Date a soulmate from California, United States. Iam a single male, divorced, live alone with 2 cats that adopted me and consider myself an honest and secure ,confident person with a big heart and forgiving soul and generous.Iam not a person who confronts and intimadates others.I believe in fairness and talking things out and if so --agree to disagree and move forward but still be on the same team,no holding grudges.I would rather you be honest with me even if it does hurt for awhile--I will get over it and maybe learn from it. you be the same. Try to accent the positive ,ther are enough negatives in this world.i like old fashioned manners, social skills .Sometimes a simple "thank-YOu or Iam sorry,forgive me.I like traditions to kept and celebrated. I don't have the need to follow herd in anything. I like to think for myself and decide if this is right for me and a good thing. Iam not into the latest fashins but I do like clean,and well groomed and some makeup and nice smelling and classy dress not necessairly a fashion statement. Some jewerly to enhance/accent that classy dress and footwear and handbag