Date women from United States / California / Ladera Ranch, 43 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I am a woman that has experienced a lot out of life. I find that through my difficult times and challenges, it has built my character and made me a better person. I truly believe in the power of positive thinking and being healthy. I am a person that likes the finer things in life while still being grounded and "real". I appreciate the "good life" but do not appreciate superficial people, snobs or negative people. I thrive on physical fitness and live on the "high" that a good work out can give me. I also know how to have a lot of fun and enjoy myself. Having fun is what life is all about and there is nothing better than enjoying life! (especially with a good glass of wine) I strive for that balance in my life between work, my daughters, dating and "me"- It is very important that I go out once or twice a week to enjoy myself. This keeps me well balanced (plus I work out of my home). I am looking for my partner, my best friend and my equal. I want all of that with hot- chemistry. I am also realistic and know that a relationship takes work and want to put in the work and dedication to have an amazing relationship once I meet that right guy. I love my daughters very much and would do anything for them so it is very important that a man I meet loves them too. I have had a lot of succeses in my life and I have also made a lot of mistakes. But as long as I have learned from my mistakes, and truly learned from them and grow, then they wern't mistakes at all. I live with happiness in my heart and look forward to finding the right guy to share this happiness with.

Meet a woman from California, United States. I am very easy going, down-to-earth, love kids and animals. I tend to have a way of putting people at ease. Think it's because I'm very genuine and casual, which makes me very accessible and approachable. People certainly don't have to put on a big show to be with me - in fact I much prefer if they didn't.
I find a "direct approach" refreshing, but don't like drama. I'm pretty intelligent – heck, guess even border on "nerd" - and enjoy a long, stimulating conversation. If you like Sci Fi - I can talk your ear off about that - but am also really happy on the back of your motorcycle or playing pool in some dive bar; I'm not remotely materialistic. I think I've just decided however, that I prefer the term "Intellectual Badass" to "Nerd." It rings slightly better. haha.
I was/am big into improving myself, and feel I'm a pretty well adjusted person now. As such, I'm definitely not the type to get jealous, jump to conclusions, or get angry. I treat those around me with honesty and respect and expect the same in return. :)
I can also have a quirky sense of humor - and enjoy a great battle of wit. I joke around alot - am light-hearted and enjoy making myself laugh.
I can have a bold fun side - especially when you get to really know me. My perfect match would be a nice, down-to-earth guy who likes children, is emotionally healthy (not into drama), and has similar hobbies or interests... I'm looking for someone who is confident and comfortable in his own skin. Someone who doesn't try to be someone else. Someone who is honest and values his integrity. Everything you see or hear from me is the truth - you can trust me. I'm all about personal integrity and am looking for someone with similar values. :)