Date someone special from Gridley, United States. "Destiny is not a matter of change, it is a matter of choices; it is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved." -I won't write a novel detailing everything about me, that's what dates are for, but I will give you the basics. I am a mother of four wounderful children (don't worry, they are grown and out of the house), and one beautiful grand daughter. I have a sense of adventure and am willing to go out and try somthing new, or relax at home with nothing but good company. I know how to laugh at myself and sympathize with others around me. I am independent, but not so much that I don't want someone solid and reliable by my side. My preception of an ideal relationship is complete and utter comfort. Where I am free to be myself and you are free to be yourself. I have learned that time is important. Laughing is essential. Prefection is impossible. I am willing to expose myself emotionally-as it is the only way to reap love's greatest rewards - are you?