Date men and women from United States / California / Alta Loma, 42 year old

Date men and women from United States. A little something about me....
God, my children, family/ friends are the most important things to me. I never knew I could love so intently until my children were born. They have been my encouragement, my motivation, my lessons, my smiles, and my grounding. They have gone thru a lot of change and I feel my greatest accomplishment to date is that they kept their smiles and happy spirits.
I have a great career I enjoy. However, I do my best to keep things in perspective...or at least try. I enjoy it because it allows me to use both my creative and analytical sides while dealing with things I am passionate about. In my industry, it can be somewhat petty at times so it's important to me to look for ways to help others.
I'm looking for someone who can become my best friend, who is equally yoked, loves God, children, and family. He will become a partner, friend and lover who will make me laugh...and maybe cry, but will encourage. One who is strong enough to gently tell me what I need to hear, even if it's not what I want to hear. Someone to stimulate my mind and body to an equal degree.
I am sincere, nurturing, playful and fun loving, but can also be strong-minded and strong-willed...so not perfect. However, I have learned to stop and let go...even if I may not necessarily agree. Most people think that the big, over-the-top things impress me...what they don't realize is that it's the spontaneous, thoughtful things that make me smile most inside.
The rest can be shared later...