Date men and women from United States / California / Chula Vista, 43 year old

Date a man from California, United States. Thanks for reading, if you find another spelling mistake I'll byu you a drink!
Words that best describe me are, down to earth, confident, ambitious, loyal, career driven, good sense of humor, drama-free type of person with a positive attitude and outlook in life. I believe in working hard to achieve your goals and dreams, but I also balance that with a healthy dose of fun, family and friends.
On the weekends, or at least a couple of times a month I play golf with friends, workout 2 to 3 times a week, run, bike, racquetball and tennis. When I'm not out and about, I enjoy having people over for dinner/BBQ but also enjoy some downtime at home watching a movie.
I don't watch much TV but I stay current by getting my news from Jon Stewart at the Daily Show and my current events from Chelsea Handler - lol
My ideal match would be an independent woman with a good sense of humor, passionate, honest, affectionate, preferably with a career who's looking for a lasting relationship.

Meet single man from California, United States. Easy going laid back,..humorous. I love life and the people that i surround myself with,im happy and I feel that i would like to spend time with someone that I really can connect with. Im happy alot!!

Date men and women from California, United States. Hello,
I said to myself, "Something has got to change!!!" Like the title says, I really do have a, "Good Life Need Someone to Share It With." I do the same things that couples do i.e. movies, dinner, trips. BIG difference, it is always going alone or with family.
I have been living in the Sunny San Diego area since 2004. Friends back home say that I am true friend to have and, I am easy to get along with. Not bragging, really, one thing about myself. When my Father talks to people about me, he always says, "This is my boy, he is first in our family to graduate from college." Due to my life experiences I have come to the realization that I am grateful to be alive.
It is kind of sad and, very disappointing but, I have been on this site for a year. Unfortunately, I have not made it to the proverbial, “First Date” not even a coffee. I and especially my nice, who showed and helped me with this site, do not understand why. I said to her jokingly, "Maybe it’s the "Eighth Wonder of the World". To quote her, “Uncle, it’s there loss”
I worked on Oil Rigs during the summers to pay for my college. I taught for awhile, served sometime in the Armed Forces and did some other stuff before finally retiring in 2007. To answer these questions: I don’t live at home in my mother’s basement and I am not unemployed. My mom passed away while I was deployed to Iraq. And I am retired. Some people can be so cruel and thoughtless. Apologizes if offended: I busted my ass working, was fiscally disciplined and money smart. That is why I retired young. IT"S ALL TRUE NO B.S. ask my family.
Please, if I write to you, response back. Even if it is to say, I AM NOT INTERESTED. I have taken the time to read your story, contemplate it, and write to you. I would do the same for you as well. It’s the right and respectable thing to do.
Take care have a nice day or evening. :)

Meet someone special from California, United States. I'm a Christian man who is into working out and plays semi-pro football. I like to go to the beach, movies, and fishing. Health is important so I am looking for a woman who takes care of herself. I'm NOT looking for the next top model but a real woman. Who is laid back like me and knows how to laugh and have fun or just cuddle on the couch. Cause I am very affectionate. I'm a big guy with a big heart. Looking for the right woman to share it with.

Date men and women from California, United States. My friends and family would probably say I am a driven individual who likes to succeed but also have fun. I am known to be very spontaneous and some times off the wall. I am trying to have as much fun as I can in this phase of my life. I dont take myself too seriously, life is too short to (dont get me wrong, when serious is needed I can be serious, I reserve that for the 40 hours a week I'm at work or when its needed). You have to have a sense of humor raising 2 teenage girls and having raised a 22 year old son who is in college. My kids are my #1 priority but I do have time for a budding friendship or relationship.
I am very secure in who I am and I am just looking for a man who can appreciate that in me along with all my other qualities. I am not looking for someone to make me happy, but someone I can share my happiness with.. I can be alone and I'm ok with that but having someone to share the good times with is much better!
I have a good job I actually enjoy going to each day and I am attending school to finish my degree. If I'm not at a sporting event for my girls, I enjoy being outside, love hiking Torrey Pines every chance I get, what could be better? Hiking and seeing the beautiful ocean. I love the ocean, being on and in the water. I am a huge Charger fan so I do try to get to at least 1 or 2 games a year..
A sense of humor is essential, to be able to laugh at yourself is very attractive to me. Love when you laugh so hard a snort escapes..

Meet a woman from Chula Vista, United States. Me?
I'm a positive, often smiling (note large grin in pic above), San Diego native who adores her family, friends and career. I'm a community college professor who loves learning and exploration.
Personality type: active, playful, honest, and thoughtful. I am well travelled and enjoy meeting new people and discovering new places. I like having a plan but love it when something pleasantly unexpected arises. Social and outgoing, I enjoy events where there is delicious food, a little wine and better conversation.
I am a romantic with a practical outlook, if that is possible. I believe we need to enjoy the now yet look to the future. I am also quite tactile and hope to enjoy a passionate relationship with my partner.
Just in case you read this before checking out my pics ;) , I have a four year old son who keeps me hopping; I love being a mom.
And you?
You are kind, considerate, affectionate, honest, love to travel / explore and have a fun nature. You believe in reciprocal relationships where giving is as pleasing as receiving. You are similarly active and outgoing, preferring a walk along the coast, an evening out on the town or dinner with friends to the remote.
You are a good listener and can communicate your thoughts well, so neither of us has to guess what the other is thinking/feeling. Hopefully, we'll have lots to talk about as well as enjoying comfortable silences.
You enjoy a variety of adult activities but [in the future if things are going well between us] would also have fun hanging out with me and my son.
You'll also understand I am a single mom and a professional educator. We'll need to take it slow and get to know each other.
P.S. Regarding my relationship status above: the divorce papers are filed and signed by the judge. I'm just waiting out the legal time limit.

Date someone special from Chula Vista, United States. I'm a kind, considerate, fun-loving person who loves to help others. I'm sincere, with a good sense of humor and take pride in being a great mom. I like taking care of myself and others. I want my partner in life to be proud to walk beside me. I am looking for someone that is real, honest, fun, considerate, affectionate and loving .. sounds like a lot, but I can offer the same... :) I love children and pets, I'm a hard worker and look for the same in someone else. Respect and sense of humor are very important qualities.

Meet a soulmate from Chula Vista, United States. San Diego is a beautiful city where I enjoy riding my bike and taking in the great scenery. I work out daily and try to live each day with gratitude and optimism. I am content with this great adventure called life however there are some things in this adventure that are much more exciting when shared with that special someone.

Date people from Chula Vista, United States. On my way to San Diego!
Have you ever done something because your intuition was telling you to? That is why I am moving to San Diego, I feel I am being called. So I am moving there sight unseen, except for a visit to the San Diego zoo over 20 years ago! At the moment I have been on the road since the end of May, so you could say I am homeless, LOL.
I was hanging out with my sister in Galveston, TX but not the right spot for me. I left Galveston and went to Asheville, NC to a homeopathy seminar, then visited some friends in Charlotte, NC (used to live there), went to a training in Orlando and then visited some friends in Atlanta and attended a workshop. I then headed up to Iowa (where I was born) and currently visiting some friends in Chicago.
I love great food, dancing and having fun. I am passionate of making a difference and love to speak and motivate people, including kids!
I am looking for someone that is independent, likes to laugh and who is open to trying new things.
I love to work hard and play hard and because I am passionate about what I do, it doesn't feel like work!
There are many layers to me, so instead of writing a book about myself. I will let you decide if something about me, interests you!

Meet men and women from Chula Vista, United States. Oh God!! Described myself . . . I'm an Aries, I love doing new things. I love meeting new people, my family, I enjoy reading in the mornings. This is the first time I am in a chat like thissssss. I am responsible in work, I stress less and less all the time although I love what I do for a living.

Date a woman from United States. JUST LOOKING FOR MY PARTNER FOR LIFE MY BEST FRIEND SOMEONE WHIT WHO CAN TAKE A WALK ON THE BEACH, A GLASS OF WINE COOKING TOGETHER OR JUST STAY AT HOME FOR A MOVIE.
I LIKE HANG OUT WITH MY FRIENDS AND VALUE MY FAMILY SO MUCH, I TRY TO BEING SURROUNDED OF GOOD PEOPLE.

Meet someone special from United States. I'm far from your traditional female........I don't like to shop, I don't do my nails.....although I do like pedicures. I don't like wearing makeup, I'm rough and tough......I can throw a football and do a Pete Rose dive. I'm a go with the flow kinda gal and will try anything once. I enjoy life and take one day at a time. I don't care what people think or say about me but I do care about people. I am the most honest upfront person you'll meet but I'm not rude about it. I like to think that I'm what you see is what you get......I don't pretend or say things I don't mean. I will always tell you the truth and expect the same. I just like to do things and want someone who wants the same. I do like staying home at time but I want to see the beauty this world has to offer.

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