Date women from United States / California / Altadena, 39 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. i'm an easy going, independent girl who has found that as i get older life gets busier and more complex thus less time and opportunity to meet people in my daily schedule. aside from that, i am someone that sees that life can be crazy but that keeps me on my toes. i'm always up for making the most out of things and having fun. i consider myself independent, but realize i need others in my life for love and support. for example, im grateful to family and friends for this. recently i've realized that life is short, therefore i need to make the most of each day. like i said, i try to make the best of what life brings my way. i'm pretty laid back and try not to take myself so serious. i'm looking for someone with similar interests as myself. someone who is well grounded and wants the same things out of life. family is important to me, and i think someone that values this a must. as well as trust, honesty and communication. i love self confidence but not over confidence. someone that treats all people with respect is a plus. finally. i would hope to date someone that i'm attracted to physically/mentally, i know the physically part seems obvious, but sometimes can be overlooked, and i think it can be an important factor. the mental part is definitely important to me as well.

Meet someone special from California, United States. I am most proud of my perseverance and my optimism. I laugh at most things which keeps me looking younger than any amount of plastic surgery. I take each day as it comes and when its over...its over. I love a good debate and I love a good quiet simultaneous book reading. I am still a tomboy having grown up with 6 older brothers and I am looking for someone who doesn't take themselves so seriously that they can't laugh at their own foibles.