Date a woman from California, United States. I am somewhat shy. I think it is important to have a sense of humor. I don't know where I would be without mine. I also think it's important not to let the stress of everyday life with work and all interfere with our ability to have fun, relax and enjoy the people in our lives. I'm looking for someone who is romantic, not afraid to have old fashioned values like opening a door for me etc. and someone who will work to maintain a healthy relationship. It would be a plus to meet someone who loves to laugh and can see the positive side of life. I am also looking for someone who will stand by me during the tough times, when things for me aren't going so good, as I would do the same for him. I judge people by the way I see them treating others. If you don't have empathy for others or think you're above everyone else, then don't contact me. I don't take enjoyment out of how you got rid of your ex girlfriend or how rude you can be to someone in a department store. On the other hand, if you can't defend my honor or shut someone down when it's needed, then I'm also not interested. I love bad boys, I love tattoos, but there's gotta be something going on upstairs, like thoughts and opinions. I am looking for something that could turn out to be long term, something that means something. I hope to find someone who will go so far as to spoil me a little as I have put others ahead of myself in the past and I'm ready to be on the receiving end. Maybe some flowers, or a card or a little something something just for me. It's the thought that counts, even if it's a poem that you came up with yourself. If you are handy around the house and can fix things, hey, all the better! You wanna build me something or fix my car, go for it!! I will definitely show you my appreciation!