Date women from United States / California / Yuba City, 39 year old

Date someone special from Yuba City, United States. It's kind of hard to tell people who you are in one paragraph. Most the time...we just write who we think we are, which is nice enough, but not always accurate. Chatting is probably the best way to get to know me. I'd like to chat with some people, make a friend or two.
I most likely will not send out the first email, so if you want to chat - just say hello.

Meet a soulmate from Yuba City, United States. I'm new to this dating thing and still can't believe I am even on it..but I know a few people who are actually happy they did it..what the heck..I got nothing to lose!..I hope to attract a loving, caring, family oriented, good hearted man who loves life. One who has a good sense of humor so we can make eachother laugh...looking for a person who has a decent job. I would like a man who is not afraid to speak his mind and takes risks. One who is affectionate and charming. Communication is a must! Honesty is a must! If you has kids, I don't mind as long as you make time for me. I love a man that smells like yummy cologne and fresh breath...well groomed...it goes hand in handfor me..long hair is ok. I want a man who isn't antisocial around a group of people...A turn on for me is a man that knows what he wants and is sure and secure of himself (but not cocky)..one who has goals in his life and has learned from his past mistakes or experiences. I'm looking for a man who is tired of dating the wrong person and would like to be my friend first and see if the chemestry is there and who knows where it could lead...I hope into a serious relationship, if not then a friendship... I would like one who will understand and be supportive of me. I would like a man who enjoys dinning out and yet spending time with a glass of wine. I may sound demanding, but I am not. I'm just a woman who has learned from mistakes and experiences and now knows what she wants.