Date a soulmate from California, United States. I am a retired university professor. I grew up in Holland and started a career in the merchant navy and sailed on merchant ships for 3 years in order to see and discover the world. When I turned 22 I discovered what I wanted to do for the rest of my life and emigrated to the US to study forestry and later ecology. I have always loved plants and natural vegetation. While I have traveled and lived abroad a great deal in my life (I have lived in 5 countries), I also love being at home with friends, a good book, a great movie, or some classical music or good jazz. Most importantly I love being with female company.
I am a happy person who loves to laugh, go out with friends, or have them over at my house for a glass of wine, beer, or dinner as I like to cook. I do not suffer from depression, and rarely get angry as I find it damaging to both the other person and to myself. I am even tempered and generous and get along with almost every one, but don't take well to mean (with money besides the other kind), opinionated, and selfish people. I enjoy my male friends for their conversation that is usually focused on the world outside oneself, but enjoy my female friends even more for their views that are more often focused on the world within oneself.
I am affectionate, and greatly value the importance of close friendships. Earlier in my life, life was all about the journey of going forward and outward, now it has become a journey of going forward and inward, towards discovery of both oneself and of others.
Meet a man from California, United States. love without selfishness,give the smile and help to others those who realy need
That is smile from your heart.Trust is the first step of your happy life.trying to find a friend who can trust me rest of my life.because life is very short.thamkyou
Date single man from California, United States. Thank you for reading my profile!
Why don't you sit right down here for a minute on this virtual cushion (pat, pat, pat) and let's have a nice chat.
As you can see from my photos, I may no longer be a poule de printemps but I'm nowhere near my sell-by date. I'm tall, well-educated, well-groomed and I have no insufferable habits that would make you want to just scream. I have a very pleasant and kind disposition but being born and raised in New York, you know there's always going to be an edge. I am never smarmy.
I'm in good shape and physically very active.
I like to talk, even concerning things I don't know anything about. There's a certain talent there, but I've never quite managed to turn that into a huge profit.
I'm still working, happily, for myself as I've always done since my 20s. I just couldn't find a career on the rack as a young man that fit me, so I made up my own. I wear a lot of hats but I have only one head. Some men might fail to mention that but I believe in being very honest.
Although I was raised as a city boy, and will always be comfortable in the metropolis, as I've matured I've taken more to country life. I even have a garden, for gawd's sake. And here I thought that all vegetables grew in shrink wrap and all insects were roaches. I'm stunned with my newly acquired talents.
In terms of “what I'm looking for”, there's no set pattern here but like most of you out there, it would be great to share experiences and travel with someone you're just a little, or a lot, ga-ga over. I like my women strong and my tea weak. If you've taken good care of yourself, or tried to, as I have, we'd probably be a better match.
I'm young at heart, too, so I know what's going on in the world, with tech, etc. and have friends of all ages.
Best of all, I'm fun. “Beware the man who cannot laugh at himself.” (that's from my mom when she beat me in poker).
PS: Please be wonderful
FAQ DEPARTMENT:
Q: How come you were never formally married?
A: I forgot.
Q: Would you date me if I were a conservative?
A: If you were a fiscal conservative, yes, definitely. If you were a social conservative, do NOT press the “send” button.
Q: Do you believe in a Supreme Being?
A: No, but I do miss him. But if you do, go for it. By the time either of us finds the answer to that, we probably won't be dating anymore.
Q: Are you the artistic type or the rational type?
A: Balanced. I can do both pretty well. Inventive would be a good word for me.
Q: Do you like to dance?
A: Meh...not really, but you can dance for me (zowie!)
Q: Who is your favorite artist?
A: Van Gogh, but not so much the part about his ear and the hooker and trying to stab Gauguin and stuff.
Q: Have you met anyone on match?
A: Yes, some wonderful people! Dated one for a year but she was actually in love with her cat, come to find out. I was a fool not to see it.
Meet someone special from California, United States. Originally from So Cal I grew up in Santa Barbara and graduated in architecture from UC Berkeley in the late 60's. While in college my primary interests included art, design, athletics (competition swimming/water polo) and the environment. These interests still remain and in concert with having been well raised and great timing, have enabled me to exceed my expectations (for which I'm keenly appreciative) and are foundational to my character and attempt to live a multi dimensional, positive, considerate, thoughtful and sometimes healthy lifestyle.
I'm unpretentious, easy going but can be assertive and highly focused,honorable, somewhat offbeat yet traditional and stable. I'm confident and comfortable knowing who I am and at ease in most situations,,excluding red lights in the rear view mirror. I'm artistic, visual, have eclectic musical tastes and a Bill Maher/Mel Brooks/Larry David sense of humor
I'm outside as much as possible (in any weather) and consider most challenges opportunities. At my age, however, I've learned to govern my willingness to try "anything" but still retain a sense of adventure and curiosity, a " what if " perspective. I find serenity in solitude (at times) and in simple activities like walking my dog on the beach or looking out over the western horizon, straight into the future.
Certain in the knowledge that who you're with is far more important than what you're doing, I believe life is a gift best shared with a partner in an electric, affectionate long term relationship ignited by an ethereal spark which cannot be denied but over time can be fleeting. To endure and flourish, a relationship must be grounded in trust, mutual respect, kindness and sensitivity. Nothing is perfect in the absolute , however a women who reflects my viewpoint and is (to me) intellectually stimulating, artistic/creative, adventurous and positive, spiritually connected, independent to a degree, takes pride in her appearance, mentally and physically healthy, unafraid of intimacy, sensual and feminine,,,,, would be a magic carpet ride through time. Who ever said no to a magic carpet ?
Time travels at light speed. No commodity is more precious. In a blink, tomorrow is yesterday.
When I hold my grandson I realize how precious it is and my connection to the past and to the future.
Date a soulmate from United States. easy going guy with good humor
common sense and ability to laugh at myself
highly experience in dealing with different people siuations have a good understanding of human nature and enjoy getting to know new people
i am patient and understanding and try to be supportive of people with different outlooks on life
Meet a man from United States. I must say that I've met some lovely women here in the past. Several of which have become good friends. Still, I've yet to meet the one I'll miss, the moment she walks out of the room. Sure, I've had to make a few "I'm sorry, you're great but.." calls. And received a couple myself. But that's okay. Better to be (tactfully) honest early on, then to play games and waste someone's time. Or worse yet, to hurt them along the way. Am I seeking perfection? Not a chance, as I can't offer perfection in return. I'd like to think of myself as caring and compassionate. I am also extremely passionate....with those who I care for and about things in life that I believe in. I would like to meet someone who has the same sort of sensibilities. Someone who is bright, informed and concerned about what's going on in the world. One who is attractive on the outside and beautiful within, romantic, affectionate (a kiss in a crowded room, just because), with style and grace and who enjoys being a woman. My perception of an ideal relationship is one where we can share and enjoy our mutual interests, yet allow each other the freedom to pursue those things that interest them alone. Where the dialogue is not judgmental but spirited nevertheless. A relationship where affection and intimacy come naturally, out of a mutual desire, caring and respect for one another. And yes, I'm a hopeless romantic. So....only hopeful romantics need reply. Oh...and please have a reasonably current photo and NO winks. I'd much rather read your thoughtful words. Physical attraction aside (for the moment), I find intellect to be a very sexy attribute.
Date single man from United States. I am retired and enjoying life. I have the love of my children who live back East. I am rather old fashion and enjoy being a gentleman. I enjoy making others happy. My friends are amazed that I am such a giving person, I must have a partner who likes to give back.
During the week, I may be found in my old fashion tin shop. My tools pre date the Gold Rush. Using old techniques, I create historical reproductions out of tin, or copper. That's not to say that I do not make modern items for around the house or for campng. On weekends you may find me at one of the State Parks entertaining families by telling stories about the past. I also demonstrate tin smithing.
I am a rather out going person who trys to be very thoughtful, and kind. I am very trusting, up to being lied to.
I am looking for a partner that can enjoy life together. Having separate friends and hobbies is important to any relationship. Being kind, thoughtful and caring towards each other is a must.
Meet someone special from United States. I am a very romantic man, in good physical health, looking for the same in a woman. I am looking for someone that I can be friends with and talk to. I would like this person to be beautiful on the inside, the outside just has to be appealing so that there is chemestry. It's most important that we like each other. Chemestry, communication, togetherness, commitment, and romance, this is what I am seeking and what will keep a relationship strong and happy.
I love a fireplace in the bedroom, walks holding hands, candle lite and good wine, lakers basketball, USC football, reality TV shows. I love my family and friends..you can't have enough.
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. MAN LIVING ONLY WITH CATS NEEDS WOMAN! I can communicate, cook, know how to say it hurts, know how to say I am sorry, and even listen and I CAN STOP AND ASK FOR DRIVING DIRECTIONS WHEN LOST :-) I even have a sense of humor? I am a business professional and college graduate, living on the West Side. I am tall, dark and have blue eyes, very intelligent and have it mostly together, but still working on it. :-) I am divorced without kids, but I have my cats Belle & Butters. It would be great to have someone in my life beyond my cats to relate to, as they can only meow back when I try to communicate my deepest thoughts and feelings. I would love to hear from you should you feel we might be compatible. I keep in shape by doing the gym thing, pumping the weights, keeping up on my boxing skills with the heavy bag and playing lots of paddle tennis at the beach. Photos taken 4-29-12. I would like to hear from women between the ages of 50-65 who are attractive,bright and have dealt with much of the baggage from early in life and who can commit to a serious relationship. Is that you? I hope so.
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