Date men and women from United States / California / Oceanside, 42 year old

Date a woman from Oceanside, United States. Honest, sincere, truthful....no games or drama...Must be employed...like children...as I have grown children and they visit often. Must like the outdoors. Must like staying home too...I am very plain and enjoy going out but also enjoy just having a simple night at home watching movies and having a good conversation.

Meet people from Oceanside, United States. Okay, this is really long, so be prepared. :)
I am an adventurous, funloving, affectionate person who enjoys being around intelligent, funny and kind people. I was raised in Asia, with family roots in Tennessee, so I am kind of an Asian-southern-white-California girl. Ha! I love to read, sing, be on stage (can someone please take me to do Karaoke!), dance, walk on the beach, wrestle with my boys, laugh, visit new places and try new things.
I would love to say I am super athletic and perfectly toned, but I'm not really. I am slender, but I don't really enjoy sweating alot, and I don't have the stamina for extreme sports (extreme being for me surfing, skiing, mountain biking, etc. ha!). Bummer, I know, but I have to be honest. However, people do tell me I LOOK like I work out! I just started taking Taekwondo with my boys, something I always felt too old for, but what the heck, right? And I love to play on the beach. Need a good beach volleyball coach right now though.
I am into interior design and enjoy designing and creating jewelry. I do have a Master's degree in Psychology (surprise!) which I have used to counsel disabled veterans for about 10 years on and off. If that is a little scarey, good news is-I don't ask new friends to lay on my couch or tell me about their relationship with their mother.
Family and friends are very, very important to me and I tend to be very traditional in my values. I have been very blessed in my life and am grateful to God for how much He has given me. Soooo...my outlook on life tends to be positive. I love to laugh til my stomach hurts and I enjoy making others smile and laugh as well. Please be a FUN guy if you contact me!!!
I am looking for a guy who is very intelligent-but relaxed, can laugh at himself, loves people and knows how to take care of a girl, is a strong leader but can be gentle and compassionate. He also needs to have a genuine love for God and attend church regularly-gotta have that spiritual compatibility!
At this point in my life, I am looking for friendship, nothing serious and nothing intimate. We can take it from there, then, who knows? I am open. :)
Oh yeah, honestly, I DO enjoy deep meaningful conversation and I AM told I have a nice personality :).

Date men and women from Oceanside, United States. Update: If you read my whole profile, you'll see I took on a huge personal challenge and trained to compete in a charity boxing match. Well....I did it...and have the Champion's Belt to prove it! I'm a girl, I like pink, and I box. That's me.....maybe you'll think it's hot...maybe you won't!
I haven't found a that "spark" in awhile so I thought maybe I'd take a look around here for one. I'm a pretty easy-going, athletic, independent woman. I've built a life I really love and would enjoy finding the right man to share it. But all that is probably nothing new on this site, so here are a few insights to "me" that you may find appealing or conversely a complete turn off. Either way, they are true! So if you make it past screening my pics and are actually reading this...then it's time to decide. Are you window shopping or game to give it a go?
Random insights into me:
- I don't own a pair of pumps but I do have my "sexy boots"
- I wear a uniform to work
- I don't like coffee but love my tea latte's
- I am very punctual and have little patience for those who are not
- I can't stand walnuts or pecans
- I am rarely in bed past 6:30am
- I like to bake
- I am completely useless at keeping house plants alive
- I'm neat and tidy but pay to have the deep cleaning done
- I like sports but dont follow any teams
- I can be ready to go in about 10 mins
What am I looking for?
A man who: will eat my latest recipe experiment even if it doesn't turn out just right, will not mind having dog hair on just about everything, gives really good hugs, follows his heart and passion, is a good "mingler" at social events (because I'm not!), is attracted to a strong, independent woman with a soft heart, does what he says he's going to do, knows when to just listen, lives a healthy lifestyle but isn't afraid of a chocolate chip cookie, is kind, tips well, wants to fill life with new experiences and personal growth, is ready for a committed relationship, has no interest in drama, is taller than me, is trustworthy and most importantly....Loves Life!