Date women from United States / California / Vista, 39 year old

Date someone special from Vista, United States. Describe yourself. Doesn't this rather remind you of those college essays you always saved to the last minute to complete? Ok, here goes:
I'm an IT geek by day, and a fitness pro by night. I love to laugh and as much energy as I have, I love hunkering down with a big ol' mug of coffee and the Sunday paper; or suggling up with some appetizers, dinner, wine and tv or movie. Quiet time is equally as valued as 'up' time. I like balance.
Being raised between two cities, San Diego, CA and Chicago, IL, I feel like I have two hometowns and they're both fabulous! Traveling is one of my all time fun things to do and I'm a firm believer that the journey should be almost as fun as the destination. Did you catch I'm a huge football fan too? Game days at my house are filled with family, friends and food! Non-game weekends are usually spent wine tasting, catching up with my DVR (I'm backlogged!), finding my balance on my road bike cruising the coast, getting my back yard in shape (silly weeds!), BBQ-ing with friends...really depends on the weather, the weekend and the mood :)
Ok, enough about me! I'm looking for a guy with a positive outlook on life, to help share my already happy life. What do you think; does my Yin compliment your Yang? ;-)

Meet a soulmate from Vista, United States. I have lived abroad most of my life and would need a partner to want to support my traveling sprees.
I have had missionary parents so would need some one that allows me to help with causes
I come from a Cristian back ground so would need a Believer to support me with that.
I do have creative skills and would want to continue to work on those.
creat some thing that will last after I do.

Date a woman from Vista, United States. My life is a crazy cluster of experiences. What some may call baggage I look at as lessons. It's only when we fail to learn the lessons life brings that it becomes baggage. I enjoy spending time with friends, one on one or in small groups. I have never been a party girl, no all nighters for me. I love to eat, and I love to nap. I enjoy being outdoors, be it a walk through the park, a stroll down the beach, or road tripping with with windows down and the sunroof open. I'm a fairly mellow person, not quite a risk taker. I'd like to think it would be fun to skydive and zipline, but I am admittedly a bit of a coward, would have to ease into the idea with some encouraging support. I love animals; love children. And I absolutely love to laugh. There can never be enough laughter in one's life.
I suppose I should address who I'm looking for...no one. I'm not looking for someone to make my life complete, that's my job. I'm looking for friends, anyone who might enjoy sharing a few random experiences, be it with food, watching a movie, or wandering aimlessly while exploring somewhere new, or any other number of things. If you are looking for the love of your life, the woman to complete your story, then I'm probably not her. If you're looking for friends with benefits, I'm definitely not her. But friends...one can never have too many friends in life.

Meet someone special from California, United States. I enjoy the outdoors especially hiking in the mountains. I love traveling to foreign places and long road trips through beautiful places. I also like to take pictures of the places Ive traveled through. I also like watching movies and reading books. I tend to be a workaholic but when Im off of work I like to relax and enjoy myself. Im a fairly independent person but i can honestly say that my strength comes from God and my family.
The type of man i would like to find must be open and honest. It would be nice if he shared some of the same interest but Im always open to new thing.

Date a soulmate from California, United States. Will fill this in later but I'm a regular gal looking for a regular guy. I don't do any drugs and I go to bed by 10PM most nights. I go to the beach and drive my son to school each morning. I work in Nonprofit and like it. I like getting tulips for no reason at all and love going out for coffee in the mid morning. I am a laid back gal!

Meet a woman from California, United States. My closest friends would describe me as considerate and loyal and a bit goofy. I am grateful for my family and my friends and my job. Funny movies make me laugh, I am looking for a real, honest, nice person for a relationship.

Date someone special from United States. I'm fairly recently divorced and looking to move on. I'm fun, outgoing, and a people person. I have many friends whom I try to see on a regular basis, unless of course my time will be otherwise preoccupied. I have a good sense I humor, and pretty much laugh at most things. But I can only take so much of the childish, immature jokes. But many times I will humor you and laugh anyway. I don't like men who are brash and rude, especially those who cuss at little things and one of my biggest pet peeve is men who flip off other people. Trashy and no class!
I'm looking for someone who's fun but grounded, smart and quick to figure things out, witty with a great sense of humor. I can't tolerate temper and being physical with me. I'm pretty fragile emotionally and get very affected by everything around me. I'm always open to learning new things. There are still many things I haven't done and my bucket list is pretty long. Responsibility is very important to me. He needs to know what his priorities are. Slackers are a big turn off. Once in a while procrastinating is ok with me. I know there are those days that I've put things off. But doing it on a regular basis is not ok. Also, I don't like people who say they're going to do something and not do it. I'm the type of person who will hang onto your word and expect it. Getting disappointed too many times makes me loose my faith in everything between us.
I have kids and they're my life. They are fabulous, smart, funny, kind and thoughtful. It's the way they were raised and it's not over yet. Everything I do affects them. So every decision I make will always have them in thought.
I'm trying this out because, really, I'm tired of the pick-up tactics and a little burned out. I'd really want to share my life with someone whom I can share laughter, smiles, soft touches with and...other things. So, I'm sure with what I've said many will run away. Oh well...