Date men from United States / California / Santa Rosa, 61 year old

Date a soulmate from United States. I am described as unique, sensitive, caring. Not hard on the eyes. Look for the best in everyone and everything. Make people "guffaw" laugh! Very supportive, focused, loyal to my commitments. Can always be counted on to be there for people when I can help in any way. Trustworthy, silly, realize that wrinkles only go where the smiles have been. Knowing that yesterday's over my shoulder so I can't look back there too long. There's just too much to see waiting in front of me I know that I just can't go wrong! I'm growing older, but not up! My joy of wonder and new experiences walk right along with me. "Sometimes the best map will not guide us. We can't see what's round the bend. Sometimes the road leads through dark places. Sometimes the darkness is our friend." I practice daily Zazen meditation to maintain the wholeness / balance with myself and the universe. No birth / no death / no coming / no going / no not the same / no not different / no being / no non-being. I consciously avoid greed, anger, and ignorance. I realize that awakening and delusion are two sides of the same coin: both need each other to manifest. I strive to remember to remember non-duality / ego driven modes. My fiancee passed away 9 months ago she always wanted me to set my course & be open to happiness & love again. So I'm finally opening to "Let Go Let God" open new possibilities for me. When we look, nothing arises. When we let go, we open to new possibilities... I have not "officially" become a member yet. I think I'm finally leaning towards that direction so I can communicate with "matches'. This "winking" is getting old there is no further way of reaching out to each other, so that's my next step. Coming soon. I hope to engage in my mutual winks & start the process of contacting women to learn more about you, hopefully the same will hold true for you. I realize "winking" until I become a full-fledged, card carrying member pales by comparison to emails & more solid contact, so I'm adding more of my perceived attributes since this is such a limited venue in trying to describe oneself. I play from strength. I have a lot of love & warmth in me to share. Intelligence. Patience. Composure. Cheerfulness. Honesty. Passion. Gratefulness. Fun / Happiness. I make a difference & contribute. Always learning & growing. Achieving & being the best I can be in each moment. Dedicated to my son Noah. My dear friends & family & to the one I love & share the journey together with. Like the saying goes: "When you're ready to jump, the net will appear" I'm ready to let go & jump! I'm amazed & impressed if you actually read all this. It seems like after awhile, these become variations on a theme. Oh yeah, minor technicalities & total transparency on my part. Disclaimer: If looks are important (& we generally first check those aspects out first), I shave my head to stay cool & for my Buddhist leanings, so you could at this juncture "label" me bald as a result. So if ya need a Sampson type, I'll need to let my hair grow out again! I hope most of you see into the soul & heart essence of a person over external features? If not, I understand. & I'm looking for a woman who appreciates a man for who & what he is over trophy looks. Jeeze, I've said too much. I haven't said enough! Hopefully all that I have shared might have sparked some resonance with you. If not, I wish you nothing but the best & truly hope you find delightful happiness & fulfillment in life!

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Energy to burn on the Dance floor. Watch out, or you might have fun with a surprize move. Or a sip of fermented Grape? Check out some weird art or a walk through Luther Burbank. Holding hands on the beach with some fresh fish BBQ. Rollin around in the wet grass, naked. The thought of two people hand in hand.

Date a man from United States. I am a man who is 61 years old. I am 5'11". I have taken up bicycling about a year or two ago and now am riding, or attempting to ride, 10-12 miles 3-5X per week. It's wonderful. My preferred ride is in the vicinity of the Dry Creek General Store. I am hoping to find someone to ride with me as part of a growing relationship.
I am a scientist with Medtronic working presently on the new transcatheter valve for treating aortic stenosis. Don't worry if you don't understand what this means - one of my better traits is as a teacher. I'm quite good at it. I hold graduate degrees from UC Berkeley and MIT. I love my job at the moment. Next week may be different....
I have two spectacular sons aged 24 and 27. The younger has recently announced his intention to wed the girl of his dreams. I feel good about this but it does in fact represent a certain point in life - that being I've definitely entered the "golden" years of life. My oldest son is starting his own social network enterprise designed to facilitate communication between college alumni and prospective students. I seek advise routinely from my sons. I hope over the years perhaps I've helped them along the way too. They are the high points of my life.
A Self Summary:
I'm pretty good at being a dad. Also I seem to do well at science and engineering. I can read people pretty well too. I was a child of the 60's and spent two tours in Vietnam. I don't know what else to say about that. Despite barely getting through high school, I managed to get engineering degrees from Berkeley and MIT so I guess some folks think I'm successful. Some losses in life like we all have I suppose but want to move on now.
What I'm Doing with My Life:
Learning how to live again and enjoy life. It's been a long time since I've done that. I have just taken up sea kayaking and am really enjoying that. I do enjoy bike riding - have a 26 year old Specialized and love riding it. My sons are my joy right now in life but I would like to find a woman to share my life with.
I'm Good At:
Well, this is difficult but I guess I'm pretty good at being a dad. Also I seem to do well at science and engineering. I can read people pretty well too. I don't believe we are people having spiritual experiences, rather I believe we're spiritual beings having human experiences. Makes life make a lot more sense - don't you think?
Favorite Stuff:
I spend a lot of time at work reading technical papers, so I have to admit I really enjoy mindless bestsellers - pretty much the same with movies. My son burned a couple CD's for me some years ago of my favorite songs (he and his brother are the best kids on earth - sorry ladies.). The songs were mainly from the 60's-70's and included Led Zep Stairway; Bobby Darrin Mack the Knife, Beach Boys, some James Taylor, Ton Loc (yeah funky cold medina - what a great song). I've recently started eating better too.

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