Date women from United States / California / Patterson, 43 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. Hello, Please message me and also I am new to this so let me know how to as well. Winks? I read that these aren't too popular, why do they have them then? I guess I a quick fix to maybe your cute, do you think I might be cute too? Is that the wink mentality?
Okay, ...My sense of adventure! I want to go and see....In fact... I am always looking for new places. I love drives and seeing something new. In town, away. Anywhere!
I have an open mind to basically anything and enjoy just so many things. I really like the little things.. conversation, candlelight, bundling up in the winter, live music, stars, movies, and that moment your heart stops when you see someone special. I am looking for that someone now. Its been a while. I have been in 5 relationships in my life. So I know not everyone is right for me. But I have been with those that are wrong for me. Does that make any sense anyway??
I believe that the key to anything in life is passion.. as long as you have that, you will be alright. It is the first thing I look for in a relationship, and without it life kinda sucks.. I am very passionate. And I am so towards lots of things.
I lead an active lifestyle and enjoy being outdoors over a stuffy bar (then again, a nice margarita somewhere after a busy day is fine by me). For the most part, I eat healthy, new plan for me too. And I feel so much better too.... Most weekends include a trip to the green market, or farmers market , I would love to find someone that shares this same interest. I try and exercise daily.
I appreciate good values and someone who genuinely cares about other people, especially their significant other.. who does the thoughtful things, big and small.. someone who is honest with me and themselves.. confidence and trust required. I have manners and treat people with respect. You are someone that has depth and can introduce me to new things. You're adventurous enough to not ask questions when I plan a day. You are unique, affectionate and i am addicted to you. You inspire me to be a better person. We have fun and genuinely enjoy each other's company. Above all, we laugh together.
If you want to know more, you'll just have to ask Message me. (is that how you talk here?)