Date people from Chula Vista, United States. I'm a shy and generally quiet person. A good listener. I have strong ideals and, I think, a strong sense of right and wrong. I have a good sense of humor which most of my friends and acquaintances enjoy, although I think most people are confused by my introspective nature. I always root for the underdog and I take pleasure when my friends achieve success. Being an idealist, I have to concentrate to enjoy my own successes and put them into proper perspective. I find it difficult to meet new people and it usually takes me more time to become comfortable around others before I can show my true personality.
I am interested in a woman whom I can have good conversations with. We don't have to agree and everything, in fact, I prefer that our concepts and ideas be quite divergent. I appreciate a woman of integrity, someone with a 'good soul'. Someone who is nurturing and kind, but also strong in her own beliefs. I find enjoyment in the simple things in life, so women who like to have a full schedule of travel and events will probably not find a relationship with me fulfilling.
Meet someone special from Chula Vista, United States. I need someone to worry about me and be honest the life with me and i will make her happy. When i go out of my place i know where i am going and what good should i do today, and that makes me happy. I want some one to share the beauty of life with me and i will do the same to her.
Date single man from Chula Vista, United States. spend time with friends , going to games and music, concerts ,and teathers. look for some one can start a light in mi life, some one can travel and enjoy the gastronomy around the world ,person the share, good and the bad moments. and help each others to look the sunshine, on mi side, to Relax together after a great time to look for new jouneys .to the different,Culturs. some one . who's is holding mi hand when i need it. a person the likes to help our friends
Meet someone special from Chula Vista, United States. I'm just looking around here. I not too sure about this online dating thing. I'm just merely curious about what this is all about.
I'm can be considered a quiet man and can be very curious about other people at times. Since this is a free account, I can't chat with people that IM me but I'll take winks.
Date single man from Chula Vista, United States. Feeling good about my lifestyle & relationship style, I'm a philosophical guy very detailed communicator but once you get past the big talk, I'm very funny, I'm very involved in my life's work as a researcher & future book writer, my schedule is very tight with work but come the weekends I enjoy the outdoors, live entertainment & planning events "I just got good at dating after 6 years of trial & error".......wisdom now!, I would love to share that journey with a women who is good hearted, light hearted & has a purpose driven life, last but not least, I am very committed to God & christocentric ministry, I speaking at churches,schools & community events so with that work and being a researcher/auditor, my schedule is tight, but I would slow all that down to celebrate a woman in my life.
Meet men and women from Chula Vista, United States. my friends and family would describe me as funny outgoing down to earth very talented in music easy to talk to very loving and a awesome loving dad and a hard worker i am looking for a family oriented girl that is down to earth and has goals in life that can enjoy the simple thing in life like a walk in the park or going out to the movies to staying home and watching movies with a anything goes personality i am very spontaneous person that loves to get up and go
Date a soulmate from United States. A little bit about me. Family and friends are very important to me, love...to travel, good company, good food, to entertain friends at my home, but also like going out, especially with a female companion. I love to laugh and make people laugh. So a good sense of humor is a must. I know I'll make you laugh in person, but I don't know about this online stuff. Guess I need some practice.
If you want to know more about me, check out the rest of my profile and/or just ask.
If I sound like someone you might be interested in...give me a wink, an email, somethin! Would love to get to know some new people and see what might be out there.
Meet people from United States. Hmmm...how about what I'm not instead of what I am. Think of it as a riddle of sorts.
I'm: not boring, not immature, not obnoxiously overflowing with testosterone, not without rhythm, not without a career, not ignoring what you have to say, not materialistic, not a hermit, not clueless, not missing the details about you, not homeless, not closed minded, not without fun modes of transportation, not without a sense of humor, not dramatic, not running away from danger, not without manners, not dragging my knuckles, not afraid to sweat, not really complicated, not ashamed to show affection, not the guy your parents warned you about, not out of shape, not afraid to commit, not without a sense of adventure, not a stranger to the tool box, not hiding a secret family somewhere, not a bad DJ/Producer, not ashamed to have served my country, not carrying any baggage, not typically serious, not the guy your friends will hate, not addicted to anything, not bad with money, not messy, not afraid to take a chance, not someone to leave your side, not uneducated, not unfaithful...ever, not going to stalk you on this website, not sure if this list is working the way I thought it would. lol
So those are some of the things I'm not. The things I am will pleasantly surprise you. You just found one of those few "good guys" that are left in this world.
A few quirks about me: I'm a native Californian, yet I don't spend all my free time at the beach. I've never owned flip flops and just don't like them. I wear some sort of boots 90% of the time, yet not cowboy boots. I'm not religious in any way, yet you would think I was by how I treat people and live a clean and honorable life. I love peace and happiness, yet have a very violent and ugly job. I live in the mountains where it's extremely quiet, yet I love very loud music. I worry about everyone's safety, yet I take risks all the time. I don't care for going to clubs and being in the "scene", yet I'm very good at playing the music for it. I could go on but this is getting pretty long already. lol
To clarify: I was engaged for 5 yrs (her choice) and married for 10. We made a life choice and still remain friends today and happily live 4 counties apart (No "ex wife" issues at all). I grew from that relationship and I am emotionally stable and available. Being with the same lady for 15 yrs means I'm finally potty trained! lol I can commit fully to that special person (I've seen me do it) but don't feel that marriage adds anything to the relationship that wouldn't exist otherwise. As a 10 yr marriage Vet, I'm pretty sure I would have noticed at some point. I'm not looking to have kids of my own; it's just not for me yet I'm told I'd make a great Dad. (Drives my Mom nuts; sorry Mom) I'd like to find that special someone who I can share my successes with, enhance each other's lives, and maybe ride off into the sunset together...on dirtbikes! lol My schedule for work, home maintenance, and play do not afford me the time, energy, or attention span to deal with immaturity or drama and I've walked away more than once. I get all the drama I can handle at work, thank you. I've lived enough to realize that life is not about building a resume about the things you have or the places you've been, but about the people that are in it and the relationships with those people.
Date a man from United States. my ideal match is some one frienly and easy going like me..loves the outdoors.travelling,eating out, working out.watchinm movies.and chillin.loves to cook. likes to be with family and friends.must have a pleasant to be with
Meet someone special from United States. laid back guy seeking some one who has simular interests, this person has to have a sense of humor. also has to know how to enjoy life, and not be afraid to try some thing new. while learning and growing together
Date single man from United States. I"m a man who has had a shady past but it has made me the man i am today which is understanding,loving,caring,patient I"m looking for someone who enjoys life and doesnt like to talk about peoples flaws a person who can see the good in people but must have back bone to strive for a better future and someone who knows how to take a compliment i love to show a women how great she is rub her feet and give her back rubs breakfast in bed and she must love to make sweet passionate love when the feeling hits us i just really need a friend to do everything
Meet men and women from United States. I want to find a good woman to share my life with her and to be a good couple, for having fun, for go to movies, for traveling. Also, for get too much progress and learn more about the life and be good to ourselves