Date men and women from United States / California / Rancho Bernardo, 42 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. UPDATE...I am no longer a current subscriber, am giving it a break for now but if you want to contact me, please try any other way other than to send a message to me here because non-members cannot read emails. If one were so inclined, one could do this with san diego rancho bernardo q t, using the first letter of these 6 words and putting them all together and removing the o t in got male (misspelled on purpose).
Hi, so what's different about my profile you ask? I am honest; I am what you see, no games here, independent, down-to-earth, intelligent, has her head placed correctly on her shoulders and has a real good sense of humor. I am the flavored coffee and creamer type who loves to get up early on the weekends and start the day with breakfast, conversation and laughter. I get excited not knowing what the day will unfold and look forward to just seeing what takes place.
The type of activities I enjoy doing are things like listening and dancing to live music, love to laugh so stand-up comedy is great, playing poker or board games, cooking one of my special recipes (herb roasted chicken with mustard marinade or sweet'n spicy pork tenderloin) and learning new ones, shootin some pool (yeah I can hold my own), watching football...GO STEELERS, wine tasting, riding my bike and dining out for sushi, seafood or a good rib eye.
What I would enjoy finding in a man is someone who is kind, respectful, witty, knows how to take control and be a man with ideas, opinions and knows how to communicate. It would be a bonus if he likes to go out dancing and enjoys cooking, either for me or together. I am ultimately looking for someone to share some or all of the above with and to have new ideas/activities brought into our lives that we can experience together. I want to find a best friend that can grow into something special and meaningful. I also hope to find the last man I will ever date :).