Date men and women from United States / California / Santa Barbara, 42 year old

Date men and women from United States. OK, just just browsing my supposed "matches"... and something struck me. Is long hair on a guy just the worst thing ever? Is that really the biggest turn off there is? Not poverty, lying, being obnoxious, or smelling bad?
I swear in 99.9% of the profiles on here, if ANYTHING is listed under turn-offs at all, it's long hair... nothing else.
I have noticed that hippie bashing is tre-cool these days (I blame punk rock and Eric Cartman), but I am not a "hippie", (actually, I don't think any REAL ones exist under the age of 50-something anyway), the hair is more of a metal/Conan the Barbarian thing for me (hmmm, I may be answering my own question here).
So even if I turned out to be one of the funniest, most unique, interesting, talented, nice smelling, and just all around coolest guys ever ('cuz, actually, I am, especially the smell thing) , none of that would matter because my hair is past my shoulders huh? I'm ranting aren't I?
Alright, now that Ive completely alienated the vast majority of you, ON WITH THE BS... uhhh, I mean PROFILE!
I suppose my better qualities are my sense of humor, an insatiable intellectual curiosity (I get interested in just about everything at one time or another... except talentless "celebrities"), and the fact that I can lift very heavy objects when properly motivated. I am gainfully employed as a web developer, have my own car, a decent apartment (s'roomy anyway), and a 14 (...geez, is that right? NOPE, she's 17 now) year old daughter who reminds me that humanity is far from a lost cause. I have a weakness for women who think they're smarter than everyone in the room, but have no desire to prove it to anyone in particular. I'm a sucker for nice hair (but have no length or color preference ;-P) and expressive eyes (you know, the whole smoky, smoldering thing), but beauty is so subjective it's hard to describe "my perfect match". Besides, have you ever noticed how the way people look tends to change as you get to know them? Not being very into superficial relationships (I suppose I could learn though) or one-nighters (again, everything is negotiable...heh), I'm looking for someone to inspire me, to have far ranging and somewhat self righteous conversations with, and well, I'm just looking to make a real connection with an interesting woman.
Seems this is a tall order, or is that just cause I don't have a picture posted? ...hello? (Yeah, the pic thing is a big one aint it)
Wrote this a couple years ago now, and I'd have to say the answer is... YES, it IS the worst thing ever apparently...

Meet a soulmate from United States. I could write so much and well for others but it's hard to write about yourself. For me. I know I am a loyal, passionate, honest, sincere person. I'm playful and would like to be with someone who is as well. Age is a number cause I think I'm still youthful-ly:-) spirited yet have grown much wisdom and maturity through my experiences. I'd like to be with someone that I could be myself and vice versa. I love arts & music but I also like to read what's going on in the world as well. I think I'm grounded & well rounded.. Meaning I love listening from classic rock to reggae to 80's, few great 70's, top hits, to acoustic guitars. I love to explore places and do photography. I love to dine out and taste different foods but i enjoy entertaining friends & preparing a nice meal at home is fun too! In every relationship, it begins with friendship, having some common interests yet open to explore & exchange different ones with respect for each other.

Date someone special from United States. I am an open and honest person who likes to laugh and have fun. I like to go out and enjoy the local community or stay home and watch a movie. I enjoy cooking and trying new dishes while sharing the kitchen with friends. I am looking for a person who has a witty sense of humor and likes to enjoy life and be relaxed at the same time.
My friends and family are very important to me and I enjoy spending time with them. I am equally comfortable spending time by myself. I am looking for someone who wants to spend time with me, but is also independent.

Meet men and women from United States. Look, here it is in a nutshell. I'm re-entering the crazy world of dating after a 20 year marriage. I know who I am. I'm not sure where to start but I know that there's someone out there for me and me for him. I've considered letting it happen organically but I might as well let the digitized world funnel in like-minded individuals. I don't want to be too serious right now, I just want to get to know some new people, share a friendly conversation, see if we are on the same plane. Then, possibly, move on to fun activities.
I'm a mother of two. I love my kids and I love my job. No complaints but I'd love to find someone who has integrity similar to mine and who would like to build fond memories with me.

Date a woman from United States. Man who is honest, trustworthy, has integrity, morals, good ethics, has faith and is faithful. One who treats a woman like a woman, practices chivalry. Genuine, caring, thoughtful, generous, warm-hearted.

Meet people from Santa Barbara, United States. I am looking for a person who love to have fun, laugh out loud, who can make me smile, who is not affraid of trying new things, like sky driving,and travel. It is my opinion that life is to short, so live everyday as if tomorrow will never come.

Date a soulmate from Santa Barbara, United States. Hello All,

Thank you for taking the time to view my profile. Well several things about my self: I enjoy doing spontaneous actives such as catching a movie at the spare of the moment to planing a well thought out weekend get-away. This brings excitement and diversity into my busy life. I tend to always push myself to reach my goals to remind me how much any dream or challenge can be completed with hard work and perseverance. This mind-set reminds me how much life can become wonderful and meaningful.
My children mean the world to me because I'm reminded to look with-in myself to become a better person and mother. I want to continue to set a good example for my kids until the end of my existence. I would never change these aspects of my life because they have shaped me into the person that I am.

Being away from beautiful Santa Barbara for almost two years to concentrate on graduate school and work. I returned with a new realization of how important it is to spend quality time with my family and friends to foster deeper relationships. This is why I value my relationships. I like to learn from others because it gives me an opportunity to understand a different point of view I may not agree with but I would consider and respect. Yes, I know I tend to be too serious at times to keep me grounded but most of the time I like to be sassy or goofy. Then there are those times when I want to relax by watching comedy, romantic, action, psychological thrillers, or take long beach walks. Of course, I like to share those special moments with my significant other by cooking together or simply cuddling next to a fire or on the beach watching the sunset.

The type of characteristics I'm looking for in a guy are: Gentle, kind, honest, integrity, ambitious, optimistic, takes pride in his work, problem solver, open minded, generous, sense of humor, and be his true self. Most of all I want to fall in love with my best friend and my equal. I'm seeking a committed, long term relationship hopefully ending in marriage.

Meet someone special from Santa Barbara, United States. Out going and fun, loves to travel, nice long walks on the beach, hold hands, loves all kinds of music, nice dinners and wine tasting. Strong out going person who isn't afraid to show his emotions son how he truly feels.

Date men and women from Santa Barbara, United States. I'd much rather meet the old-fashioned way naturally ie: in a cycling group, at the tennis courts, on the trail, in the surf, out with friends or at a coffee shop as this on- line dealio is very foreign to me. But it's a modern world and I am curious about this medium as I am a busy professional, very dedicated mom and active athlete..life is short and very worth being engaged in so this avenue might be worthwhile or not-just checking it out. Hesitant at this stage to post photos but will happily email several if requested (I don't think you'll cringe!) I am a super upbeat, innately happy person who has thrived in my awesome and independent 18 yr career, being very involved with my loving, FUN and warm-hearted kids, and being passionate about the outdoors and many sports. Very open-minded, educated, tall, slender, natural, athletic, feminine, traveled, secure, thoughtful, silly, spontaneous, fun, adventuresome and a true friend..and I swear, that's all legitimate!