Date women from United States / California / Palm Desert, 39 year old

Date a woman from United States. . I am passionate, thoughtful, sensitive, compassionate, well-educated, and a professional.
I can be idealistic and have high expectations of myself. I do not give up easily, and am not afraid of hard work and discomfort...however, I do not plan to make a life partner out of struggle.
I enjoy humor derived from life experience, and love belly laughs.
I am self-sufficient and independent. I do not have a desire to take care of a man. I want a partner who brings the same things to the table that I do: own a home, a car, have a career, value education, no baby mama drama, no insane amount of debt, be fiscally responsible, follow through with your word, do not be addicted to alcohol or drugs, and clean up after yourself.
I find ambition to be very sexy and a tad bit of healthy narcissism cute, but I have had my share of narcissistic sociopaths, if anyone has ever hinted that this may be you... GO AWAY.
Lastly, attraction is important to some extent. I have known to take time to become attracted to someone after a friendship has been built. However, I would appreciate photos that are an accurate representation of you right now. I do not appreciate being mislead, and this will do far more to damage my ability to connect with you than a few extra pounds, or a little less hair. That being said, I work hard to maintain what God has given me, and I value that in a man.
If you are in a mid life crisis, and separated or married...again,GO AWAY...I am not interested in that type of interaction. I desire an accountable adult relationship with two present individuals. If you are not prepared, and desiring a relationship with me...Don't waste our valuable time.
I pray, and enjoy discussing topics of a spiritual nature, and I tend to be more intense and of more depth than your average bear. If you find this unattractive...It will not change, as it is largely why I have gotten this far in my life, (that and a healthy dose of Grace).
I have a great deal of tolerance however, and can appreciate any intelligent discussion.

Meet someone special from United States. Witty, yet laid back. Funny and affectionate. Healthy, but not obsessed with the scale or calorie counts. Love being a mother, but also value my career. I do not ride unicorns, nor do I believe that anyones life is drama free. I have the gift of handling curveballs with humor or logic, and sometimes tears. If I did ride unicorns and could pick the perfect situation: Single dad with an amazing ex-wife. A man who enjoys working out for stress release, health and life longevity. He's looking for a long term partner to enjoy free time with, not his next wife (I value keeping my last name). He's been raised or appreciates parts of the LDS religion, but realizes your not going to the second or third heaven if you have a beer, in a strapless shirt at a baseball game on Sunday. Last, he would love playing and watching football.

Date a soulmate from United States. I don't know what to say about a perfect match - I just think it happens. You know it when you know it. Must have respect, honesty, must make the other laugh, support and have fun with. Love is important, yet it doesn't always make a relationship work.