet a nice guy to date and go on some fun adventures. I've written paragraphs on my profile before, but really, it all boils down to respecting each other, having commonalities, attraction, chemistry and well you know.....just flat out liking someone first as your friend.
Things I like and like to do:
Exercise...Bike, Hike, Jog. I like Sports (Football, Soccer, Hockey), I Scuba Dive, love Motorcycles, Horse Back Ride, Rock Climb, TV, Dinner out or in, Sunsets,, Walks along the beach, Dogs, Camping, Traveling, Wine, Music: Blues and Country preferably, Hang out with friends, and enjoy relaxing too. I'm pretty much up for anything......
Thanks....

Date men and women from United States. When I step on the sand to play beach volleyball doubles, that is my sanctuary. The sand game demands athletic ability and mental focus and rewards you with a great workout, competition and social outlet. To top it off, a jump in the ocean is a great way to start the day!
What I value most in my family and friends is their personal integrity. What drives them, what makes them happy, how people respond to them, how they respond to whatever comes their way.
A good friend of mine says "Change is good." This phrase has helped me on so many different levels and yet I am still me only better!
I have been raising my boys and wouldn't trade that for anything in the world. I am now ready to truly relax and enjoy life with someone who wouldn't mind a morning hike followed by a good cup of java, an evening movie at home or at the theatre topped off with a frozen yogurt, or a small dinner party with close friends. I am ready for less stress and more fun!

Meet people from United States. Hi! Thank you for stopping to view my profile. I like to laugh and have fun! I consider myself a young, fun 51 and am not afraid of commitment. Please do not judge me negatively because I have never been married... It just worked out that way.
Friends would describe me as thoughtful, outgoing, loyal and supportive. I am passionate and very romantic if the chemistry is right! Let's get in some flirting over a good bottle of wine and see if we are a match! I believe physical attraction is necessary, and passion is a must for a true connection with someone.
I am a native San Diegan and love the beach & being outdoors. I have wonderful friends and love getting together with them for bbqs or going to for dinner/drinks!
I enjoy golf, working out, restaurants, travel, sports, walking on the beach, great conversation and much more!! I like hot and sunny vacation destinations, tropical climates, and anywhere there is a golf course! Bali, Fiji, Caribbean...Nothing beats white sandy beaches lined with palm trees! Locally, I enjoy Palm Desert.
My ideal match is a man who is compassionate, honest and shares common interests.