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Date a soulmate from Arroyo Grande, United States. I love the outdoors . I love to travel. Camp, fish. Golf, hike,hang out at beach and go for walks. I like to spend time with family and friends. Im retired from the military. I have a great job working for the government. My ideal match is someone who has energy, loves life, family and friends. Someone who laughs and has a good sense of humor. Likes to hang out and cuddle.

Meet men and women from Arroyo Grande, United States. My friends say I have too many hobbies, travel too much, and collect too much stuff (I've owned almost 100 cars), and that I should write a book about. It's not that exciting to me. And ironically, I don't feel satisfied with material possessions, activities and accomplishments. It seemed exiting before, but now I'd like to do a little less traveling, sailing and selling, and make some more rewarding memories. I enjoy meeting new people and hearing about their experiences and how they made it this far in life. I'm the guy that has at least something in common with everyone, and can get along with anyone. If you are ultra liberal, then I still have a more far left (a few) stance, and if you're ultra conservative, my views (most) are even more right. So no-one is safe, but everyone is welcomed too, since I am impressed if someone has thought about contemporary issues and formulated an opinion. With multiple businesses, and employees scattered abroad, my time is scarce, schedule is hectic, and work demands are high. But my family and friends always come first, and I never prioritize work above a personal invitation--$$ is not worth sacrificing meaningful fellowship. BTW, superbowl parties are not meaningful fellowship.
A meeting for lunch or a dinner is what I'm looking for, except my out of control beard sometimes gets sucked into my mouth while eating, so that's awkward and embarrassing. The worst is when you bite into a sandwich and trap your moustache between the bread and maxillary incisors. I'm biting into that ribeye sandwich to make a clean cut, and my upper lip feels like it's caught in a paper shredder. I don't expect you to like the beard, I can't even hardly stand it myself. My favorite televison shows are biographies. Also, sitcoms with strong character development like seinfeld, raymond, monk appeal to me. If we go to a movie and the producer relies on screenplay, setting, plot or other effect, then I feel ripped off.
This doesn't happen too often since now I pretty much boycott movies, and when I do go the bar is set so low that even Hunger Games only mildly raised my ire ("dad, there's three books..."). On the enneagram my personality type is an infp--pretty rare at 1 or 2% of the general population, and I'm attracted to tall, confident, outgoing types, but not oldest children or "my way or the highway" types because that's kind of the way I am but in a gentle way. If you are a middle or youngest child, (I'm not going to boss you around, but I do have an opinion on everything) and have experienced significant hardships in life, and have an eternal perspective, then we'll probably get along well. If you were raised on a farm and had to milk the cows and goats each morning in the dark, or grew up on the end of a dirt road and fixed your own car, then we'll have even more in common. But more importantly, you've learned to balance daily responsibilities with managing a household and maintaining lasting relationships and yet you still entertain lifelong dreams, and have not succumbed to the cynicism and ephemeral psuedo-rewards advertised and persued by society at large today. One of the dreams I haven't realized is fathering 10, 20 or 30 children like my parents. Now that we're older, I am getting okay with that unfulfilled dream. I'm confident taking my family, friends and my own life in my own hands, whether on the wheel, the yoke or the tiller, but refuse to skydive because that would be tempting our Creator, a violation of His direct command.
I'm older and wiser now, so I don't fly under bridges or do wheelies at 90mph, and I expect you to value your life as well and not buckle your kids or yourself in any seat of a smart car when my dented but comfy '89 suburban is more economical, greener and safer, plus it achieves a remarkable Je ne sais qua when pulling the period Overlander into yellowstone.

Date people from Arroyo Grande, United States. im somewhat middle aged im 42 but people tell me i look around 38 thats cool if age matters to you i have a body most woman love if you know what i mean i think my ideal match would be a young lady with the same look as me athletic healthy,sexy ,an likes to have fun she also have to be white no disrespect to anyone this is just what i perfer

Meet a soulmate from Arroyo Grande, United States. ....My friends would describe me as fun outgoing ...always up for a good time..some keep me around just for good laughs!! Humor is very important to me... I love life to the fullest...whether it is as simple as a walk on the beach, watching the sunset, hanging out at a lake, anywhere there is sun to get my tan on....luv trying new wines....just started drinking wine this past year...so always up for tasting and learning about our local wines....or going to a good movie...cuddling on the couch...love a good bbq...half the fun is the good conversation that goes on while the food is cooking...right? !Going out to listen to live music, love music...this new chapter in my life is to follow the music...so to speak...playing pool, or dancing the nite away... heck lets head out of town and go explore something new.
By going on here I am just hoping to meet w/some friends...go out, have some fun...and who knows....knock out a couple of the above fun things to do in our area....I will take the good memories and hopefully many laughs to add to this new chapter in my life...so cheers to making new friends and hope to talk with you soon....keep smiling...it makes people wonder what your up to!!!
........ I am a hopeless romantic and I have faith that there really is nice guys still out there...
YOLO... You only live once...so make this one count...don't watch life pass you by !!!

Date people from Arroyo Grande, United States. My friends tell me that I'm a fun, loving girl. I enjoy so many things in life. A simple evening in is just a special to me as a big night out on the town.
I am passionate about my children and love them very much. Always wanting the best in life for them.

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