Date single man from California, United States. I am a healthy, intelligent, thoughtful, sensitive, passionate and caring man. I'm 68 years old, and I look and act younger.
I am honest, open and grounded, and I would like that in a woman.
I know myself quite well and I think that in order to have a truly intimate relationship that is a necessary foundation.
'intimacy can happen only after we work toward a more solid self, based on a clear understanding of our part in the relationship..."
—Harriet Lerner.
I have two beautiful daughters 27 and 29 years old, both working in their chosen professions, nurse and teacher. I am very proud of them and they are the most important people in my life.
I don't watch TV but do like the series and movies I've watched on Netflix, like 6 ft. under, The Wire and others.
I'm interested in learning to dance and have taken classes.
I am looking for a woman who likes the outdoors, is open and friendly, with a sense of humor, knows herself very well, passionate and listens with compassion and equanimity as I do.
She must have self confidence and self esteem. I believe we all have baggage, but just as I have dealt with my issues, I would want her to have done the same. I don't want perfection just integrity, authenticity, and a compassionate nature. A WOMAN, grown up, fun loving, and real.
Getting to now each other can be adventurous, fun and exciting.
I am only interested in a serious and committed monogamous relationship.
Meet someone special from California, United States. I am an older person but young at heart, I like riding motorcycles and driving hotrods, (I have both). Im sort of looking for companionship that could lead to a relationship, and my basic philosphy is "Say what you mean,and mean what you say". Im not much of a socialite but I like to be out and about (doing whatever), with the right person whenever the occasion arises. I am clean and sober now for 11 plus years but I have no issues with a person who can handle their own in those areas. I have a good life and Im grateful for my family and a few great friends, yes this is the good life, : ).
Date a soulmate from California, United States. The words that best describe my core operation it would be: Spontaneous, Gentle, Empathetic, and Creative. In matters of a loving relationships I like doing activities that are creative and bonding. Oh. say dancing on the beach. and taking of on a moments notice to see a festival. What I mean by empathetic is respecting my partners feelings even if I've got definitive plans. I've found things go better and are more creative when the energy is shared. I've had such great memories doing it that way. It's fun.
I'm looking for a relationship that is strong in heart. I hope to give a lot and I have a lot to give. Giving it fulfills me. At the same time I'm looking for a mate who's looking to support me and my personal growth. I believe that to many relationships are battlefields. Each partner pushing selfishly to have it their way. There is so much to gain by listening and finding common ground. "How can we both get what we need?" is the train of thought I think works best. There are usually an endless amount of ways to do things. It takes being open and above all to really listen!
Relationships involve risk in being open to hurt and disappointment. It's my firm belief that it's worth it. It just takes being open to trusting and believing in the process. A lot of the good things happen because of letting go of preconceived ideas. and old fears. and a willingness to do it differently.
Reading profiles I get the notion that most of them could be written by someone else. Lol. Mine included.
I’m thinking that exposing what I like about myself is a bit risky.
My experience is that starting a relationship by presenting myself as I think the other wants, doesn’t work. And have them do the same. That hasn’t worked for me. I am tired of looking for and starting a relationship based on trying to cure our mutual insecurity.
I find I'm put off by profiles that talk mostly about how stable, financially secure, and self reliant that person is. A voice in my head says "well what do they need a relationship for since they have it so together." I'm looking for someone that's HUMAN and needs what I can supply and will trust embarking on a journey with a spirit and adventure.
I’m looking for a self aware, growing love partner. Someone who will lean on me and who I can lean on when life gets rough. Someone I can grow with and who I can help grow. I hope you get a sense of who I am from this. E-mail me and let's start!
Meet a man from California, United States. Retired milkman-tall 6ft. 4in. love the outdoors-movies, oldy but goody music, country & rock but not hard rock. would like to travel with the right partner, but no more than 1-2 wks gone. I was a volunteer fireman @ one time plus my regular job 6 days a wk.. Long time Sonoma County resident since 1969. Known as a workaholic, but must enjoy life & take it slower now but love home projects, careing person who helps those who need help. Love laughter, all movies except science ficton. I am very freindly, very honest giving person who is grateful for my good health & proud to be an american all my life & Iam a patriotic person. I am a Vietnam War vet with honarable combat awards. My social life is watching movies,( my favorite movie is Pearl Harbor ) walking my dog, bowling, need someone to show me more. I love dogs & cats & of course almost all animal life. I am a warm , passionate easy going kind of a man, if you like this kind of a man lets meet for coffee. :) spud
Date single man from Santa Rosa, United States. I am a divorced man, in my mid-sixties. I am a good conversationalist and well-educated. I love social contacts at movies, dinners, plays, concerts, etc.
I do volunteer work at Luther Burbank Home and Gardens in Santa Rosa CA. I am also in-charged of training and monitoring all the volunteers at LB H&G.
I collect aviation prints, mostly from WWII.
A love to garden and I do photography; I consider myself to be an intermediate level photographer.
I like to hike and take walks with "a friend."
I love to do things socially with an out-going, attractive woman who loves to engage people in conversations. That person should like movies, plays, concerts, etc. Gardening is optional. I also love quiet time with the right person, sitting by the fireplace in the family room or by the fire-pit and sharing each other's time. I love a person with sparkling eyes (optional) and apple cheeks (optional). I love a woman who knows how to laugh and is willing to laugh a lot.... giving gratitude for life's blessings.
I am looking for a charming woman who is willing to share herself with me, and me with her.