Date women from United States / California / La Mesa, 42 year old

Date someone special from La Mesa, United States. Hello there, I am a down to earth, family oriented person, I enjoy my morning coffee with the news or a good book on the weekends, I go to TBK class or zumba twice a week it would be nice to have someone to work out with them maybe i would get althetic results :) I keep busy with family and friends, I like movies, music anything but rap or heavy metal, I enjoy summer concerts,walks on the beach, mission trails, Dinner with friends, shopping, I don't eat sea food, I don't like pets on my bed, i'm afraid of hieghts and I hate spiders and taking out the trash. I have to trust someone before starting an intimate realtionship. My friends say I'm fun, loyal, dependable, outgoing,independent, I have four Son's 2 at home 16 and 17 yrs old, they don't think i'm funny or cool and hate that i want to know everything. All by boy's are amazing in thier own way. I like my job where I have been 12 yrs in a medical office, I don't have any drama in my life except the bumps in the road that teenagers occaionally bring. I would like to meet someone who I can laugh with, a friend that i can trust and make new memories with.