Date women from United States / California / Harbor City, 43 year old

Date someone special from Harbor City, United States. Don't know where to begin here only that I am looking for someone who basically don't need me, but wants to be with me...I'm not looking for happilily ever after...reality is...life is full of contrast, and I have learned to embrace not only the good things but also the uncertainties, and look for ways to expand and trust and love...myself first..and it is from that place of confidence and security in who I am that I am seeking my friend, my lover, my partner....
I am looking for someone who is able to enjoy goodness, and also walk this journey in life with me through any challenges that may arise on the journey..
I'm looking to connect on a higher level ...meaning beyond the mind. I know exactly who I am looking for so much that I am willing to not be with anyone until I meet him. It doesn't matter what kind of job he does only that he is in love with what he does, and knows without a shadow of a doubt that he is making a difference on the planet.
I can spend time with him, and I can spend time away from him. There is freedom from attachment, yet I feel so connected to him. He is my friend, and I can tell him anything. Or I can be silent, and still feel so connected to him, even without words filling our space. He values me, and I value him. I'm emotionally free, and so is he.
I'm no domestic goddess, so I want a man who can cook and clean...just kidding...I would enjoy cooking with you...more than for you...
All for now...until we meet....Peace....