Date men and women from United States / California / Hayward, 42 year old

Date men and women from California, United States. PLEASE HAVE PHOTO .....
I have a few photos of myself on here! you have to click on "see profile" then the pix will show up..
if i wink its because i would like to find out more about you..
And about me.... I have a great job, but it does not define me. I have a great family and I am an independent person as well. Yes, I will go to the movies alone if its something no one else wants to see. I am a great friend. funny. smart, cute. I am very mellow, easy going, and attention loving, yet i love quiet times to myself.
Family is very important to me .. Friends are also a life necessity. I have friends that I have known since high school, since college, from other states and from other countries. I value people over material things. Oh yes, I have a great sense of humor with the ability to laugh at myself should the occasion arise!
A well rounded man usually has a handful of close friends that have known him longer than this year! He has people in his life that look up to him as well as people he admires. A man of faith is a leader that doesn't lead by force or power but by humility, by example and by prayer.
I would like to meet someone and become friends ... If that may one day lead to a relationship then that is great !! If it leads to a great friendship then that's beautiful too. I like Someone with common sense as well as smarts. i give and want respect, honesty and loyalty ...
I love watching sports and being active. I am not a professional athelete so please do not ask me to accompany you on your next marathon but I will be your best cheer leader! I love to walk, hike, bike, or be at the lake. Not necessarily swim, but hanging out is just as fun!
I am looking to meet a man of the same faith. If you believe the teachings of Christ then you know the task at hand... Christ was our example and he gave up his life for us so that we might have life.
Life has great possibilities with the right person. are you out there?

Meet people from California, United States. Well here we go (again-haha) . What could I possibly tell y'all that doesn't sound like something you have already read in another woman's summary. I could go on and on about how I was born in the PI , I'm mixed with Italian, grew up in CA with a long stint in TX - hence the "Y'all". I can be super humble and not at all mention that I'm funny - actually hilarious - down to earth, pretty optimistic, driven, independent and blah blah blah. I know you men out there are probably expecting me to also go on and on about what motivates me and how I thrive ea day to be who I am. Well guess what, I'm not gonna do any of that here. If you want to know me - THEN ASK ME - in person. Faint heart never won fair lady - GOOGLE IT! That's me -
And now you - **** You like women - really!!, yourself (completely, flaws and all) you believe that it's more important that I'm interested in you than be impressed with you. Driven, confident, honest, direct but not rude. Homework -Check out Holstee Manifesto.**** Wait there's more. Wait for it. Wait for it. oh yeah and you're not a naked headless body in your pics.
This is revised - Not fair if you don't have a picture, or you are sooooo small in your pic that you're the size of a jelly-belly. You can see me I can't see you - Kinda creepy stalker. I know I've heard the horror stories of guys who meet girls and the chick ends up not even close to what her pics look like. Yeah on the flip side - you dudes are awesome online/texting phone/email and then ya send someone that kindda looks like you to the meet up and he's not that awesome. - No I'm not bitter - at all - Haha.
And finally - I know I didn't really put much about myself here but, think of my lack of information as the same as if you were walking down the street or at the coffee shop or whatever and see someone, who you know absolutely nothing about!. Ya smile, make eye contact and then you use those "twig & berries" that you were born with to go say HI - (and hope to god she doesn't have spinach in her teeth)
If you didn't laugh, snicker, grimace or at least raise an eyebrow and think - what the...is she serious? You and I won't get along. - Go back to paragraph 1&2 and my little title thingy and read it one more time. Don't be so firkin serious :P