Date men and women from United States / California / Carmel Valley, 36 year old

Date someone special from California, United States. Well, I'd like to think that I'm fun to be around and can always make people laugh (how can I not with that Elvis costume?!). Now that I'm done tooting my own horn, how about some actual, verifiable facts? I'm very athletic and a super quick learner. Intelligent and well spoken (read: "I have manners"), but still the type of guy who will always roll the dice, because without risk there's no reward. I rarely get angry or upset at anything because I just don't think its worth it and usually can't do anything about it. Never really moody and very easygoing, just like my screen name. Saying I'm very independent is an understatement. If you took me to a party, I'm the type of guy whose hand doesn't need to be held... I can make friends on my own.
Romantically, I treat women with respect, and still open the door for the girl, yes, even the car door. I love to travel (who on Match doesn't?), especially (or exclusively) surf or scuba vacations. My last five trips have been to Australia, Costa Rica, El Salvador, Canada (Whistler- unreal!!) & Mexico. I take yearly vacations in Cabo to stretch out my summers cuz I'm greedy like that!
I would like someone whose athletic, intelligent and spontaneous. Now while cuddling is nice, we can't do that 24/7. I enjoy being active with a girl, meaning doing hobbies, sports and traveling together. Girls, shopping is NOT a hobby, nor is it a sport (I don't care how fast you walk from store to store). Humor and the ability to laugh at yourself is always a must. Really, I would just like to date somebody who is currently where they want to be in life and is ready to move forward together.

Meet someone special from California, United States. FYI- NO WINKS PLEASE... :))
I am blessed with an amazing family! I am an only child and therefore extremely close to my parents. I am discerning when it comes to choosing my friends, as I like to give myself unconditionally to that friendship. Although I am the first to enjoy the "GOOD LIFE", I am certainly aware that It's the little things that really make life meaningful.I enjoy culture, the arts, both preforming & visual. Love to travel and see the world. I enjoy the fine things in life, yet will never be insanely materialistic. I would like to believe that I am a spiritual person more than religious. I still am a "Toys R Us" kid ( always will be) however my past experiences (personally/professi onally) have permitted me to know exactly what I want and don't want. I always aspire to be a better person but I can also say that I am very happy in my skin. I"am very driven when it comes to business but would never step on anyone to get my way. I am not a needy person and don't really enjoy that type of company either. My Latin roots have instilled in me the importance of caring for your partner. I think affinities in a couples social economical background are very important and make things function much more smoothly. On a lighter note- I love sports, although I am a wimp. Love the beach, outdoor activities, take care of my body, love to dress up, will enjoy the ugliest hole in a wall and the finest restaurant the next day.