Date women from United States / California / San Rafael, 52 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. So, if you're actually reading and not just looking at pictures (smile), about the 'no winks'. . . Seriously, would you wink at a total stranger you saw in the market or a restaurant? Kinda creepy. . and doesn't seem like much of an effort to send a message if you're interested instead of a virtual wink. Thanks for saying 'hello'.
I'd like to meet a man who is confident and good-hearted. One who can keep up verbally but knows when talking is not necessary. Laughter is an essential part of the day for me - if you need inspiration, just turn on the news! You should also be successful and reasonably happy - whether your success is being the best at whatever your passion is or that passion has made you monetarily successful, the point is that you feel good about yourself. Me? I'm essentially the things I'm looking for. I'm blessed with good friends, good health, challenging and interesting work and I don't take the important things for granted. Or obsess on the insignificant ones. As my Mama always said, 'Choose Happiness'. And I do believe it is a choice. . .It's Life, Liberty, and the pursuit of Happiness, not the guarantee of it. . . Anyway, philosophizing and all kidding aside, I think we are on this site because we hope to find the person who adds something special to our lives. My life is good, fun, and interesting. . .it would be better with someone to share it all with.
A favorite quote that tells you a bit about me - 'Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain'.

Meet a woman from California, United States. How does one best describe ones self? My friends say I am loyal, have a good sense of humor, appreciate the small things in life, and am not opposed to trying new things. I am one who is comfortable with who I am and happy with my life; but would like someone to share all the wonders in my life. I have reached the point that I understand that life's challenges define you but do not have to be carried with you.
My ideal match is someone who has a good sense of humor, likes to do things yet is also happy staying in and having a quiet evening. I am looking for some who is also living a full life and would like to share it. I am looking for someone who enjoys life and the celebration of life in the BIG and small things life offers. I would like someone who enjoys a fabulous dinner out as well as a quiet breakfast people watching while sipping coffee and munching on bagels. I am looking for someone who is joyous and steady, that understands that relationships are worth working on and well as a pleasure to savor.