Date men from United States / California / Huntington Beach, 56 year old

Date a soulmate from Huntington Beach, United States. Are you looking for a strong, man who will listen to you after a hard day? Who will take the initiative to start dinner, without instructions, or make reservations with "speed dial" efficiency? I am very active, high energy, independent, down to earth, focused . I can clean up or down, and I am not on the most wanted list. I love children, family and animals, the four legged kind and I love camping as long as it is at "The Four Season's". I am looking for a woman that is mentally sound, physically fit, a girly girl, where she will be the definition of femininity( OK so a Huntington Beach girly girl) although shorts and flip flops will work also,; love downtown main street HB and No Ka Oi. An intelligent pure of heart individual that cares more for humanity, than themselves. She must love herself and family with purity of newborn and see the world through a child’s eyes; but, be able to make decisions with the Wisdom of Solomon or at least Google it.
She would be a person who knows herself, her limitations, and strengths, whether in the face of adversity or in the presence of benevolence; ok maybe this is asking to much lets not go there. Physically, she will take care of herself, and treat herself with the highest regard, what does this mean; everything in moderation, tats are fine if done right and in the right places. Piercings let’s not get crazy to the point you cannot go through the metal detector at a terminal or taking an MRI means you must prepare the week before.
She will laugh with me, and at times, at me. But the most important qualities are honesty of self, integrity of character, and the ability to see what can be. Care to join me? No Photo No Response; No Exceptions Sorry I realize not everyone may be photogenic but I am a visual person.
I realize that there is a great deal of people still wallowing in their on own left over baggage; what ever that may be. If you even think in the slightest that you may have not gotten over the “ex” whoever, whatever or whichever number it is, if you’re clingy, needy, self esteem issues, an taking meds or have taken meds, bipolar whether diagnosed or not, or been called any of the following:
• Lucifer
• Mammon
• murderer from the beginning
• old serpent
• Satan
• serpent
• slanderer
• spoiler
• tempter
• wicked one
• Beelzebub
by kids, family, friends, coworkers or any other sane person: or animals run for the hills when they see you coming; do I have to say it? I don’t expect perfection but I do want someone who is continual striving for personal distinction, because I am.
Thank you for taking the time to read through this!

Meet someone special from Huntington Beach, United States. Let me start by saying if you are looking for someone that is flashy, that is not genuine, someone to keep you entertained, although I might make you laugh, we wouldn't really be a match. What you will be getting is someone who is honest to a fault (more on that later) even if it's to my own detriment, who enjoys many things but more importantly enjoys being with the right woman.
If you want someone that is caring, kind, takes others feelings into consideration, truly gets pleasure by making others happy and once we get to know each other better is very much into touching, caressing and PDA we need to explore this further. This is how my friends that know me best have described me. From my male friends I'm told I'm a true friend, dependable, knowledgeable, and always willing to help in a time of need. From my female friends they say I’m honest, caring, compassionate, kind, a good listener, funny, and giving. As for what I think of myself, well I think a couple of my best attributes are being able to laugh at myself and not being judgmental of others.
For the woman that captures my heart they will get far more than they give because that's what brings me pleasure. To me love means putting someone else’s needs ahead of your own and that's what you will get from me. That’s not to say I don’t mind being spoiled once and awhile. Once I'm comfortable with someone I'm very much a touchier and love to give massages and kiss.
As far as where I like to go or what I like to do I find that's not as important as just being with that person. I am looking for a woman that will make me sigh with happiness as she walks away knowing that she is mine and she will be back soon and that she will feel the same way about me.
My background ranges from construction, when I was younger, to being self-employed in the area of finance to now working in sales. My idea match is someone that is comfortable in their own skin and although they will get plenty of attention from me they could be happy for a short while without it. I have also realized I don't have many photos of myself (I 'm always the one taking the pictures I guess) and a bit shy about asking to be in them. PS I have been on a few dates and they have all said I either look like my photos or look better than them. If you have any questions please ask, I'm an open book.
Now for being completely honest and this is the only thing I have not been honest about in my profile. I value honesty and place it high as something I need to have from my partner. Please let me start by saying that although I have been physically separated, we do not live in the same house, for 16 months and counting and have been emotionally separated, did not sleep in the same room for more than 9 years, with zero chance of reconciliation I am not divorced as yet. My decision to not get divorced earlier was based on staying for my kids, and now that my children are grown and do not need me on a daily basis I can move on with my personal life while my amicable divorce is in the works.
I’m sorry for not being totally honest but saying separated makes it sound like I’m not open to a LTR which is what I’m really looking for. I certainly hope this is not a deal breaker because I have never been more open to a LTR than I am now. Yes I do understand that before I can ask another person for a commitment I will have to complete my divorce so please do not let this deter you from meeting a great guy is all I ask.

Date single man from Huntington Beach, United States. I am a hopeless romantic. I enjoy giving as much as receiving in a real relationship that is based on mutual attraction, caring, and the desire to bring out the best in each other. To enjoy each other's company no matter where we are. To share our interests, hold hands and each other, and to laugh - a lot. When away, we hold fond thoughts of one another and anticipate our next meeting. A pleaser by nature, I have a strong desire to provide for my lady in all it's aspects - physically, emotionally, spiritually. In giving I find the joy of loving. When it is reciprocal and sustaining we find true happiness. I seek one extraordinary woman that possesses a great sense of humor, is fun, intelligent, beautiful, classy, charming, vivacious, sexy, passionate, and spiritual. A positive person, always. One who is ready to live life's next big adventure.

Meet a man from Huntington Beach, United States. Hi ....
I am fun, active, and quick-witted, with no family drama and plenty of free time. I like to cook, love to compare wines, and usually do both in the same evening. I'm easy-going, but not boring. My life is primarily stress-free, but I'm passionate about enjoying it. I'm an open book, willing to learn more every day.
I'd like to go on some great dates that lead to a long term relationship. My partner must have a great sense of humor, a happy disposition, and the ability to see both sides of a story. I think we should both be fit enough to enjoy an active lifestyle. If you laugh at Howard Stern, "R"-rated comedies, or some of the Comedy Central shows we'll get along great.

Date a soulmate from California, United States. Not exactly easy to talk about one's self, is it? Although some find it most interesting. I am outgoing, love outdoor activities and don't like being OUT of a relationship. It's been a "while" so here I am not expecting much, but hoping to at least meet a friend.