Date women from United States / California / West Menlo Park, 43 year old

Date a woman from United States. Hi :~)
I'm easy going, down to earth, love being outdoors, enjoy working out, soccer is my passion, my family and my son are my priority. I have several interests and am open to trying just about anything. I enjoy eating out and trying new restaurants. I stay pretty active but also like down time and time to cuddle and relax.
I am somewhat of a "tom boy", I ride dirt bikes, mountain bike ride, love camping, run, yoga, four wheelin, snow ski, waterski...too many activities to list :) but then I enjoy putting on a dress and heels and going out on the town. Life is too short so I try to take advantage of the time I have. Farmer's markets, art and wine festivals, sporting events, dancing, living life, laughing and just having good times!!
I'm looking for someone who is family oriented and likes trying new things and going to new places. Someone who is confident in who he is, knows what he wants, isn't afraid to show his sensitive side and feels comfortable enough to do so, a man who takes care of himself and likes taking care of the one he's with. I definitely believe whomever you're with needs to be your best friend, so honesty, openness and respect are very important!
I'm not looking for a quick "hook-up". Would really like to meet someone who is looking for a potential long-term commitment, so if you're not emotionally available or are into playing games, so not interested!! I need a true man who is ready to share his life with that special someone. Believe me I'm not looking for a quick marriage proposal, but would like to find that man who makes me laugh, who is reliable, trustworthy, compassionate, respectful, warm hearted, enjoys being affectionate, and doesn't take life too serious. If the chemistry is there you never know what may happen! Good luck!
Have a great day!
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