Date people from California, United States. I have been transferred back to San Diego beginning 16 May 2012. 4 words; humble, handsome, intelligent, and athletic. I tried to get your attention. If it worked, now forget about all that. None of those characteristics are important unless they are wrapped in a kind heart, blended with a caring, giving, loving, fun, and sensual romance. If we are not having fun, we are doing something wrong. Did you ever think that trying to find that special person is like that TV show what is behind doors #1, 2, and 3?
Behind door #1 is chemistry, important in the classroom essential to the human heart. We both know it and we both have felt it. Do I have the look, the persona that attracts you and vice versa.
Behind door #2 is your personality and your belief system. My belief system has the four cornerstones of a healthy meaningful relationship, anchored in respect, trust, communication, and desire. Ask me why desire is the wild card. LIFE and laughter both start with an L.? Remember Integrity is a concept that starts with an I. Life is not a dress rehearsal; no one is getting out alive, and I was not promised a round trip ticket. Let's make it fun. L. I. F. E. Laughter, Integrity, Fun, and Excitement. Be honest, who ever signed up for a program that says I want my romance to be boring and vanilla? DonвЂ™t you think vanilla is a spice better left in the kitchen and the spice is better if brought into romance? Door #2 is opened if both our personalities are woven with some common threads. My personality believes most men have forgotten how to be men as most women have forgotten how to be women. My job as a man is P x 2 = Provide and Protect. To allow a quiet confidence to Provide a safe harbor, a Protected environment for your emotions and feelings where you feel Protected. As a woman, the more at ease and protected you feel the better the relationship. Imagine that a man is stating his role is to take the responsibility of emotional security while maintaining the "ing" things. You know the ing things. Traveling, kissing, exploring, cooking, romancing, dancing, cuddling, biking, bbqвЂ™ing, hand holding, hiking, kissing, athleticing. Simply things ending in ing. Let's face it, if you are with the right person taking out the trash is funвЂ¦does that mean trash taking should be added to the ing list? What is behind your door #2, your personality, and how do you see your role as being a woman?
Behind door #3 is how do you want to live your life? How compatible we are. Easy, healthy, happy, funny, romantically goofy, compatibility. I guess I want to live life with things that end in вЂњYвЂќ. Door #3 is the deal breaker. If door #1 is opened and we have chemistry, this opens door #2 where we have a similar belief system that opens door #3. Compatibility behind door #3, is how do we want to build a relationship and grow old with the вЂњYвЂќ things.
I am looking for one woman who intrigues me. A woman who believes baggage is for the bellman, laughter is lifeвЂ™s panacea, and that a kiss should last between 30 seconds and 3 days. A woman that believes if something is worth doing, it is worth doing with passion. A woman who knows if you want a rose garden, you will have to get your hands dirty. I believe you learn more from lifeвЂ™s failures than lifeвЂ™s successes, and that if you keep your nose to the grindstone too long you will get a short nose. Life is not a spectator sport. I want to be a part of a team that enjoys being in the game of life rather than be a spectator to life. I believe you should be a little crazy and goofy or you will go crazy and end up goofy. I believe that on fourth and one you should go for it and that some people are just kinder more giving and more sensual than others. Do you enjoy the ing and y things ? I do, and I just believe they are better shared. In looking for that needle in the hay stack it takes the desire to move some hay, open some doors, and say hello.