Date men and women from United States / California / Napa, 42 year old

Date a soulmate from United States. One man told his friend, "I think my wife is dead." The friend says, "What do you mean you think?" "Well, everything is the same in bed, but the dishes are piling up in the sink." It's a bit easier for me to tell jokes in writing, but I love this one. I mean really, the trick is to keeping everything alive in a relationship, right?
I am passionate about most everything I do, from walking my doggie Archie, meeting new clients (I am a coach and tutor), being with my kids, to doing dishes :-) I don't want this to be misunderstood, regarding promiscuity. I am looking to get to know some nice people, but not to be intimate until I have met someone special.
So, how am I supposed to choose a body type for myself? I chose curvy, but do not want this to be misinterpreted as overweight. I am fit and in shape, but I also am not a stick.
Living in the present moment helps make everything come alive. I used to live well, but now, I am thriving, delving deeply into each and every experience. I love laughing, being silly, cuddling, holding hands, and living fully, in each moment. People who have a zest for living are intriguing to me.
I love meditating and yoga and am on a spiritual path. I would enjoy someone who is also on a spiritual path, because it's a huge part of my life. I don't mean organized religion. I tend to veer away from that. Humans have a way of misinterpreting true spirituality. I mean in the way of finding the silver lining, being silent and listening to the sound of nature, going inside to find passion and purpose in this life.
Eventually I would love to live part-time in Hawaii, maybe 2-3 months per year. I love it over there, and am working on my online presence in my business so I can live wherever I choose. I believe in living passionately and following my dreams. I want to find someone who visualizes their life dreams, and lives in that reality. Our thoughts create our world. I would enjoy creating a loving relationship with a dreamer who has this vision.

Meet a woman from United States. I'm genuine, simple, practical, compassionate, athletic, elegant (yet never afraid to get my hands dirty)
My best trait and curse: integrity
I enjoy: spending time together doing anything from nothing to snuggling, sport, traveling, exploring, gardening, cooking...the order depends on the day
My regular activities: running, tennis, yoga
I value: confidence, honesty, communication, integrity, family
Food: anything from In-n-out to a Michelin Star restaurant
Music: my favorite Pandora mix is 80's music and Latin (Mana, Juanes, Aventura...)
It also contains a classical station, classic rock etc.
I can do without: arrogance, ignorance, dishonesty, pickiness, poor communication
Must: chemistry and travel
I have no preference whether you are bald, hairy, tall, short, or of what race.
Once you have chemistry and mutual admiration in a relationship, I believe everything else falls into place.
An interest in travel is sort of important because my family lives in Europe. And there are so many places, cultures and foods to be explored :)
I will reply to every wink and mail (except w/o pics), one way or another. I feel that is the least I can do to acknowledge your effort.

Date people from United States. This whole online thing is completely foreign to me, but I live in a very small town with little, to no chances of meeting anyone new, so I thought I'd give it a try! So here goes nothing! :)
First off, I love to laugh...life is too serious not to laugh on a regular basis...and I'm usually laughing at myself! Cuz if you can't laugh at yourself, you're taking life way too seriously! :)
I love, love, love to travel...spontaneously or planned....either way is fun...just don't forget to call me if you have an extra plane ticket! Would love to live overseas in the future and check out what the world has to offer. Of course, that would be after I finish raising my boys...ages 10 and 13...keeps me very busy, and very active chasing them around, playing ball (of any size and
shape), going on adventures, and all the while laughing!
Other things about me...I'm outgoing, love chatting up the next person at the grocery store, bar, bus, Giants game..pretty much anywhere, I am very loyal and trusting, positive attitude, love to be a kid as often as the world allows me (and even when it doesn't!), adventurous, spontaneous, confident in who I am and what I want in life, I love openly and generously, and of course, I'm a bit sarcastic...okay, maybe ridiculously sarcastic with a warped sense of humor! I'm a nurse...what more would you expect?! :)
I'm looking for a guy who can hold his own with my strong, energetic personality..one who is confident in himself, who doesn't take himself, or life too seriously, who is ready to play and laugh and enjoy all life has to offer...even if it's the morning paper in bed on a rainy day. :) Seems simple, right? Ha ha...guess we wouldn't be here if it was! I'm willing to give it a try if you are. :)

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