Date women from United States / California / Livermore, 43 year old

Date someone special from Livermore, United States. Am I blonde or am I a red head? You'll have to like both because I flip between the two.
Me: honest, loyal, respectful, trusting, caring, semi-adventurous, and casual (not high maintenance). I'm a bit shy and reserved in the beginning, but open up quickly. I don't feel my age or act it. I tend to be sillier than a lot of 40ish year old women and most people guess that I'm younger. Trying to pick a "body type" was difficult, I have curves and am athletic, therefore I chose "about average", even though I don't know what average is. Hopefully my pictures paint a better picture than the description. I have 3 tattoo's (not large), so if they're not you're thing, I'm probably not for you. I'm not perfect and will never pretend to be. I know where I could improve and work daily at strengthening my inner and outer self.
You: hopefully will have some of the same characteristics as me. I prefer a man that is laid back and relaxed. Casual in appearance, but knows how to dress for the occasion. Like you, I'm of course looking for someone that is "attractive", but "beauty is in the eye of the beholder". I can't define what I'm attracted to, I simply know when I see him, so a photo is a must. I can say that I prefer a "blue collar" type, but "white collar" concealing a bad boy works too! I'm drawn toward tattoo's, big trucks, motorcycles and cowboy hats. You should be about my age and your values/morals mean as much to me as your looks.
I enjoy humor and have a sarcastic wit, which is difficult to get a feel for over text or e-mail. A few short ones are fine in the beginning, but I prefer talking over the phone or meeting in person.
I may as well let you know now that: I speed, drive an SUV, love chocolate, prefer 5 Guys over In 'n' Out, occasionally swear, NOT 420 friendly, and I'm not a connoisseur of wine or sushi, but that's not to say I won't accompany you wine tasting or to a sushi bar. I list Livermore as my city, although I'm currently in Castro Valley. Livermore is where I'll be moving and hope to find someone in proximity to there.
No doubt you've already heard other women say their kids are their world, as mine are to me and therefore, I am a package deal, my kids will be included when the time is right. I share 50/50 custody of two and 1 is an adult.
While I would like to find a lasting relationship, friendship comes first. Without it, a relationship can't thrive. It's taken me a while to get to the point where I'm open to a relationship and hope to find someone that is open to one also. If you think we may be a match, let me know, but if you're only looking for a physical connection, please look elsewhere.
P.S. If you're looking to leave CA when you retire, we may be perfect for each other!!

Meet a soulmate from Livermore, United States. PASSION FOR LIFE AND LOVE! NOT JUST IN THE BEGINNING BUT ALWAYS! ROMANCE IS A MUST. CANDLES, GOOD FOOD, MASSAGES, MEDITATION MUSIC, KISSING, SWEET TEXT MESSAGE THROUGHOUT THE DAY! I WOULD BE CONSIDERED RELAXED, FUNNY , SEXY, CUTE AND LOTS OF CONTROLLED CHOAS ALL ROLLED INTO ONE! LAUGH LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO BE A SAD ANGERY PERSON!
200 CHARACTERS GEEEEEEEZZZZZZZZZZZZZ! CAN I WRITE ENJOY LIFE AND LOVE OVER AND OVER!
I LOVE TO HIKE, RIDE BIKES, WORKOUT, EAT WELL, DRINK WINE, SPEND TIME WITH MY FAMILY AND FRIENDS, GO OUT AND HAVE A GOOD TIME, ENJOY SPENDING TIME WITH MY LIFE GROUP FROM CHURCH. CAN BE A LITLE BIT WILD AND CRAZY IN A TOTALLY FUN WAY! I LIKE TO KEEP MY LIFE SIMPLE AND LIGHT. NO DRAMA NO GAMES! AFTER BEING MARRIED FOR ALMOST 20 YEARS I JUST WANT SOMEONE TO LOVE AND HAVE FUN WITH! SO CAN YOU KEEP UP AND KEEP IT LIGHT? I AM KINDA EXHAUSTING IVE BEEN TOLD. NO PICTURE I DONT NEED MATCHES JUST FROM SEEING MY PIC. MAYBE I WILL POST ONE OR 2 SOMETIME

Date a woman from Livermore, United States. I am an energetic free spirit that loves to travel at the spur of the moment, with no plans but my backpack and a plane ticket to adventure. Love being around kids and friends, spending time outdoors enjoying life. Active lifestyle....love working out with my friends and personal trainer, training for triathlons is my new passion.....the hours of dedicated training leading up to the event with friends and team mates is sometimes all consuming but it's what it's all about..then the race and the FINISH....what an accomplishment....!
I prefer gentlemen, well traveled, and cultured in the finer things in life....no couch potatoes. Let's teach each other something NEW.
I am looking for a strong confident individual that loves life and wants to explore everything. Someone who is honest and sincere and has a great smile to make me laugh.
I work hard and play hard too. I am searching for my connection, my best friend, lover, someone who is not afraid to take the next step.
Wishing you all fun experiences in your searches.....

Meet someone special from California, United States. Busy single mom looking for companionship. I love concerts, plays, dining, movies, liberal politics, etc. I don't have a lot of extra time, but it would be fun to hang out. Apprehensive about online dating.

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I believe in True Love! Do you? You might say I'm a dreamer...and YES, I AM. Life is too short, true love is rare, but dreams will always be there... I'm somewhat old fashioned and wondering if there are still any old fashioned, gentlemen out there? I often wonder is it possible for us at this age to fall in love again? Madly in love again? Or is it nearly impossible? I could be wasting my time here since I'm looking for my soulmate, for LTR, but starting to wonder if this is the right place for that...
Anyway, as they say: “A picture is worth a thousand words”! So what are 4000 words worth? 4 pictures? LOL...Hopefully, they are equivalent to some "Truth"!!
Almost everyone here on Match is near perfect: So smart, so good looking, so successful, so confident, so happy, and seems to be doing rather well by themselves. Obviously, no one seems to really "need" anyone. The "Attractives" are looking for the "Attractives", and even the "Not So Attractives" are looking for the "Attractives"! Not only people are seeking for good looking men/women, they are also looking for the successful, the confident, the fit, the smart, and healthy as if the sick, the poor, and the ugly do not need love, and don't want to enjoy life!!...(sigh)...what a shallow world! And do you think they stay together once they found each other? I hope to find the one who is kind, affectionate, compassionate, generous and thoughtful, since I'm a giving and considerate person myself. I think I've just weeded out all the cheapskates : )
ME: I NEED you! Will I ever find you? YOU: An ordinary man with an extraordinary heart who values love, family, and relationship. A man of integrity, understands the meaning of love, and appreciates it from me. Someone who is not afraid of committment; who has time to devote himself to building a long, lasting relationship. You: A man who is a gentleman, able to keep his words, and NEEDS me! Need is not = Desperate, but I'll leave it up to you to define "NEED" for us. I need you because: I want to fall in love with you, and to love you with all of my heart. I need you because: I want to be there for you just as you would be there for me. But most of all, I need you because I want us to still hold hands when we are both old and wrinkly walking down the street. I want us to still be able to look into each other's old eyes and see that spark of love... Not too much to ask, right? But seems almost impossible to get these days! I guess true love is so hard to find because it evolves from a strong, understanding relationship, but unfortunately most people tend to forget that to get there, it requires work, hard work, time, effort, understanding, and constant nurturing for the relationship to flourish!
About me: I'm just an ordinary, average gal who has a big heart, and much love/affections to offer. I'm no "near perfect", and so I possess both good, and bad traits. I'm sure you agree with me that there's no need to list them here, as you could only see them in person anyway. At this point in life, I'm proud of everything that I've achieved. I value, and appreciate all that I've earned, and feel equally blessed with what I have, and have not!
In a relationship: Honesty, Faithfulness, and Open Communications from both parties are expected. To me, the key to any successful relationship is: Trust, Understanding, Passion, and Support for each other, plus absolute Loyalty! (Players belong to Players Club)! Thanks for reading!
- "Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; loving someone deeply gives you courage!"- Lao Tzu

Meet a woman from California, United States. WHAT I WANT"
What I find attractive in a man is wit, creativity, compassion, sensitivity and intelligence. My match is above all someone who strives to be non judgmental and kind. Also an adventurer at heart with an openness to explore new things.
Looking for someone who isn't afraid of love and is emotional available to explore the best of what relationships have to offer. And believes couples grow from adversity and is not afraid to tackle issues head on - rather than running from them. Someone who is a good communicator and willing to take a chance. IРІР‚в„ўm seeking a best friend, a true love and soul mate, partner in crime and a partner in life.
First and far most: ) am not here to be a dating Bandit! I am not interested in everyone, I truly am not going to respond to everyone, because it's crazy overwhelming, I just can't . I want the other half of me, and I will wait as long as I need to, to be complete, to be with the right one!!!! I want someone who gives me that "crave" from the gate, and I know when it it is, I will feel it, I have had it before, and was stupid and let it go!
so please read what I am looking for : ) And I will also, when I contact you: ) Don't email me if your do not want the same. And don't email me for FWB....... And don't get offended if I haven't emailed back, but If I do, then you know I am into YOU.........

Date someone special from United States. Greetings and thanks for dropping by! Here's me in a very small nutshell: I am a tall, curvy, blue-eyed blonde woman of Irish-Czech descent raised in Orange County and living now in the beautiful Livermore wine country. I've been told by my friends that I'm kind of a guys' girl. I quote movies probably way too much, but I love when someone gets it and joins in. I love being outdoors whether its for a hike or a week of camping. I can be sassy at times, but always in a funny or self-depricating way. I'm very social and talkative, but I'm also a great listener. I'm an obvious extrovert, but I also enjoy a quiet evening snuggled up on the couch with someone special. Giving to others makes me feel great, and I'd love a man in my life who I can spoil with my attention and affection! I smile and laugh often and I am a truly happy person. I'm just missing that partner in crime!
But enough about me, let's chat about you! You are emotionally available. I am a heart-on-my-sleeve kind of girl, and a hopeful (not hopeless) romantic who is looking for something real and good and really good! You're funny. You gotta know how to laugh and make me laugh. And pretty much if you are truly funny, chances are you're wicked smart too! You're smart, you can be extremely handsome, but if you can't keep up in conversation, it won't work. As long as you have it going on upstairs, please continue...physically, it would be a bonus if you were tall. I am 5'9" and with heels, over 6' and I enjoy looking up at a man! ;-)
You love music and adventures on the fly. You like to try new places outside of your comfort zone. You don't mind random stops along the way, and consider the journey itself is often more important than the destination.
You are an honest man with integrity. A respectable man. A true man (not a boy) who wants a real woman in his life, and knows how to treat her. You are confident, sexy, secure, and loyal.
I know you are out there, so let's get this show on the road and meet!