Date women from United States / California / Loma Linda, 39 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. im looking for a true caring guy who can appreciate an independent woman, dont want the clingy type but I do want the attention and respect. I enjoy working out and Im very much into health. must be romantic and fun...I am not looking for a fairy tale ending.. Just
A good friend who is crazy for me.. Wants to spend time, create memories.. Be for each other during our ups and downs..
A best friend, companion..

Meet someone special from California, United States. ME: I'm hoping to meet an active man (with patience - ha!) who wants to introduce me to what he loves to do. Of course, it would be great if he was open to learning more about my interests as well. I'm a Christian, but not the kind that gives Christians a bad name. I personally don't believe in hell, so I'm not going to suggest you're going there if you don't adapt to my beliefs. I love intense discussions, and reading or researching to gather information about topics of interest - for example: the metaphysical/spiritual - to include the tarot, neuroscience, the relationship between men and women and how we ever manage to connect despite our innate differences, psychology, philosophy, health and fitness, self improvement, the stock market, aesthetics - the list goes on!
I have an exciting job which allows me to connect with some amazing people I never would have otherwise met. I have a passion for making connections, and currently I seek out keynote speakers for events. I also have a passion for helping young girls find their purpose to empower them to develop their self-worth based on what is inside them, not who is beside them. And there's a special place in my heart for women brave enough to leave abusive relationships and overcome the fear of being alone. This is especially true for military dependent spouses. It is my dream to start a non-profit that will allow me to reach out to these girls and women: To be their cheerleader and teach them skills that allow them to become more than they ever imagined.
I have two little girls (6 and almost 9) and one big boy (18). My girls are with me primarily, and my boy lives out of state but we are in touch often and have a great relationship. I'm not interested in having more children of my own, but if you have children, I consider that a plus. If you don't, but don't mind that I do, we're good too.
YOU: Conversationalist wanted. Must be nice to stare at from across the table. I'm attracted to fit (READ: IN SHAPE/LEAN) physiques. No offense to the teddy bears; it's just my preference, and I can't change it no matter how nice you are. I prefer thin to even slightly paunchy. Must believe in God (or at least something bigger than his own ego), like kids and at least tolerate cats :). I am drawn to people who are passionate about life. My dream guy has a calling, not a job or a career, and loves what he does so much that he'd do it for free if he could. He's not materialistic, and realizes that it's who he has, not what he has that really matters. He never takes the people in his life for granted. This man isn't opposed to a relationship developing if things begin to evolve. He knows he's a work in progress, and is looking for someone to compliment him as he grows. He's aware of his strengths AND his weaknesses and will appreciate mine as well.
If you're looking for the same things, send me a message and let the fun begin!

Date a woman from California, United States. I am secure & happy with myself, but...Life is meant for 2!! A little bit about myself: I enjoy my kids, travel, camping by a lake, reading, Comedy Clubs, music, my dogs, & celebrating special occasions. I am self-sufficient, independent, honest, I have a great sense of humor, & family & friends are very important to me. A man who ONLY has eyes for me & can make me laugh are important qualities! No Pressure! Let's just relax...become friends & get to know each other... and see what happens.