Date women from United States / California / La Mesa, 52 year old

Date a woman from United States. Greetings and thanks for stopping by.
I'm looking for my life partner, my equal, the love of my life. Once the dating dust settles it is a committed, monogamous relationship. Physically you'd be at least six feet tall and healthy. I so enjoy the body fit with a taller man. And lots of physical lovin'.
A compatible philosophy/attitude is the most important aspect of a relationship to me. Chemistry is also a must, otherwise might as well have a roommate. And throw in fun and humor. The man I am looking for is someone who brings out the best in me and I'll do the same with him. My hero, my lover, my #1 - and I will give you all of me - my heart, my feelings, my love, my sensuality, my appreciation, my affection, my attention, my adoration, my confidence, my vulnerability. One word that best describes me: dynamic.
When I was 7, I sang 'Somewhere Over The Rainbow' to the grass and trees from the porch outside my back door. Even then, I knew there was more to life than what I had experienced. I kept a keen eye out for how I could know more, experience more, be more. I went through years of searching for the meaning of life, is there a god, why am I here. And then I realized I already was everything I was searching for, and I was here for the fun of creating. I have found that each person has the option of operating from a consciousness of fear and lack or from love and abundance.
With the ability to choose differently, I've spent much of the past ten years bringing balance into my life and that translates into much work on increasing my consciousness, awareness, living larger, busting through illusions, stepping into a new paradigm, letting go of limitations and beliefs that weren't serving me. I realize that I create my reality through my perceptions and choices. No blame. Less judgment. More expansion. I'm an adventurer, journeyer and an explorer. The universe and my consciousness are the terrain.
Some of what I've come to know is that love is the key.
Guilt is not being honest with what my true desires are.
Choice is available from within fear and that it is the 'fear of fear' that paralyzes.
Wishers never chooose and choosers never wish.
Being easy with myself is loving.
Judgment results in separation.
Blame is not taking responsibility for my choices.
Confusion is the space between two or more choices.
Every person is made up of both masculine and feminine regardless of the exterior.
We are all more alike than different.
Row, row, row your boat is one of the most profound songs I know.
Simplicity rocks.
The Beatles had it right - love is all there is.
I am balanced left and right brain - where my logic and common sense meets my creativity and intuitiveness. As an empath, I can tune into others quickly and resonate with them - which makes me an incredible friend for I really can put myself in others' shoes. That is the basis for my compassion for others and passion for life. I am able to connect with people at a heart level. Those people who resonate with me receive my most generous nature and loyalty.
A few things that I am good at are... getting to the bottom line. Finding solutions. Emotional support. Laughing at myself. Listening. Kissing. Hugging. Wanting more and yet enjoying where I am. Stained glass. Kiln formed glass. Having a conversation. Cooking. Organizing. Entertaining. Keeping the house running smoothly. Anticipating what pleases you. I'm a modern day combination of Heloise and Socrates with my theme song of ZZ Top's "She's Got Legs..."
As for work, I've done a few things in the past decade or so - publicist, consultant, software architech, VP of systems management for a software company. I've had a wonderful career and am no longer set on being a career woman. At one time I had 63 suits with matching shoes. Been there. Done that. Over it. I've found that relationships are my most valuable assets.

Meet someone special from United States. A little about me...
I am very friendly, confidant and outgoing. I am comfortable with where I am in life and who I am. I am not in need of a Sugar Daddy. I have a great career, am finacially stable, and love what I do
I am a mother of two teenage sons who live with me some of the time, and with their father part of the time.
I love to travel, daytrips, weekend trips or longer trips. I prefer tropical places- Mexico, Hawaii, The Caribbean and the South Pacific, but colder climates are great also. I enjoy the food and culture of other countries, especially Mexico, love Mexican food. Browsing around local stores on a sunny day is wonderful, so is sitting on the beach where the sand is white and the water is 86 degrees with a bucket of ice cold beers or a margerita.
I enjoy camping as long as theres a coffee pot available. Coffee is a good thing. I would love to learn to fish.
I enjoy cooking and BBQing. Trying new foods and recipies is fun and adventerous. Sitting in a jacuzzi and around a fire pit in the evening is something I enjoy with friends and family, and especially with the man in my life.
Photography is a hobby of mine. I love taking pictures of places and people.
I want to live the rest of my life to the fullest with a wonderful man by my side and our children all around. Family is the greatest gift we have,
About the one I'm looking for...
I am looking for a man who is kind, loyal, faithful, affectionant and compassionate. He must be gainfully employed and or finacially stable. I would like someone who wants to spend time together doing things we both enjoy, be it going out to dinner, staying home and cooking, watching a movie, walking in the beach or on an hiking trail, planning a camping trip, or a trip to Home Depot and doing a project at the house, and isn't afraid to go out and get a little crazy. LIfe is way to short ot be boring. Quality time with somone you love is a wonderful thing.
I also love to go to the gun range and shoot. Its a great way to bond with my sons, who also enjoy shooting, and target practice is great therapy, who needs a pshychiatrist when one can shoot zombies at the range. I own a Glock ( and want a Ruger LCP, but thanks to the nanny state we live in, I can't buy one) and a Rossi rifle and love it. It would be fun if the you enjoy that also.
Please have current pictures of you. Mine are current. I will not respond to any profile that does not have pictures. Sorry!!!
Lastly, I am looking for someone who lives locally to me. It's a little hard to date someone who lives hundreds of miles away. Thank you.

Date a soulmate from United States. young at heart, love to enjoy life ,some live music sunset dinner, and why not walk in the sand,
Would like to meet a man who is confident ,caring loving, have two wonderful kids (28 and 18) no drama in my life, easy going person , love my job
and my kids,and love to be outdoors

Meet a woman from La Mesa, United States. I'm a quiet person when I first meet someone new, but once I feel comfortableI can be very talkative. Honesty and loyalty are very important to me, and I care very deeply for the people in my life. My children are my joy and having them taught me alot about myself. I'm a good friend and listener, doing everything I can to help out in any situation. I love to laugh and be playful.
Lately I haven't been very lucky when it comes to dating and finding Mr. Right, but I haven't given up. Recently I've decided that it's time for me to stop playing it safe, and I need to step outside my comfort zone and need to be more adventurous and open to trying new things. I'd like to find a man with lots of different interests, hopefully at least a few that are similar to my own. I'd enjoy a man who is humorous and outgoing, yet relaxed. I need a man who interested in taking things slow, as I've rushed into relationships in the past that were unsuccessful.

Date someone special from La Mesa, United States. Im looking to walk and converse, to laugh and seek adventure. Maybe dance or movies and discover restaurants (hole in the walls). I love to connect with other beings emotionally and have authentic fun. I love to garden, and cook Mexican food. I like chubby men that are true to life and have integrity.

Meet a soulmate from La Mesa, United States. Loyalty is a paramount in any relationship. I was married for 22 years, and I am getting divorced because cheating is a no-no in my dictionary. That, and many other things that became clear after the separation. We still work together and keep a very amicable front. My three children (only one of them is still in high school) are the light of my life, my joy and pride, and because of this, I am a mother first, and a "girlfriend, partner, wife or whatever comes" after. This is not to say I wouldn't be commited to a relationship, but it should be understood that my family comes first. It would be a gift to me to be able to mesh my companion to my family life.
I come from the south of the Americas. I am a contractor. I run a business along with my ex (it is my bread and butter) source, and a very good one. I am taking classes at Grossmont College pursuing Linguistics, and UCSD Extenstion for a translator/interpreter certificate (Spanish). I don't think I am too creative, but love photography and painting, mostly decorative paintings, and gardening is a passion. Something about being in awe of what nature can give us in return for a little care...Reading a good book can fill a Sunday or any night for hours...And when everything else fails, I put my running shoes on, and off I go. Lake Murray is my favorite course, late in the afternoon when the sun is going down...So beautiful! A very good cook of the one item at a time. If two items needs cooking at the same time, one will come out in different shades of browns and black. Other than that, I can be almost perfect...I wish I could think of things that would paint you a picture of who I am, but I think I am much more interesting in person.
All great relationships start with a good friendship, and that is the start I am looking for.
Thank you for the moment of your time, and wish you luck in your search.
I like to travel, explore new places whenever I have a chance. I've been to a few places in the world, and would like to meet new ones or rediscover the old ones.