Date women from United States / California / Modesto, 52 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I refuse to list my "wants" and "want nots". It's simple really, honesty, excellent communication skills, desire/attraction/chemistry to last the years, a man that can dance, make me think, smile and laugh, a strong man, body and soul. A man I think about randomly that "brings a smile to my face." I want to desire "him" 20 YRS from now just as much/more than the day I met "him" and vice versa.
I was recently asked "repeatedly" "what I bring to the table?" If you feel you need to ask, PLEASE, don't bother with me! You are Way to shallow 4 me! FURTHERMORE. I'm NOBODY'S 2nd CHOICE!. If you are seeing someone fine, then don't contact me, period.. I AM NOT NEGATIVE, BUT I WASN'T BORN YESTERDAY EITHER, I am real, upfront, and expect the same:)
What I am looking for is that something "special"- I refuse to settle. We all deserve to be with somebody who "gets our magic," and that idea has stuck with me. No one should settle for "good enough," and we all deserve to be with somebody that amazes and excites us. . I prefer to be by myself then with the wrong man-lonely and alone are very different. I am tired of dating, want to find 1 man to spend quality time with, enjoy, get to know ,see where it leads. I AM LOOKING for a relationship. I do absolutely believe a healthy relationship MUST consist of a consistent, passionate, sensual, sexual relationship, this I will not compromise.
I am not perfect, if perfection is what you seek, it is not here, I didn't get to this point in my life by making all the right choices -and unlike some who so vehemently declare that "at this point in my life I've made all the mistakes I'm gonna make" -God Bless,I wouldn't even think to make such a declaration about myself, frankly, I find that totally "arrogant. " if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." I enjoy the sun-working in the yard-sitting outside drinking my coffee or beer, reading outside, lounging in the pool, dining on a brisk morning, or at sunset . I am an excellent cook, truly enjoy cooking for my family and friends would like to find a man to share the kitchen with, prepare a meal, talk, take the opportunity to "share" the experience with. I am a water person-though I love the mountains, foothills, but honestly prefer the coast or any water, be it the Delta, local lakes etc . I am comfortable almost anywhere, and am quite diverse. I'm not looking for perfection, only the man that is perfect for me and I won't know him till I meet him, this I am sure. I'm not here looking for casual sex; should you be, well good luck, frankly it's just not necessary for me to pay a monthly fee for sex, just a fact.
I'm Petite at 4'10.5", 122-126 #-I'm a good woman, spiritual, funny, very witty and quick on my feet -intelligent but somewhat of a "brat" :) I'm social -enjoying being a woman rather than a girl I feel better now than ever in my life. I am very energetic and personable. Easy keeper, move with ease from the farm to the theatre, jeans to little black dress! I enjoy wearing different hats, I am not one to be easily defined..
I am a single mom with 3 great kids-they have grown so fast, and they are thriving:)
I enjoy good conversation and company. Ready to meet and develop a relationship with 1 man. I keep my eyes open:) but would truly love to be "blindsided" --overwhelmed and caught off guard by the joy of meeting someone special BUT FOR ME, I will know him when I meet him I HAVE TO HAVE CHEMISTRY--a spark--immediately to go on to the next level -just who I am. 1 THING I do not find attractive at all is ARROGANCE on ANY LEVEL! I KNOW that money/things/education does not define "class" do you know that?

Meet someone special from California, United States. Hello, First thanks for taking the chance to read this. I live in the Central valley of California about 125 miles south of Sacramento. So with that said I am not looking for a long distance relationship.
I am very family minded and still do alot woth my parents. I also have 3 Boston Terriers that I just love.
A few of my favorite things are Garage sales, Antiques and cars. I do like to watch NASCAR.
I am looking fo a guy/Man who has some of those same likes.But there is lots of room for new things too.
Drop me a line sometime and we can talk.

Date a woman from California, United States. A nice guy!! And he like me. I like dogs and cats, like to work at the back yard! cook ing is my fav, , but most the Vietnamese food. I like to go to the beach to enj with the warm weather. I also like to fishing

Meet a soulmate from Modesto, United States. I love to smile. I adore my children and grandchildren as they are my life and I am blessed to have them. I am extremely passionate about life and friendships. I make friends for life. My friends would describe me as loyal, caring, responsible, dedicated and happy. I am passionate about everything I enjoy in life. You will see this through my eyes which light up with excitement when I experience something new. I enjoy the company of others and exploring new travels. I am grateful for my life, my family, my children and the opportunity to be with the people that I love. I am searching for a soul mate. One who will love spending quiet times together and love having fun, I love socializing with friends and want a companion who enjoys others too.

Date someone special from Modesto, United States. Kinda sarcastic...but always in a loving way ;) gotta laugh in life! A dedicated compassionate and honest person, looking for the same. Passed the drama, lies and stories to enhance a persons life. It all comes out in the wash I was told and believe wholeheartedly! I love a relaxed lifestyle, very low maintenance but do like to get away whenever the chance is there. I love the country...don't care for the hustle and bustle of a big city and alot of traffic. Love sleepin in with the right person, especially on rainy mornings, coffee in the am, kahlua and cream in front of a fire at night....that's me :)