Date women from United States / California / Trabuco Canyon, 39 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I'm looking for a great guy. All-around good man on the inside with a little sexy edgy side also, saved just for me!! Someone who is confident and knows what they want from life and is willing to put them selves out there to get it.
I grew up in Orange County, going to the beach, riding my horse thru the orange groves (although I haven't riden in 20 years), exploring, hiking fishing (I still fish and can tie my own line bait my own hook), all the tom-boy stuff yet still very feminine and sensual.
I like a man who can make decisions. I will let you open the door for me. I appreciate the small things, I stop and smell the flowers and I try to see beauty in everyday things. I easily laugh at myself and at lifes ever changing curve balls...I'm not into games.
I have been divorced for 5 years and I'm not looking for the rebound relationship. Someone that is ready, I'm looking for the man that WOWS me. The one I can't stop thinking about, the one that adores me, and me him. I can say the same wants/needs as everyone else says in their profiles, you read the same blah blah over and over, but aren't we all looking for the same thing? I've got a vacancy in my heart and I am looking for someone to fill that position.
I have two great kids, my son is 15 and my daughter is 12.
Please do not contact me if you don't have any pictures up. You obviously have something to hide and I don't need to be a part of that.