Date women from United States / California / Aptos, 48 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. Teacher, writer, and mother. Looking to share meaningful relating with a good, creative, smart man. I'm currently at work on my dissertation, researching women's stories as a means of narrative/political activism. I enjoy urban and natural environments, the life of culture, books, films, and good restaurants. I also love the quiet of natural spaces and the roar of the ocean. I have a dedicated spiritual practice of yoga and meditation, and would like to meet someone who values interior life as well as awareness in relating with self and others. Other things: an absence of television and too many books for shelves is good; reading as nourishment; meals and sharing food as an act of care; love of learning, of engaged study, and a knowledge that allows appreciation of the rigors, and limitations, of formal education. A large heart that cares about others and a mind that appreciates harmony in daily life -- even in our world of discord.

Meet a woman from California, United States. Sigh....online dating??? I suppose anything is possible, but I admit I am little skeptical. I don't seem to meet a lot of new people in my every day life so here I am trying this out. I am lookimg for a best friend and partner in crime. :-)
People who know me would say I am a giving, kind, honest, affectionate person. My humor is a bit on the sarcastic side, but all in fun. I have a good career and am independent. I am not looking for someone to support me. Labels and or designer names don't impress me, so I'm not a "high maintenance" girl (I actually dislike shopping, if I could get everything online I would be happy)
I have been on my own for quite some time and I am ok by myself, but ultimately I miss the companionship, friendship and intimacy of a relationship. Being the affectionate person I am, I believe that it is important in a healthy relationship. Ultimately, I am looking for long term, with one person...not serial dating. No rushing necessary.
I have a 14 year old son and he means the world to me.. He really supports this and tells me I need to find someone. He is at an age where spending all his time with mom is just not what he wants to do. I am at a point in my life where I would really like to find someone special to spend time with and have fun and my son agrees!
In the past year I realized I need to be more active so I started running (jogging). I try to run 4-5 days a week for around 3-4 miles. I am excited to be running my first "Wharf to Wharf " in July.
Things I like to do...travel, going to movies, wine tasting, walks on the beach, concerts, dancing, watching football (love football), people watching. I am willing to try new things. It's important to share in eachothers interests and equally important to occasionally have your own space. I am not selfish. I am open to most music, but don't really care for country or rap. Looking for someone who is willing to share lifes ups and downs and everything in between.