Date women from United States / California / Santee, 39 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. Me: Reaching for the stars and catching dreams every day. I am passionate, driven, highly professional in my career and utterly fun loving and easy going in my free time. I take life seriously, but I am not afraid to laugh at myself. I am spontaneous, outgoing and always up for an adventure.
You:Number one requirement, must be secure in himself, comfortable in his own skin, knows who he is and what he wants in a relationship. Someone emotionally mature but child like in your enthusiasm for life. Somebody I can admire, that intrigues me and makes me smile every day.

Meet someone special from California, United States. About me;
I'm a very spontaneous, intense woman very passionate about life. I like trying new things, love learning new things, visiting new places, meeting new people.
I enjoy watching sports, exercising, dancing, watching movies, cooking, etc.
I am very respectfull, loyal, very affectionate, hard worker and fun,
Who I' looking for:
Somewhere out there is a great guy who will not only want to introduce me to new things, but will also like to try some adventures that are new to both of us. He will not only put up with my wacky moods, but he may even think they are cute, (even if he won't admit it.) The man I would like to meet is confident and self assured, but isn't cocky with an over-inflated ego. I am looking for a guy who can keep me on my toes both when it comes to intellect and energy. There is nothing that I won't do to support the people I care about, but if I think you are wrong I will tell you and I hope that you would do the same for me. Are you a man who is filled with surprises? When you hold me in your arms, are you the type of man that will make me feel safe and warm? Have you made it all the way to the end of my profile? Then what are you waiting for? Drop me a line and let's plan our next adventure.

Date a woman from California, United States. ABOUT ME:
I am a single mom who is independent, but far from being a feminist! I have kids who are getting older and venturing out into their own social circles, therefore leaving more time for me to venture out into my own. I'm still their greatest supporter and biggest fan in their activities, and always will be.
I'm a happy and outgoing person who looks to have a good time in just about all I do. I love to laugh, and quite often, its at myself. Letting my hair down and being a little wild is what I look forward to every other weekend when the kiddos are with their dad, My "wild" consists of a couple drinks and some dancing while listening to live music. I like movies, music (classic rock, alternative rock and country), dining out, BBQ's, the beach, walking anywhere and every where, long drives to Julian, comedy clubs, and hanging out with family and friends. Happy hours are a great way to end a long and stressful week. I absolutely treasure my down time, wishing I had a snuggle buddy for TV or movie time while on the couch. Cooking late night dinners, holding hands, laughing and frequent kissing is imperative in any relationship I'm in. I've been single for 5 1/2 years, and only interested in a LTR at this time in my life. If you're into dating only, then you can pass me by at this time, however I do believe that a "friends first" approach works best for anything that may turn into something great and beautiful long-term.
I have a great job, own my own home and financially independent. Taking long walks is my main form of exercise, but a visit to the gym when its raining or too hot is a must. The kids and I love to be outside any chance we get. Staying active and being healthy is my priority for me right now. Turning 40 in 10 months, and I'm determined to be in the best shape I can possibly be. Anyone wanting to do it with me, BONUS!

BAD STUFF:
I cuss like a sailor when I stub my toe or get behind a slow driver, Im impulsive and restless at times, I love waking up too early on the weekends and will try and get you up with me. I have very little patience for flakes, can be opinionated, and a little outspoken, although I always know when and how to behave like a lady.
ABOUT YOU:
You are over 6' (Im 5' 8" and like to wear heels). You're funny, confident and you have a softer side when the time is right. You have a mixture of some good boy, bad boy going on. I'm looking for a guy who likes to play but who can keep it real. Someone who makes me feel protected, safe, secure and significant and who is supportive and encouraging. I'm a sucker for goatees and admire a stud at the bbq. Oh, yeah!!
I do not like shouting matches, smoking, psychological torture, games, broken promises and a holier than thou attitude. Mean what you say and say what you mean. Please, please, please have current pictures, just like I do :)
Now lets get this party started! Email me!