Date women from United States / California / Colton, 43 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. Would like to connect with someone that enjoys life and likes to get out and do things. To share the beauty life has to offer and have fun. I want to meet someone that wants to be in a relationship. Nothing serious at first but no booty call either. I do have a little 5 year old son that lives with me. I not looking for a father for him but someone that will respect the fact I have a little one and likes kids.
I am looking for someone that can bring out the best in me and vise versa. I enjoy people, activities, and being social.
As for me, well. yes my son is my priority; but I realize I need time for myself as well. I admit I do miss going out to dinner and listening to live jazz. Or dancing to a great salsa tune. Having a margarita at a comedy club. Don't get me wrong. I also love just spending time with someone special and just being able to have a pleasant conversation over a cup of coffee too. I do miss holding hands and having someone to laugh with. You have to have a sense of humor about things and smile. I am a romantic and appreciate the little things that make one feel that they are being thought of. It's been a while since I went out on a date and feel like a fish out of water, but all I can be is myself and you should be too.
I am not skinny. I have curves. I do have olive skin color and tend to tan pretty good. I do have golden/carmel highlights in my hair and almond shape eyes. I like to try to take care of myself. I do get my nails done and pedicures, but I am not high maintance. I like to do alot of gardening and working on my house. Family is very important to me.
My 83 year old father lives with us and I feel just because you hit a certain age that you should not have to live in a nursing home. Family takes care of family. When my mom passed away last year her and my dad had been married for 54 years. I only hope that I am a blessed to be with the love of my life for that long and that person feels the same about me. So, good luck to all of us looking for that special kind of commitment and love.